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Hermya321 · 01/05/2010 20:01

Right (plonks self down and breaks out the biscuit tin and tea bags), I've stuck the kettle on. Whose joining me?

ARRIVALS:

Fulhamgirl - EDD 30th May - DOB 9th Apr - Girl - Lily Ann - 4lb

CURRENT__GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May - Boy
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - 23rd Jun - Girl - Erin Elizabeth
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul - Boy - Dylan
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul - Secret
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul - Girl
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD 20th Jul
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24th Aug
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD 4th Sep
WhiteRoses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 15th Sep - Boy
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 16th Sep
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 24th Sep
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD 11th Oct
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 12th Oct
Hermya321 - BFP 12th Feb - EDD 24th Oct
fudgecat - BFP 19th Feb ? EDD 28th Oct
Pidgin - BFP 27th Feb - EDD?
Honeymoo - BFP ? - EDD 1st Nov
YorkshireTeaDrinker - BFP 1st Mar - EDD 6th Nov
DrewsGirl - BFP 4th Mar - EDD?
bunnygirl80 - BFP 12th Mar - EDD 19th Nov
Mumnerves - BFP 1st Apr - EDD 8th Dec
Spanishlady - BFP 3rd Apr - EDD?
luckyseven - BFP 8th Apr - EDD 17th Dec
Capricorn76 - BFP 12th Apr - EDD 1st Jan
Homebound - BFP 30th Apr - EDD 8th Jan

FUTURE_GRADUATES:

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Ariesgirl
Bellaby
calligraphy82
Calyx
CaveMum
chalky3
cher rycobbler
claireinthecommunity
Dinkytinky
evilgiraffe
FelicityFlick
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Kaloki
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bunnygirl80 · 15/05/2010 00:29

halo I'm so sorry for your loss

I'm sure that there's not much that any of us can say that will make you feel better at the moment. Hope you and your DP are looking after each other.

(I've posted this on both threads in case you don't feel like checking back on the grads)

bunnygirl80 · 15/05/2010 00:45

Hermya I feel for you and your trousers - I haven't worn straight legged trousers in years as they are the least flattering shape possible.

The hospital where I used to work didn't do maternity trousers for the nurses so they were put in dresses. However, the dress only came in one size - basically the size of a 6 man tent - with ties on it to haul in the surplus material. It had a remarkable ability to make women with even the neatest tiniest bump look 12 months pg! So just think - there is worse maternity wear out there than those trousers

Spirael I had thought you were aiming for a homebirth, which is why I'm so impressed that you're packed for the hospital already

Ozzie my DH is obsessed with staring at my boobs too. I'm about to head into an E cup but they looked so massive I chickened out - at least you've saved me the job of trying it on my head when I do go and buy them

I've been having some very odd baby dreams recently. The other night I dreamt that I'd had the baby, but that DH wouldn't let me look after it at all. He was even BFing it - he had grown these enormous hairy boobs especially for the job!

I also need to start staying out of the kitchen as I've been getting so clumsy in there recently. Yesterday, I burnt my hand on the grill at breakfast and have a big blister there. Then at lunch I sliced my finger open on my soup can. Finally at dinner I grated my knuckle into DH's food instead of some cheese My hands are now covered in plasters!!

bunnygirl80 · 15/05/2010 00:47

I've taken halo off the list

ARRIVALS:

Fulhamgirl - EDD 30th May - DOB 9th Apr - Girl - Lily Ann - 4lb

CURRENT__GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May - Boy
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - 23rd Jun - Girl - Erin Elizabeth
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul - Boy - Dylan
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul - Secret
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul - Girl
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD 20th Jul
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24th Aug
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD 4th Sep
WhiteRoses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 15th Sep - Boy
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 16th Sep
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 24th Sep
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD 10/10/10
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 12th Oct
Hermya321 - BFP 12th Feb - EDD 24th Oct
fudgecat - BFP 19th Feb ? EDD 28th Oct
Pidgin - BFP 27th Feb - EDD?
Honeymoo - BFP ? - EDD 1st Nov
YorkshireTeaDrinker - BFP 1st Mar - EDD 6th Nov
DrewsGirl - BFP 4th Mar - EDD?
bunnygirl80 - BFP 12th Mar - EDD 19th Nov
Mumnerves - BFP 1st Apr - EDD 8th Dec
Spanishlady - BFP 3rd Apr - EDD?
luckyseven - BFP 8th Apr - EDD 17th Dec
Capricorn76 - BFP 12th Apr - EDD 1st Jan
Homebound - BFP 30th Apr - EDD 8th Jan

bunnygirl80 · 15/05/2010 01:41

I am definitely going to buy a one piece maternity swimsuit

Ozziegirly · 15/05/2010 05:30

halo I'm so sorry to hear your news, take care of yourself and we all hope to see you back here soon.

bunny I have also gone a bit clumsy - sliced my finger cutting lettuce, bumped my head twice while picking stuff up, burned my finger on the fire. I am a hazard to myself.

All this talk of boobs. I had a look at mine earlier and I really think they are never going to be the same, They really seem to have gone a bit saggy looking already (which isn't a huge surprise given their size) but I do feel slightly sad to say goodbye to my pre baby body.

Still, it's all for a good reason. And as yet, no stretch marks. Anyone know when they kick in?

chancewouldbeafinething · 15/05/2010 08:59

Halo I am so sorry to hear your news, I hope you had a nice big glass of wine last night. Hope you and DH take good care of yourselves. See you back here soon xxxx

WorrisomeHeart · 15/05/2010 09:03

Hi folks

Yet again the thread is moving at the speed of light!

halo so so sorry to hear your news. Hope you're feeling ok and I'm sure we'll see you here again soon.

Harrumph - have been reading the comments re boobs and would like to go and hide in a corner - when I was measured a couple of weeks ago (at Rigby and Peller - brilliant if anyone wants a recommendation) I was measured as a G!! They are bloody enormous and my hubby has a wide grin on his face! I'm a bit worried about how much bigger they are going to get when the milk comes in - may have to repurpose some parachutes I think.

Other than the massive norks, all is well here - Mr Teeny has picked up on the whole moving thing - I'm feeling little flutters every day which is fab. And I have a real bump now too!!

Am off to a friends baby shower today which should be fun - license to coo over cute baby things without fear of boring people! Hope you all enjoy the sunshine.

pixiestix · 15/05/2010 09:22

Well, I had my 20 week scan yesterday (at 21+0!) and the little bean is doing very well in there. We stuck to our guns and didn't find out the sex, even though it was agonising to come away without knowing - so its unisex, beige clothing from here on in as that was our last chance to know! Of course, we both started guessing as soon as we left the scan room - DH thinks its a girl, I think its a boy, and can't wait to find out who is right! LO weighs 11oz so far which apparently is spot on.
It was such a relief to look on-screen and immediately see those little legs kicking. I haven't been on here much recently as I've felt really worried and stressed. Everyone seems to be able to feel movement - even Hermya from about 10 weeks! - and I have had only the vaguest flutters. Its was really bothering me and I had convinced myself that something was going really wrong. Well... it turns out that I am in the anterior placenta club too!! And despite TWO scans at 12-13 weeks no one saw fit to tell me and save me from all that worrying. Grrrr!! I am a bit pissed off about it, but its such a relief to know that LO IS booting away in there - its just right into the placenta rather than my belly.
I got a brief glimpse of life to come just before the scan - a woman came in who loked like she was about to pop at any second. Her belly was so round and tight there just didn't seem to be anywhere else to go. Well, it turned out that she was only 32 weeks pg!!! 8 weeks more to go!! I bit my tongue and managed not to scream "WHAT???? How can you possibly grow that baby for another 8 weeks, you are going to DIIIIIIIIIEEEEEEE!!!!" Very restrained of me, I thought!

Ozzie - I know what you mean about boobs. Mine already seem to be pointing towards four o clock rather than 2 o clock! [sniff]

Hermya - just say no to the ugly trousers. You are pg and you are allowed to have a massive emotional fit if people try to make you look horrible! Its hard enough looking nice anyway without that sort of thing.

Bunny - So glad it not just me getting weird dreams. The other night I dreamt that I was eating a tin of cat food and my skin reacted in huge red, blisters. I had to get DH to peel off the excess skin and promise to get a different brand of cat food. I don't even own a cat just to make it triply weird! LOL at your DH's "enormous hairy boobs"

Spirael - I love your attitude to birth. It made me feel really calm! I would love a homebirth, DH is desperate for me to go into hospital and be "properly looked after" and we will most likely end up compromising and going to a midwife led unit instead. But reading your post I thought "Well, its all going to be fine, the baby is going to get out somehow." You are better for the soul than pg yoga!!

Halo - I don't know if you are still checking the grads page, but I hope you are ok today. [hug]

Another updated stats list, to reflect my (probably unwise) decision not to find out the sex! Can't wait until our next update from Trying!

ARRIVALS:

Fulhamgirl - EDD 30th May - DOB 9th Apr - Girl - Lily Ann - 4lb

CURRENT__GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May - Boy
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - 23rd Jun - Girl - Erin Elizabeth
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul - Boy - Dylan
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul - Secret
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul - Girl
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD 20th Jul
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24th Aug
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD 4th Sep
WhiteRoses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 15th Sep - Boy
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 16th Sep
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 24th Sep - Surprise
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD 10/10/10
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 12th Oct
Hermya321 - BFP 12th Feb - EDD 24th Oct
fudgecat - BFP 19th Feb ? EDD 28th Oct
Pidgin - BFP 27th Feb - EDD?
Honeymoo - BFP ? - EDD 1st Nov
YorkshireTeaDrinker - BFP 1st Mar - EDD 6th Nov
DrewsGirl - BFP 4th Mar - EDD?
bunnygirl80 - BFP 12th Mar - EDD 19th Nov
Mumnerves - BFP 1st Apr - EDD 8th Dec
Spanishlady - BFP 3rd Apr - EDD?
luckyseven - BFP 8th Apr - EDD 17th Dec
Capricorn76 - BFP 12th Apr - EDD 1st Jan
Homebound - BFP 30th Apr - EDD 8th Jan

Hobnob76 · 15/05/2010 09:22

Hey all, just thought I'd pop in to say that my scan went well and all was as to be expected. We found out that we've got a chocolate milk loving little girlie! My hunch was right, I'd thought girl all along! We're really over the moon.

I'm so sorry to read about your sad news haloflo, take care of yourself

pixiestix · 15/05/2010 09:32

OMG Bunny, that swimsuit thread is hilarious. The tears are rolling down my cheeks. And breathe......

pixiestix · 15/05/2010 09:34

Awww, cross post, congrats Hobnob!! - I am simultaneously and tormented!!

[Goes into reveries about possibly having a little tiny girl]

chancewouldbeafinething · 15/05/2010 11:43

Right have been and done a mad run around waitrose and back to important stuff now...Saturday kitchen and MN

pixie Greta news on the scan - dont worry nobody told me either, I was nosey and read the ultrasound report, and there was a line that said placenta site, so i called my midwife and asked if it meant what i thought it meant. Sometimes i think they just want to rush too much!
LOL at the thought of you screaming at that poor woman, just think that is about the size i will be when flying to OZ i am very nervous about that!

bunny it must be the week for it - i have a burnt right hand and cut left hand. AND the other day when washing up i managed to get the detergent in my eye...DH has the washing up from now on

hobnob fantastic news on your little girli hope you got some good pics too!!!

SO me and my DD's feel much better now in their new house. After hearing how much everyone else has grown i dont feel too bad.

I watched those videos as DH told me about the ones that show the babies growth (he is a bit excited), stupidly i started watching the birthing ones...all i can say is watch the pain relief before you watch the labour! I have never heard sounds like that from a person before, but i did end up in tears when the baby was born.
It was probably because i had been to yoga and was chatting to 2 women 1 was 40 weeks and the other 38. the 38wks lady had been to hypno birthing classes and was set for the home birth with no drugs at all it was five sessions and she now has to listen to a cd for an hour every day to prepare.

I decided that hypno probably isnt for me, I think we are going to do a one off breathing to a better birth course. After watching those videos I dont really want the gas, and i have had pethidine before and dont really want to go there either that leaves me with an epidural....oh well there is still time to decide.

Hope everyone is having a good weekend...i am off to cook something lovely

sazziej · 15/05/2010 12:05

Just got back from my scan and wriggler is a GIRL! EDD 1st September,if somebody with more patience than me could add me to the list that would be great.

Happy weekend!

pixiestix · 15/05/2010 14:43

New list for Sazzie and Hob!

ARRIVALS:

Fulhamgirl - EDD 30th May - DOB 9th Apr - Girl - Lily Ann - 4lb

CURRENT__GRADUATES:

Trying4Baby1 - BFP 21st Aug - 25th Apr - Girl
Kaystar - BFP 27th Aug - EDD?
Pepperonipizza - BFP 12th Sep - 24th May - Boy
Ladyemmalou83 - BFP 13th Oct - 23rd Jun - Girl - Erin Elizabeth
bluesnowfalcon - BFP 14th Oct - EDD?
DesperateHousewife21 - BFP 3rd Nov - EDD 18th Jul - Boy - Dylan
Spirael - BFP 7th Nov - EDD 25th Jul - Secret
Curlycasper - BFP 11th Nov - EDD 21st Jul - Girl
EmsieRo - BFP 16th Nov - EDD 20th Jul
vix206 - BFP 8th Dec - EDD 22nd Aug
HypotheticalMummy - BFP 9th Dec - EDD?
Ozziegirly - BFP 16th Dec - EDD 24th Aug
Sazziej - BFP ? - EDD 1st Sep - Girl
NovemberAli - BFP 24th Dec - EDD 2nd Sep
Eleanora - BFP 28th Dec - EDD 4th Sep
WhiteRoses - BFP 11th Jan - EDD 15th Sep - Boy
hamsterlover - BFP 11th Jan - EDD?
Hobnob - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 26th Sep - Girl
MadameG - BFP 17th Jan - EDD 16th Sep
pixiestix - BFP 18th Jan - EDD 24th Sep - Surprise
ceebs05 - BFP 22nd Jan - EDD 29th Sep
addie81 - BFP 28th Jan - EDD 8th Oct
chancewouldbeafinething - BFP 1st Feb - EDD 10/10/10
WorrisomeHeart - BFP 29th Jan - EDD 12th Oct
Hermya321 - BFP 12th Feb - EDD 24th Oct
fudgecat - BFP 19th Feb ? EDD 28th Oct
Pidgin - BFP 27th Feb - EDD?
Honeymoo - BFP ? - EDD 1st Nov
YorkshireTeaDrinker - BFP 1st Mar - EDD 6th Nov
DrewsGirl - BFP 4th Mar - EDD?
bunnygirl80 - BFP 12th Mar - EDD 19th Nov
Mumnerves - BFP 1st Apr - EDD 8th Dec
Spanishlady - BFP 3rd Apr - EDD?
luckyseven - BFP 8th Apr - EDD 17th Dec
Capricorn76 - BFP 12th Apr - EDD 1st Jan
Homebound - BFP 30th Apr - EDD 8th Jan

sazziej · 15/05/2010 18:54

Thank you for updating the list pixiestix.

Hermya321 · 15/05/2010 19:46

I've not really got much to say to be honest, I sent back the ugly trousers with a note with very explisit instructions as to which trousers I wanted. I don't know if I'm going to be their favourite person now. Oh well, I care not .

Sazziej Thats great, any thought on names?

Hobnob Fantastic news, I'm glad your feelings were confirmed.

Pixie Great news about the scan, but on the movement thing. I think I'm a bit of a freak of nature. Lots of people on my thread talk about their bumps and maternity trousers. (I only got the work ones cause they take ages to come and I figured better get them now before I explode) People are looking at me at work and going 'you're missing a bump aren't you'.

Bunny Ooooo a pregtent, yeah there are worse maternity uniforms aren't there. I feel sorry for OT's, imagine green maternity trousers and fleeces. Oh dear.

Chance I'm going to the local Midwife led centre all being well. Otherwise it'll be a trip down the motorway for me. Hmmmm I can imagine that I'll be on youtube giving birth on the hard shoulder knowing my blinkin luck. So sort of like a home birth but with more humour.

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sazziej · 15/05/2010 20:06

Hermya321 I like the name Evie, and fortunately my DH also came up with the same name when we were compiling our seperate lists.... we just can't decide on a middle name.But we have plenty of time yet

fudgecat · 15/05/2010 20:50

halo I?m so sorry hope you are ok and are getting the support you need

bunny thanks for the link thank goodness I can?t swim so the same will never happen to me

ozzie and worrisome I think I?m due a new bra again, the last one I got is already feeling a bit tight now.

pixie glad to hear the scan went well - it must have been hard to not find out the sex. Did they ask you to look away at any point to make sure you didn?t see the naughty bits by accident or do they just avoid going there? We still want to wait for the birth to find out what splodge is I know how you feel about the movements, I?m 16 weeks and not feeling a thing yet

sazzie and hobnob a little for girl each of you the girls do seem to be outnumbering the boys at the moment...

hermya we have a midwife run delivery suite at my local hospital that has rooms with birthing pools that looks really nice, the other good thing about it is that it?s in same building as the normal delivery suite so if you do decide you need more than just the gas and air in the midwife run suite you can just move to the normal area and get drugs. I?m not getting my hopes up on the midwife run area yet as everything I have read says they will only take you if you have a complication free pregnancy so I guess I will just have to wait and see what the consultant has to say about my low platelet levels.

Other than that not much news from me - had my 16 week MW appointment last week and got to hear the heartbeat again so that was good . Have just eaten far too much indian takeaway so feel quite stuffed now but no doubt i will be in the fridge within an hour as im eating so much at the moment

bunnygirl80 · 16/05/2010 00:52

sazzie and hobnob congrats on your little girls

pixie congrats on your surprise

Only 4 weeks to go until my 19 week scan - I think we'll find out the sex. DH is quite keen to know, and I don't have strong feelings either way so I'll do what he wants.

pixie I was told in great about the position of my placenta at the scan, but I think that was only because baby was not behving and lying still and we'd looked at pretty much all of my internal organs by that point! I had even correctly identified which side I had ov'd from [teacher's pet emoticon]

I'm a bit in the anterior placenta club and a bit not as I have a transverse placenta so a little bit of it is anterior, and then it goes across the top of the uterus and down the back wall as well.

chance a friend of mine who had her baby 7 weeks ago lent me her hypnobirthing stuff this week. She spent $600 on the course so I decided I'd look at the material first before shelling out that amount of money!

The breathing exercises are good (and identical to yoga breathing) but there are whole sections of the book that are just too for me. It wants you to discuss with baby the ideal date you'd like to go into labour, and how long you think your labour should last so that baby knows what you want him/her to do.

I am 100% convinced that DH would not get through the course without laughing and offending the people who were taking it seriously, so I think I'm just going to practice the breathing and listen to the CD.

hermya one of my patients in my first job gave birth on the hard shoulder of the M53 - she was in the local paper afterwards. There was only 10months between her first baby and the M53 one though so I don't think everything had gone back fully after the first

worrisome hope you enjoyed the baby shower

I told work that I'm pg on Friday. I have to say that the reaction was less that supportive, so even though I told them when I would like to work until, and that I would love to go back, I doubt my contract will be renewed when it runs out in July. My boss wants 2 weeks to "consider his options" which I'm taking to mean "advertise for and recruit my replacement"

It will be his loss, and I have a meeting next week with a practice that is much closer to home, and they know I'm pg and still want me to work for them, so hopefully I won't be unemployed for too long.

chancewouldbeafinething · 16/05/2010 18:15

sazzie congrats another girl!

hermya well done for sending ugly trousers back....what is the worst that can happen?
I am having visions of you on the side of the road...if it does happen you will HAVE to put it on youtube. But i am sure you will make it there.

fudge good to hear the MW visit went well, and that you heard the heartbeat again, its such a nice sound isnt it?

bunny that is exactly why i couldnt do it, as much as i want to go into labour with my eyes open to all options, i dont think i could keep a straight face either. Its enough for me when my yoga instructor tries to get us to 'moo' like cows (i kid you not, apparently this low tone is soothing to the baby and is better to keep us calm than high pitch squealing) can you imagine 20 women mooing? Also it is a big expense - lucky that your friend gave you her book!
Bugger about your work, i have to say Oz is not really that friendly for mums. Especially in your case. Oh well maybe its for the best if you get the other job closer to home?

We have started a big clean out here, the charity shop is going to love us this week. Oh and I got my triple test results back, low risk 1:18000 which i think is ok, i cant remember what everyone else got. Only 10 days until the next scan....we cant wait

Hope everyone had a good weekend

homebound · 16/05/2010 18:46

Hello ladies, its been a few days so i thought id pop in and see how everyone is doing...but to my dismay....haloflo you were someone i was really rooting for hun, im so sorry!

Will write later on x

pixiestix · 17/05/2010 08:55

Chance - those are really fab triple results. I got one in 16,800 and was well pleased - yours are even better!

Bunny - that is really shitty of your boss But at least you were half expecting it, I suppose. The new place sounds much nicer if they are willing to interview a pg woman! Go with them!
I can't believe its only four weeks until your scan - time seems to be flying by. We will all have our babies around us before we know it!

Fudge - I'm so glad you heard the heartbeat again, there is nothing more reassuring. Don't worry at all about not feeling movements - I'm only starting to get proper movements this week. Week 21!!

Hermya - I think I will be going to the local midwife centre as well. DH and I are the worst decision-makers ever and we are umming and ahhing all over the place. I just need to have a tour of the place now to reassure myself. I really would have prefered a home birth but DH is freaking out about not being in hospital - this seems like a good compromise!

I feel so excited about the baby coming at the moment - must be the post-scan high!! If my big belly would let me I would jump up and down!!

Spirael · 17/05/2010 09:46

I'm nearly 31 weeks now Ozziegirly and no stretchmarks yet. Keeping my fingers crossed that I avoid them! I have some old ones on my hips from when I bloomed suddenly in my mid/late teens and my body couldn't keep up, but my Mum said she managed to avoid getting many stretchmarks during pregnancy so I'm hoping for the same!

To be honest though, I'm not too worried... They'll settle down to silvery lines that are barely noticable after a bit, and I'm not one for showing my midriff to the world anyway. I figure they'll be nice battle scars to remind my DH what I've gone through, if I do get any.

Glad I could help maintain the calm about labour and birth, pixiestix! I don't see too much point in worrying about it. May as well put my efforts into preparation instead and trust my body to do what it has to do! I'll report back on how I get on, when the time comes.

So many girls for the First Time Frolickers! I wonder if all the scans are right? Supposedly they're more likely to be wrong when predicting a girl, but that could be urban legend. It'll be interesting to see the success ratio of scan predictions once our LO's are born!

I don't really mind either way myself, I've been carefully not making too many gender specific purchases just in case. I limited myself to two little dresses I found in the Monsoon sale, figuring they'd make good gifts for someone else later on if necessary!

We also have a lot of people in the anterior placenta club. Don't worry about not feeling any movements yet, fudgecat. If you too are part of this exclusive club, you may not feel much until around 20 weeks! You'll appreciate it later on, I think I suffer a lot less than some because the placenta cushions me from feeling as Gadget attacks my innards. I've yet to be woken up by movements, for example. (However being woken up by my bladder is a different issue entirely...)

Your triple test results are really good, chance. Mine were 1:6600 and I was thrilled it was so low, as was my MW! I only had the triple test however, my area didn't offer the nuchal fold scan before Easter, when mine was done. Doh! I think they don't really worry unless the chance is 1:150 or greater, so you have very little to be concerned over.

Only 14 more days at work - and some of those days I get to work from home. And thanks to annual leave and the bank holiday, only one more Monday after this one! I expect I'll still be waking up early after I finish, as I'll be taking DH to work. It gives me a bit of structure to my day, forcing me to get up and leave the house, so I'm not too worried. I can always come home afterwards and nap!

Ozziegirly · 17/05/2010 13:07

Spirael that;s good to know about stretchmarks. I'm now 26 weeks and none yet. I haven't ever had any before though and my mum doesn't, but like you, I am not in the habit of baring my midriff anyway, so I don't really mind too much!

Those are great triple test results chance and spirael - I think mine were 1:5200 and something and that was considered very low risk.

LOvely that you've only got 2 weeks left! I am working up to the end of 36 weeks I think, and maybe even for a week after that.

In our office at the moment we have one woman off with pneumonia, two with horrid heavy colds and one with a really nasty ear infection so I am eating fruit and washing my hands like a maniac.

Plus over here all the pressure to have the swine flu jab is back - saying pregnant women are "mad" not to have it - well, call me mad then because I have been so careful with everything else, but it does seem scary to give myself a vaccination, especially when it's basically untested on pregnant women.

I"m really torn over what to do, and hope I just can stick my head in the sand for long enough and hope it goes away!

Generally I am very pro vaccine, but that's for tried and tested ones. This is the one bad thing about being pregnant in the winter I suppose.

luckyseven · 17/05/2010 16:37

ozziegirl i have to get the swine flu jab when i go for my first scan the week after next and i have no idea what to think. They included all the literature in the pack. Going to my GP on wed night (they have evening surgery) about my hayfever so might ask about the pros and cons. I am in the UK -did others have to get it?