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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
sweetkitty · 03/10/2005 20:38

OMG horseshoe you poor thing will keep everything crossed for you but your little one is a fighter and she's fought to get this far so she'll be fighting all the way.

Would still recommend the scan would cheer you up no end seeing your babies face, will try and post a pic of our little girl soon it's awesome!

sweetkitty · 04/10/2005 10:18

have posted scan pic in member profiles

hope everyones OK today bit quiet in here?

iris66 · 04/10/2005 13:45

Hi all hope you've all got the lovely sunshine that we have today
Not been on for a while as have been sleeping (seems like that's all I'm doing! - is it just being pg? my age? - am sure I wan't like this last time!!) I've just been browsing all the lovely piccies in the members profiles....

Sweetkitty your scan picture is absolutely gorgeous!!! Would love to book one but think it would just make me too impatient and I'd want my baby NOW!!

Georgie - you all look sooo happy in your pics (brought a tear to my eye as I have one v similar of my DD at our wedding). How is your back now by the way?

Horseshoe - keep smiling honey!! You are so fab at staying positive & I hope someone is able to wait on you a bit. Think of the car incident as fate forcing you to stay home and rest!! Don't know the official line re sick/maternity but your local Dept of Wks & Pensions should be able to give you some advice over your rights.

Eshay - congrats on your little boy (there seem to be quite a few of us expecting sons now!) & I'm comforted to see I'm not the only one having disturbing dreams!!

Lyra - did you have a good night out on Sat? was DS ok with staying in on his own? We left DD overnight for the first time a couple of months ago and it was all I could do to stop myself from ringing her every 5 minutes. She was fine (of course)but didn't sleep too well as the dog went into total protect mode and was barking at a spiders fart!!

Re: cramps - I'm not getting any (yet, touch wood!)but do get awfully twitchy legs at night. are they related? Anyone have a cure? (will try the calcium thing in the meantime)

must go off & get some lunch now -have just realised that I'm starving!! Cya l8r!

Rachey1969 · 04/10/2005 18:03

Hi everyone!

Glad to hear most of you are well! I am knackered, went to Exeter and back yesterday and my accelerator leg was rigid by the time I got home. Snowed under with builders, had a hole through the ceiling and the roof right up to the sky.... thankfully now tiled off.

Georgie - off to see pics now, ditto Sweetkitty - congrats to you and Eshay on your girl and boy, I've had two boys together (27months apart) and then a girl (22months later) so I Know you are in for some fun!!

Lyra - those cardis are fab, I have a lilac angora one from Gap and a stretchy black lace one from somewhere, they go with most things and are v flattering to bump! How did the home alone teenager get on?

Horseshoe - poor you, you are really going through it - did you read about Nell McAndrew terminating her baby because they had amniotic band 'disorder'? at 12 weeks - not sure of the details though?

Eshay · 04/10/2005 20:15

Horseshoe, I've copied this for you from the DTI website:

An employee cannot normally start her maternity leave unless she has given her employer the required notice, except in the following circumstances:

If the employee gives birth before the date she has notified, or before she has notified a date, her maternity leave period starts automatically on the day after the date of the birth. She must notify her employer as soon as is reasonably practicable of the date of birth.

If the employee is absent from work due to a pregnancy-related reason after the beginning of the 4th week before the expected week of childbirth but before the date she has notified, her maternity leave period begins automatically on the day after the first day of her absence. She must notify her employer that she is absent from work wholly or partly because of pregnancy and of the date on which her absence for that reason began as soon as is reasonably practicable.

MORE:

Absence for a pregnancy-related reason before the intended start date

An employee who is absent from work due to illness will normally be able to take sick leave until she starts maternity leave on the date notified to her employer as described above. If the illness is unrelated to her pregnancy she can remain on sick leave and receive Statutory Sick Pay/Incapacity Benefit right up to the date of the baby?s birth, or until the date she has notified as the date on which she intends her maternity leave to start.

If, however, the illness is pregnancy-related, the maternity leave period starts automatically on the day after the first day of absence following the beginning of the fourth week before the expected week of childbirth. This applies even if the day of absence is before the date the employee has notified as the date on which she intends her leave to start. In order to preserve her rights, the employee must as soon as is reasonably practicable give her employer notice (in writing if requested) that she is absent from work wholly or partly because of pregnancy and of the date on which absence for that reason began.

Odd days of pregnancy-related illness may be disregarded at the employer's discretion if the employee wishes to defer the start of her maternity leave period.

The same arrangements apply if the employee?s absence is for some other pregnancy-related reason. However, time off for attending ante-natal appointments in the four weeks before the expected week of childbirth will not trigger the start of leave (and the employee has the right to time off work to attend ante-natal appointments throughout her pregnancy).

Pregnancy-related absences should not be used for disciplinary purposes, in redundancy decisions, or for any other detrimental purpose as this would be unlawful sex discrimination.

You can read more about Maternity Rights on:
www.dti.gov.uk/er/individual/mat-pl958.htm

Hope that helps.

lyra41 · 04/10/2005 21:04

OOh girls

I'm K-nackd. And I've had horrible acid reflux / indigestion all day. Groan, moan, moan, groan.
The sink's full of washing up and the dishwasher didn't clean the pots properly because there was some mash postato in there. Oh woe is me. Also the builders are taking forever and loads of chasing to give us a start date for the loft job.

I think that's all my miseries unpacked. Sorry about that, I know they're all very trivial.

Went to look round dd's prospective new high school with her this evening. Ds goes there already, so I think it will be fine. Had to dash off to get ds from his piano lesson though, and take another child to her house, hence the feeling too tired for words.

Sweetkitty

Your dd's scan pic is fab, what a pretty-shaped face she has!

Horseshoe,

there was something in the newspaper today about abs, some celeb has sufferred from it too during her pregnancy. Did you see it? Oh i just noticed Rachey mentioned that too. Hope your little honey is doing just fine. Hope you're gettting your rest too, so that she doesn't come too early.

Rachey

I just don't know how you're coping with all the driving, I only drove 40 miles today to do a home visit, and that was too much! I thought you were lying low til Christmas!

Iris

I'm tired a lot too, I think it must be our age!! Sorry to say that.

The night out went well thanks, but as ever it was too late a night for me, didn't get to bed until about 12, and it seems to have a knock on for me. It was good to see Romeo and Juliet - I'm so uncultured it was the first time I'd ever seen it in my long life. Ds was fast asleep when we got home, haven't checked the pc history yet to see what websites he was browsing whilst home alone, maybe I'll get dh to do that in case there are any shocks in store. I sneakily told him we'd be home by 10 and I wanted him in bed by then. Seemed to work, but not sure that it would again!

Hey girls

I think we're entering the third trimester any day now!!!!! I think we deserve a new thread, but am not sure how to go about that. I'll leave it to the more technically minded of our sisterhood I think.

sweetkitty · 04/10/2005 21:11

hi lyra can I join you in a whinge?

Sacro-iliac pain is killing me, back and right hip in agony, taken some paracetamol tonight hope they help. Baby has turned length ways I'm sure bit uncomfortable. DD has had a terrible cold all day poor wee thing, she's been so clingy and listless. Drove for about 10 mins today and couldn't get comfy at all.

Thanks for the messages about the scan I don't know if I'm imagining things but I'm sure DD2 (to be) has DP and DD's nose.

OK whinge over horseshoe how are you doing hang on in there every day/week will be a blessing I always felt better after 28 weeks like it was the magic number

iris66 · 05/10/2005 08:22

just created a nice new thread for us as this one's getting so big (good call Lyra!)

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