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The Continuing Adventures of the First Time Frolicker Graduates....

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Hermya321 · 01/05/2010 20:01

Right (plonks self down and breaks out the biscuit tin and tea bags), I've stuck the kettle on. Whose joining me?

ARRIVALS:

Fulhamgirl - EDD 30th May - DOB 9th Apr - Girl - Lily Ann - 4lb

CURRENT__GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May - Boy
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - 23rd Jun - Girl - Erin Elizabeth
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul - Boy - Dylan
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul - Secret
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul - Girl
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD 20th Jul
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24th Aug
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD 4th Sep
WhiteRoses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 15th Sep - Boy
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 16th Sep
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 24th Sep
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD 11th Oct
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 12th Oct
Hermya321 - BFP 12th Feb - EDD 24th Oct
fudgecat - BFP 19th Feb ? EDD 28th Oct
Pidgin - BFP 27th Feb - EDD?
Honeymoo - BFP ? - EDD 1st Nov
YorkshireTeaDrinker - BFP 1st Mar - EDD 6th Nov
DrewsGirl - BFP 4th Mar - EDD?
bunnygirl80 - BFP 12th Mar - EDD 19th Nov
Mumnerves - BFP 1st Apr - EDD 8th Dec
Spanishlady - BFP 3rd Apr - EDD?
luckyseven - BFP 8th Apr - EDD 17th Dec
Capricorn76 - BFP 12th Apr - EDD 1st Jan
Homebound - BFP 30th Apr - EDD 8th Jan

FUTURE_GRADUATES:

aly323
Ariesgirl
Bellaby
calligraphy82
Calyx
CaveMum
chalky3
cher rycobbler
claireinthecommunity
Dinkytinky
evilgiraffe
FelicityFlick
haloflo
Kaloki
kkas
kurl yvoice
misshoohaa
MrsWajs
Muser
Papertiger
pinkiePoo
pipsicles
seablue
Sevans
Stiffybyn g
Wannamummy
Zippys

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Ozziegirly · 25/05/2010 00:12

Whiteroses I may have a solution to your heat boob rash. I sometimes get this too in the heat, and I use Bottom Butter underneath my boobs - not too much. Just dry off after a shower and put a small amount there and it seems to stop any rash.

Smells nice too.

Lovely to hear from you and hear that all is going so well.

bunnygirl80 · 25/05/2010 07:36

worrisome your dream sounds horrible. I've had a couple of scary ones (usually the night before my scans) where there was something wrong with the baby.

I'm actually trying to enjoy the cooler weather as I know that in a few months I'll be moaning to you all about how bad it is being heavily pg when it's 35 degrees outside

ozzie glad you're managing to get some hand me downs. We're the same with all of our family being in the UK - my SIL has offered to send me some of her LOs old clothes, but he was a winter baby and mine will be summer so lots of his stuff isn't really suitable. And all the big stuff that's going to cost us loads is too big to send over anyway.

mumnerves sorry about the sickness. I found that doing to much was a definite way to make myself feel awful. The second trimester is much more fun - I feel completely normal now, except for my abs which are getting seriously streched by my expanding insides

chance you may well get some more scans when you come over here - my ob does rountine third trimester scans to check size and position of baby. There do seem to be some moves towards stopping people having the 4d scans "just for fun" though - I think this is related to the number of places that are offering them just for the pictures without looking for any diagnostic things at all.

roses nice to see you back. 42H I really don't envy you having to carry those around with you. Glad you're feeling less sick

Not sure about a link between anterior placentas and posterior presentation. I'm sure I read somewhere that anterior placentas tend to move as the pg progresses and the uterus enlarges moving it up and back, so maybe it won't be anterior any more by the time baby's position really matters

Had a lovely long lunch with my friend and her nearly 5 month old DD today. She forced me to let me feed her a bottle and settle her to sleep to get some practice in. She kept pushing the bottle out of her mouth and then trying to stuff it back in but getting it up her nose instead....it was sooo cute. She kept trying to steal my lunch off my plate as well, which wasn't so cute as noone comes between a pg lady and her food

When I got home all my new clothes from asos had arrived as well - only 4 days from the UK to here - and they all fit perfectly. They hug my belly properly and make me look like I have a bump rather than excess flab so I'm feeling happy now.

Spirael · 25/05/2010 09:43

Morning all! A bit cooler today outside, which is a shame in some ways, though I'm back at work now so not too worried. I was actually enjoying seeing some sunshine over the weekend and didn't seem to struggle too much in the heat. I attended my friend's wedding on Sat - what a lovely day for it! There's a picture of the dress I wore (and the 31 week bump-!) in my profile.

Congratulations on the birth of Emily, Trying! Sounds like a bit of an epic saga, going on for 30 hours... So glad everything is fine! I expect you'll be busy over the next few weeks, but I hope you'll give us updates when you can. Once there's a few more LOs arrived, we'll have to make a First Time Frolickers post-natal thread!

There've been lots of new graduates since I posted last! Welcome to the madness, Seablue, Oneof8 and Aly! Fingers crossed the first few weeks pass with no concerns raised, and that you're all lucky enough to be spared the experience of morning sickness during your pregnancies.

I got my first Bounty bag months ago, Hermya. Nothing too exciting... A few reasonable freebee samples, a few useful leaflets with various bits of info and an awful lot of advertising tat. I'm not sure if I'll get the birth one, since I hopefully won't be at the hospital! Not sure whether I can claim it later if necessary.

Iron tablets are going ok so far. Had slight bathroom related trauma over the weekend thanks to it, but nothing too catastrophic or unexpected. Just need to up my fruit intake even more to counterbalance it, I guess! Luckily, it seems cherry season is starting up. I love cherries! Could eat them all day, and might just do so.

Nice to see you back, WhiteRoses! Glad everything seems to be going ok thus far, though you have my sympathies that the sickness hasn't eased off. I was lucky to find that mine stopped at around 13 weeks and hasn't really bothered me since. Hopefully yours will ease off at some point, rather than stick around for the duration!

Don't panic about the anterior placenta and back to back. I have an anterior placenta and at the last appointment Gadget was already head down and facing towards the rear-right, which is apparently pretty much spot on perfect for giving birth. Since I'm still getting kicked under my right arm, I don't think she's moved. No-one's mentioned any higher risks to me due to the placenta location.

Just 3 weeks left at work for me! Including this week. However due to holiday, I'm only actually working for another 11 days! Not that I'm counting down or anything, you understand...

Got my next midwife appointment at the clinic on Friday, then apparently the one after that will be conducted at my house! Mostly so they can assess it for access and make sure it has all the necessary facilities for me to give birth there. Nothing too catastrophic - just making sure it's got running water and the like. In some ways, it's quite exciting to be visited at home by a medical professional! Though I expect it's going to get dull fast.

Gadget is due exactly two months today! But it's only around a month now until Gadget is considered fully cooked and I'll be allowed to give birth at home once things kick off. We get the birthing pool in a few weeks time! It's all starting to feel very imminent, though I'm more excited than worried at present.

OneOf8 · 25/05/2010 13:32

Just to let you know Bellaby got a BFP today

Hope everyone is well

pixiestix · 25/05/2010 18:21

Ahh, its been so long since I managed a proper post. I finally have an evening free to just sit and MN, but I can't promise a post as epic as Roses'. Wow, you can talk, girl!! I love your mammoth posts.
And, yes, I think that 42H is definitely a record!! Are you secretly Pamela Anderson? Mine are only a 38F but lugging them around in this weather is seriously uncomfortable. Like Ozzie I am slapping on the Palmers cocoa butter left, right and centre!

Hermya - I have been thinking about your make up dilemma, post labour (because I am a deeply sad person who spends too much time thinking about this thread ) and I have come up with the perfect solution! Get yourself a Boots card, and join their parenting club. Then you get double points on nappies, wipes and loads of other baby related things. You can spend all your money on sensible baby-related things, but you have a rule whereby you MUST only redeem your points on fabulous make up. No cheating and buying nappies with them when you are short of cash. Ta-da! Of course, this only works if you have a decent branch of Boots nearby - the one near me does Chanel and all things nice, but I know some more rural ones are limited to No7 only!
How are you doing this week, anyway? You have been a bit quiet? The Grover nursery idea sounds gorgeous. I am totally overfaced with everything that needs to be done and bought for this baby. If you feel like sharing the list you made of everything you will need to buy then I would be reading intently!

Chance - I am at you only having 9 more weeks left to work. I have 11 still to go, and the end cannot come fast enough! I'm glad you are enjoying the sun - I am hating every second of it! I am usually a total sun worshipper, but this heat is just making me so sick and tired. I keep getting a stitch-like pain in my bump when I'm moving about in it - obviously the answer is to sit on my arse indoors all day until the cloud-cover returns to normal!

Fudgecat - how are you doing this week? Any news on the platelets?

Seablue - congratulations! I didn't hear about the rectal anti-biotic but just reading the words made my face do this - !

Spirael - gorgeous dress! I have a wedding to go to in June and then another in August and I hope I can find something as nice as that. At the moment I am living and dying in a floaty navy thing from Dorothy Perkins because it is just sooo comfortable.
ROFL at you naming your haemarroid George! Thats the attitude! I think I will be sobbing in a darkened room when I discover my first one!
I am at your MS stopping at 13 weeks - thats when mine properly kicked off! It is actually much better now, but I still have at least one spectacular retching fit a day, which I can generally get through with will-power and breathing. Sometimes it doesn't work and its head down the toilet time again.
Also jealous at being kicked in the armpit! LO is still beating the shit out of my cervix - its so bloody horrible!! But I'm telling myself that all movement is good.

LuckySeven - I hope you are having a glorious time in Italy! And that if the ash cloud / union strikes affect you on the way back you are put up in a gorgeous posh hotel free of charge for a little while!

Worrisome at your dream. I'm sure Mr Teeny is having a great time in there though. I know how you feel about wanting the scan out of the way. I became a bit of a basket case before my 20 week scan - if I hadn't been having one at all I probably would have been fine, but having the date get nearer and nearer I was imagining all sorts. Neurotic! But it was fine, and I'm sure that yours will be too.

Congratulations Bellaby! Come and talk to us soon!

Pepperoni - how are you doing? Do we have our next little Frolicker baby yet? I am thinking that silence might be very telling on this thread, given Fulham and Tryings AWOL periods!

OK, news from me. [breathes deeply and tries not to freak out] I know this is very immature and ridiculous of me, but.... because of the heat I was sitting naked in the living room last night (a gruesome image, do not picture it too clearly ) reading a book. Suddenly, I felt a dripping on to my belly and looked up, as you do. Nothing dripping from the ceiling. Further investigation - it was coming from my boob!! Eeeeeeewwww! I know, I know - its totally natural and I have always planned to breastfeed my baby, but I'm 22 weeks, I don't need drippy boobs right now!!!!
I am telling myself off about being so grossed out by it, and I'm sure that by 40 weeks it will be a blessing and not a curse.... but...... eeeeeeeeeeewwwwwww!!!!!

So glad to have got that out of my system.
You may judge me now if you want to.

seablue · 25/05/2010 19:40

No judgement pixie! That would completely freak me out as well! I'm afraid I can't advise about leaky breasts. Am still stuck between being weirded out that mine no longer feel like mine and then panicking when they feel more like mine again!

Thanks to all for the congratulations! Am on the pesky iPhone again waiting to see a play, so won't be able to match the heroic effort of roses and pixie. But I'm sorry about you dream worrisome, that sounds horrid. And sorry you're still feeling sick, pixie.

I'm seeing the consultant tomorrow to discuss how arcuate my arcuate uterus is. Am really hoping she says it's not going to be a problem. And that she doesn't mind that I've turned up pregnant to an infertility appointment!

Ok, there's the bell. Glad some of you enjoyed the heat, but also glad it's cooler now for the ones who were finding it tough.

Bunny - the new maternity clobber sounds great!

seablue · 25/05/2010 20:00

Oh, this is very important. Meant to say - chancewouldbeafinething STEP AWAY FROM THE INTERNET. Only horrors lurk there. Apart from here, of course, where all is sparkly and full of light.

aly323 · 25/05/2010 21:12

I'm at work, so can't do too much of a post. I really missed you guys when I was off ttc again. I really hope this one sticks! Had first beta fone with very good results, but that doesn't mean a thing without second or third result. I'm terrified that they'll be bad again. That first mc makes this so difficult- I so desperately want to be happy and hopeful and very, very pregnant.

WhiteRoses, not everyone who gets gestational diabetes get it again. I think it's about a 50% rate. My numbers are always slightly high, but they seem to go up some as soon as I get pregnant. We think I have pre-diabetes that amplifies when I get that pesky HCG in my system. Yesterday, they put me on four insulin shots a day again. It will all be worth it if this pregnancy works out well.

Ok, I've got to cut out, but I'll post tomorrow after my first results... good or bad, I'm sure I'll be needing your support!

chancewouldbeafinething · 25/05/2010 21:31

spirael lovely dress, and even more lovely bump I hope the last 11 days go fast!

Bunny i think 4 days is a record, it feels so much nicer when you wear clothes that are made for bumps doesnt it?

pixie dont forget i still have to move to sydney when i will be 30 weeks...it doesnt sound so good now does it? Sorry the heat is not agreeing with you, i found that i am fine as long as i am drinking water or lemonade almost non-stop. Well at least it's a bit cooler now
I am lmao at the boob leakage, and you looking at the ceiling...I keep finding some dried leakage when i wake up in the morning...that is not as shocking as yours

seablue good luck tomorrow, i wonder how many people go to those appointments and find out they are preganant?

I have my 20 week scan tomorrow morning....and i really can not wait! i hope i can sleep tonight.

I will let you know how it goes!

Spirael · 26/05/2010 09:17

I was quite lucky with the dress, it's a Jojo Maman Bebe dress from last summer, I think. Managed to get it new on eBay for around half the price it would have originally cost! Took a bit of a gamble on the sizing, but thanks to the forgiving style it worked out pretty well.

I'm hoping to get a bit more use out of it in the future, as I might be able to wear it as a non-maternity dress too. Especially for the first few months where my figure is still likely to be a bit squishy... Perhaps it'll do for the Christening at the end of summer!

George isn't so bad, pixie. He doesn't really hurt... He just sits there and keeps me company in the bathroom. Hasn't shown any inclination of getting bigger or multiplying yet, so hopefully it'll just be me and George for the duration.

I've been really lucky with MS that despite feeling rather rotten for the first few months I only actually threw up twice! For those, I think it was more an argument my stomach had with something I'd eaten which was then made worse with MS, rather than MS alone. However I did have to eat almost constantly for the first few months to try and get by, so had most of my weight gain then.

I'm quite pleased that I've not gained too much for the second half of pregnancy, I was worried if the gain continued that I'd end up enormous and have trouble getting back down afterwards! But I've only gained just under two stone so far, which isn't a disaster. If I can limit myself to around two and a half stone in total, I'll be pleased. A touch more than my book recommends, but to be honest I think the four size jump in my chest (so far!) can account for a lot of that!

I get kicked in the armpit, pixie, but at the same time I'm also getting headbutted in the bladder and having my cervix scrabbled at by tiny fingers which are apparently now well armed with teeny claws. So it's not all good...

Not experienced leaky breasts here...yet. I had some 'crud' on my nipples a week or two ago and was starting to think this was it - time to dig out the breast pads. But once I cleaned it up I've not seen any more since. It's probably because I'm organised with breast pads and night/nursing bras now, which means I won't have any problems with leaky breasts at all and my preparation will be a waste of time!

Keeping my fingers crossed for you Aly! Gadget is my second attempt and everything has been text book perfect, hoping that things will be similar for you this time around! My first, Hex, would have been due around now...which makes me a little sad. It's good that I have Gadget to focus on though!

After having a bit of a bad night where I was tossing and turning a lot between Mon and Tues, for some reason I slept through last night entirely! I didn't even need to get up to use the bathroom. Not that I'm complaining. I actually feel awake today, which makes a nice change-!

Probably just as well, I have my first 'parenting class' this evening at the hospital. I wonder if there'll be a test at the end? Must remember which end the nappy goes on...

Hermya321 · 26/05/2010 09:46

Hello Everybody!!

How are you all? I'm fine, LO seems to be moving more and more these days. I can also feel the outline of my uterus through my tummy. It's a bit strange to think theres a little one in there kicking me.

I've had really painful breasts the last few days and a lot of tummy pains and abdominal pains. I think that my organs don't like being squished and are protesting.

I went away last weekend, it was nice but at the same time I was so so tired I didn't really enjoy it as much as I would have done. It was lovely and warm though, I spent most of Saturday sat outside in a field on a blanket (and covered in factor twenty).

Lucky Could you turn one of the fireplaces into a storage space? How was your holiday?

Chance Hows the tiredness coming along?

Trying COngratulations on baby Emily!!! Bet it's fab having her here with you.

Bunny Well it may take me a while to gain the finances to get my dream crib, so for now I'm going to be buying a white one whilst I save up.

Aly I hope this ones a sticky one for you.

Worrisome Oh my, what a horrid dream.

Ozze Wow how generous are your friends, thats really good of them and will save you lots.

Mumsnerves Sorry you felt ill, are you feeling any better?

Whiteroses Can't believe you have a shy baby, maybe he was trying to make you wait a little longer. Oh and step away from google!!

Spireal Good luck with your parenting class this evening, I'm sure you'll be fine.

Aly How far along are you at the moment?

Pixie No judgeypants here, there have been times when I would like to just strip off in the last few days, only thing is my neighbours are well nosy and can see me prancing around my living room. I don't think they need to add a naked me to their troubles. Also great idea about the boots card, I think I'll go off and join their parenting club now. Only thing is, I live in ruralland and my local boots only do No.7 and the nearest decent one is about an hour away. I miss my big city living, I had two big boots to choose from there. If I have my way, as soon as we can I'll be packing up the house and going back to my glourious lovely city.

I think thats me caught up. Hope you're all well.

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WorrisomeHeart · 26/05/2010 20:55

Really quick post to say chance how did the scan go????

Hope all is ok..

pixiestix · 26/05/2010 21:02

Hello all, on this day of appointments! It seems like everyone was off to see a medical practitioner of some sort today!

Aly - we missed you too! Hope that the beta fone test results were good and you can start to be a little hopeful about this bean.

Seablue - don't worry about turning up pg to an infertility appointment. A couple of people on this thread (of course, I can't for the life of me remember who - Yorkshire, Worrisome?) were days away from appointments when they got their BFPs. It seems to work like some kind of charm!
What exactly is a arcuate uterus? I read it wrong first off and thought you had an accurate uterus - I was thinking "Well, that can't be a bad thing!" Doh!
[completely nosy emoticon] Which play were you seeing? I have cut out my theatre going altogether in a bid to save money for the LO and I miss it so much. I am desperate to see La Bete at the Comedy Theatre in June but centre stalls seats are £90! and that is a cot! Or dozens of nappies! So I really can't justify going

Chance - Hmmmm, flying to Sydney at 30 weeks. You are right - that doesn't sound like fun at all! I flew to Fiji once in rude health and by the end - 12 hour flight, 6 hour wait in LA, another 12 hour flight - I wanted to KILL anyone who deigned to talk to me. Well, at least you don't have to come back again!
Hope the 20 week scan was lots of fun and you got a good look at the little one wriggling around.

Glad you are ok Hermya - sorry about the organ squishage.

Spirael- getting your cervix scrabbled at!!.... teeny claws!!...OH MY GOD!!!!! What new horror is this?!! I can't believe the awful things that pg women have to go through! Its beyond belief. And yet we all wouldn't change it for the world Mother Nature is seriously fucked in the head weird.

Well, the boobs seem to have dried out again here. Obviously just a freak dribble for the time being! And I feel strangely comforted by the kicks to the bladder now, after what Spirael said. Kicks, I can definitely handle. Claws on the other hand.....

aly323 · 26/05/2010 21:37

I finally got my second beta results. I went from 193 to 500! Let's hope this keeps up for the next test. I had a very, very light bit of pink cm last night, so it kind of put me on a downward spiral- until I had my test today. Maybe it was hormones that have caused me to have two public breakdowns in the last 24 hours. Luckily, I'm feeling much better now! I stayed home from work because I was just too stressed to go.

Spirael, I actually remembered your first attempt from the older first-time frolickers thread. I get a lot of hope watching how well this round is going for you! I also love that you call your bean Gadget. We had a Thor last time, this one is Arpad. Arpad has already caused me a good amount of trouble. I'm hoping I managed not to get myself a George.

Seablue I hope the appointment went well. I bet they're used to it by now. I had just had my initial referral appointment when I got my first BFP. DH was so relieved he escaped "the cup."

Hermya, I'm so early on, it's ridiculous. I'm only 4+2. My EDD is currently Jan 31. However, they usually end up inducing a week or two early with diabetes. I have some mild cramping, my back is kind of sore, my boobs don't really hurt, but they feel weird. Also, I'm peeing more than usual.

One very good thing about my diabetes is that I get loads of early care. I have a nurse appt tomorrow, another beta Friday and will likely have an appointment with a scan next Thur. I'll likely get to see my dr, and probably have a scan, every two weeks through the 1st and 2nd trimester. Then, they go to weekly appointments. The downside is that I have the world's most restricted diet. It sucks.

bunnygirl80 · 26/05/2010 23:50

Spirael that dress is lovely. I can't wait for summer as I have visions of myself looking all pg and wholesome in floaty dresses

Having your cervix scrabbled at sounds particularly painful. Maybe Gadget is just trying to make absolutely sure of where the exit is ready for when it's time to come out

pixie lol at you checking the ceiling for dripping only to discover it was your boob. In all honesty I am a bit freaked out that leakage can start in pg- it's one of the sypmtoms I hope I don't get

hermya if you're artistically inclined you could try and recreate the crib yourself from the picture

aly those results sound really promising. I know it must be so hard not to worry you've had a mc, but it really does seem like most people get some kind of spotting/pink cm/proper bleeding in early pg. I sometimes feel like I'm the only one on my ante-natal threads that had none.

It sounds like you're being very well monitored, although I imagine all those appointments could get a bit tedious over the whole 40 weeks. Hopefully you'll get your own parking space at the doctor's office to reward your loyalty!

chance hope your scan went well

Over the weekend I felt really rubbish with a cold, made worse by the fact that I can't take anything for it. DH has caught it now, and so of course he's taken to his bed and all I can hear coming from upstairs is the groaning of a man who is clearly only minutes from death!! I have NO sympathy for him as he is dosed up on full strength cold remedies and is still whinging

aly323 · 27/05/2010 00:08

Bunny, men are such wimps. I just hope he doesn't try to give the cold back to you!

Spireal I, too, love the dress. However,I'm even more taken with your bump. It looks so good! I also got stuck drooling over the last photo of the awesome sweets...

Ozziegirly · 27/05/2010 00:18

Aly that is wonderful news that the tests look positive so far - sending sticky thoughts your way.

Spirael all I can say is "aieeeee" at having your cervix scrabbled at! So far Pip just gives me the odd wriggly toes feeling up by my ribs which I kind of like, and then just general thumps and pokes. I think because of the anterior placenta I only feel the big movements but it does feel fun. It even moves my stomach from the outside now sometimes which is bizarro.

Sorry to hear about your George. I amazed I haven't developed my own George, as unless I am scrupulous about drinking water and having prunes, seeds, linseed mix and fruit everything slows down dramatically.

Chance how was the scan?

Anything from pepperoni? I had a reply to a post of mine on another thread at the end of last week saying she was really ready for the pregnancy to end now (I was asking about induction) so fingers' crossed she doesn't have to wait too long!

Hermya321 · 27/05/2010 01:58

Gosh I've had the oddest day, I have sworn at people, flipped the finger at one of my more idiotic colleages and have been close to tears more times than I can remember. Seriously I don't know whats come over me, it's so frustrating and annoying. I want my non hormonal sanity back. I am normally a calm and laid back person and can take quite a lot. Today nnnnnnnooooooooo I swore at someone who asked me to sign something, yep all they wanted was a signature and I swore at them. I don't think they heard me though.

My very annoying idiotic works version of my little brother greeted me with his latest nickname 'you alright preggers?' so I flipped the finger at him. Later on I ended up kicking him as well after he'd scared me senceless and told me not to go into labour as the carpets in the office had just been cleaned. I told him I wouldn't want my child to have the trama of him being the first thing it sees in this world. Oh dear!! I've been reduced to the level of a bickering seven year old. Despite the fact that this guy is the MOST ANNOYING person in the world, I do appreciate him in a sort of a mangy cat you felt sorry for kind of way. It was suitable revenge when my friend told him that he was like a little playful lab puppy. I think he felt his manliness deflect a little then. LOL!!

I had some very funny reactions from LO when I was talking to a few people today, maybe its testing out its future career options . It's also a cheeky little thing as well, kept kicking me and rolling around when I was trying to be serious and professional. All I really wanted to do was smile like an insane person and go 'look it's kicking, isn't it cool!!'

I also cried over the fact that we had no pesto in the house as well. My word the shame!! Where has my normal brain gone??? Where???

Bunny Funnily enough, my degree was in the arts. But not that kind of art, that requires someone very special indeed.

Aly Wow that is early, you're in the US aren't you. They seem to be a bit more hands on with pregnant people from what I've seen. That can only be a good thing though for you. I hope it's a sticky one. Oh and pink CM could be implantation bleeding. Oh the peeing, thats a joyful symptom isn't it. I was on a driving course with that one, every stop we had and I was off to the loo like a woman possessed.

Spireal What kind of fresh hell is that??!! My word, you poor thing.

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Ozziegirly · 27/05/2010 02:06

You sound fun Hermya.

I think the hormones do calm down a bit - at first I was sobbing at the slightest thing, good or bad. Whereas I can't think of when I last cried, but it used to be every day.

I am normally quite irritated by irritating people at work, so no change there for me.

chancewouldbeafinething · 27/05/2010 08:13

Hi All,

Sorry yesterday was such a long day i didnt get back to report in.....News is all good, we have a fantastically healthy little BOY!

NHS scan was a bit disappointing, the last 2 we had were with a lovely young woman, yesterday we had misery herself. She did what she was supposed to do so we shouldnt really complain, but when asked about telling us the sex, she refused and said she had to 'toe the line' (sounded like she had been told off) so we didnt push it just said, well if you happen to go near that area and something happens to be on the screen could you just make sure we know. She even made us pay for the picture (nice lady gave us several for free)

My husband had to go and have a medical (for aussie visa) so as we were already in medical territory DH did a quick ring around and found a clinic where we could do a gender scan later in the day.

The clinic was good, i think it was more for 4D scans (they showed us his face at the end of our scan, and it really freaked me out) but it was fantastic to see our little man (and i have to say it was really obvious he was a man, NHS lady would not have had to do much for us to see that, DH thinks that NHS is in cahoots with private clinics) we also got a DVD so we can look at him whenever we want to now

hope everyone is well, i will catch up later xx

Spirael · 27/05/2010 08:42

Morning all! Parenting classes went fine yesterday, though there wasn't a lot they told me that I didn't already know from copious amounts of reading Mumsnet. Useful to see the delivery suites though, however it definitely confirmed I want a homebirth. Nothing wrong with the rooms, they were clean and servicable, but they had so few with ensuite and the birthing pools are barely larger than my bath! The one I've hired is easily twice the size.

Hahah, I seem to have caused some panic with the clawed scrabbling. Don't panic too much, it doesn't hurt. It's more a really strange sensation, feeling like something is trying to dig its way out of your pelvic floor!

Of course, you do realise that little feet will develop toenail claws too, pixie? So that kicking of the bladder you're currently experiencing.........

Besides, it could be worse. Everyone has seen Alien, right..?

Arpad is a good pre-birth name, Aly. Do you have Hungarian links, or was it just a random choice? I like having something unique to call Gadget, other than just Baby or Bean or something. Makes Gadget seem more real, and being pretty unisex also makes it easier to keep the (probable) gender quiet when discussing with people!

I'm glad your results came back positively! Keeping my fingers crossed that everything continues to go fine for you, and you get to meet Arpad early next year!

I remember the colds of the second trimester, bunny. Not nice! I had one a month, lasting a week at a time, for three months in a row! I'd pass them to my DH, then he'd give them right back, grr! It's annoying not being able to take anything... Though straight paracetamol is ok, and Vicks Vapor is ok too.

Vicks make a little one the size of a lip balm that worked quite well. I could keep it in my bag and shove it up my nose whenever the lack of nasal breathing got too annoying. It did have the unfortunate side effect of making it look like I was attempting to snort a tampon, and as soon as I removed it my nose clogged up again, but at least it gave me a short respite now and then.

Hee, I make look all floaty and wholesome in the pic, but you should see me trying to get out of a car or get back to my feet or such. Definitely heading for the beached whale look now, my poor DH has to haul me all over the place! I'm thinking of investing in a giant crowbar, because I get the feeling in a few weeks time that's going to be the only way of getting me out of bed in the morning.

I'm quite lucky with the bump though. Despite eating cake rubbish for most of the pregnancy, so far I only seem to have really gained weight at the bump, I've not put on too much elsewhere. Hopefully it'll stay that way and I'll lose it again relatively easily afterwards! [crosses fingers]

I'm glad you like the cakes, Aly. Both my DH and I adore baking, it's something we do together for fun! Making birthday cakes for Gadget (and siblings, eventually!) is one of the things I'm really looking forward too. Being creative with food is so fun, you get to have messy play and then at the end eat it up!!

George isn't so bad, Ozzie. It's quite nice to have a bit of company in the bathroom! I think he's getting a bit bigger (I blame the iron tablets) but we've got a mutual agreement that as long as he doesn't cause me any pain then I'll let him live where he's settled for the time being.

Lots of fruit and such sounds like a good plan, I think that's how I managed to last so long before acquiring my new little friend, and how he doesn't cause me too much trouble! I could probably do with drinking more water, however. But I spend enough time in the bathroom as it is... Drinking more will only make it worse!

I can understand crying over pesto, Hermya! It's a staple in my house, I've been stockpiling jars of it, as they last forever and it's a nice quick and tasty meal that DH can make for once LO is born and we just don't have the time for anything complex. I'd cry too if I got to the cupboard and found it devoid of pesto!

Best trick I found for people starting up with annoying nicknames (My 'friend' tried Fatty one time!) is to retaliate with an insulting nickname for them. i.e.

Friend: "Hey, Fatty!"
Me: "Hey, Scrawny McChicken Legs!"

For some reason I've not been called a name since.

I've also not had anyone (aside from DH/the MW!) try to grab my bump thus far. Apparently I'm managing to scare people off with my evil aura before they get too close.

Hermya321 · 27/05/2010 22:12

Oh my gosh, I've just heard the funniest story and I needed to share with you all.

I was speaking with someone from work and they were telling me all about the joys of expressing breast milk at work and as we were discussing this the boss pipped up. 'Oh do you remember what happened with xyz when she was expressing?' suddenly my mate bursts into hysterical laughter and theres me thinking 'what?'

Well anyway it turns out that xyz had been expressing breast milk at work and then leaving it in the shared fridge in the kitchen. Now if you're office is anything like mine then milk is one of those things that if it's in the fridge it gets used by all and sundry. My lot sellotape the lid down and then hide it in the one of the fridges off the beaten track. Anyway, well this Mum had left her milk chilling away nicely in the fridge just waiting for her to take it home for her LO. She leaves the office in order to go and deal with something. Whilst she's out, one of the guys that has come on for the evening decides that he's going to make coffee for everyone. So off he goes and makes the coffee, everyones happy and getting settled in. Xyz comes back into the office and is getting ready to go home and goes to the fridge to find her breast milk is missing. She goes into the office and asks them 'whos taken my breast milk?' Apparently everyone makes the connection and the coffee that they've been happily drinking gets quickly abandoned.

My friend said that she use to leave her breast pump on display in the kitchen in a bowl for all to see. She said it made her laugh to think of peoples faces when they saw it. Small things eh!

Apart from that I've been drooling over the weenotions website, their nappies are ssssoooo cute!!!

We're going to book a nappy advisor appointment and see whats what and then go from there. It can be a bit bewilldering can't it.

Spirael I've already called him all sundry of names and I can tell you that it just won't work, he'll just come back with more names. It is a very serious case of little brother syndrome.

Chance That was so fab of them, I'm really itching to have a 3D scan. I'm not sure I can wait until October to find out what LO looks like.

Ozzie It seems I am to be a source of constant amusement for people these days. I'll look back on this time and laugh at myself I'm sure. In fact I'm already laughing at how irrational I've been at some things. Can't take yourself too seriously can you.

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bunnygirl80 · 27/05/2010 23:35

chance what a miserable NHS sonographer! Congratulations on your boy. What was it like seeing him in 3D - my clinic put in their info that they will not use 3D at the 20 week scan as baby won't have much fat so what you see won't look chubby and cute!!

How was your DH's medical? I remember when I had mine done that the doctor was really dodgy - he barely looked at me, and wrote down a completely ficticious blood pressure. Obviously he didn't want anyone complaining that their visa was declined on health grounds

hermya your work colleague sounds so annoying. I've been feeling generally annoyed with everyone who crosses my path for a couple of weeks now. I seem to spend my time muttering oh ffs under my breath

And lol at that breast milk story - surely the poor woman hadn't expressed it into a milk carton so people should have been able to tell it wasn't from a cow

Spirael I can't wait to make birthday cakes for my LO either. I love baking, although my creations are not as fabulous as yours. I did make a rather impressive Stewie Griffin for DH's birthday this year

I spoke to my MIL last night on Skype and have now ended up paranoid that I'm looking fat already. Conversation went like this
MIL "bunny, you're looking really well"
Me "Thanks, I've been feeling really good recently"
MIL "I think you're looking so well because you've put lots of weight on your face"
Me:

I think it was meant as a compliment as she's always thought I'm too skinny, but this week pretty much everyone I've seen has told me how well I've been looking. Now I wonder if they all meant my face is fat

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aly323 · 28/05/2010 02:34

Chance awww, a boy! Enjoy watching your video over and over again. Is your DH thrilled?

Hermya the milk story is hilarious. I can only imagine the reaction of all my very male co-workers if this happened! Good luck with the hormones. I'm a lawyer and am in court dealing with crazy situations every day. I'm just waiting for the hormones to start causing me trouble- I'm a crier. I've already told my boss that I don't think I can handle trials for awhile. They get very heated. Also, my blood sugars go high with stress and I need to avoid that at all costs. High blood sugars increase the risk of birth defects.

Spireal You made that cake??? You're my new hero! Although, I have to say that I think I would also like to see Bunny's Stewie cake. Arpad was my DH's Hungarian grandfather's name (DH is Czech). It's a definite no for later, but makes us laugh for now.

Bunny, if everyone is saying it, it must be true!

I'm just anxiously awaiting my blood test tomorrow. Fingers crossed for more doubling.

bunnygirl80 · 28/05/2010 04:11

aly I've put a picture of Stewie on my profile just for you!! His face is pink as he has spent too much time in the Australian sun without adequate sunscreen and NOT because I dropped too much pink colouring in the icing

I'm having visions of you being all hormonal in the court room and leaping to your feet shouting objection for random reasons like not liking the opposition's shoes