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skihorse · 12/02/2010 09:37

I haz made new fred.

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salander · 08/03/2010 08:36

morning all

so had some more bleeding on fri and they managed to fit me in at end of day for a scan - was so amazing, all well, saw wee heart beating away - totally gobsmacked, cried my eyes out. about 8 weeks so happy days. honey so glad yours was ok too.

gasp/rots - fab news about your scans! so exciting

Cosmosis · 08/03/2010 08:54

yay for scans and reassurance sal!

skihorse · 08/03/2010 09:43

Just a quickie for now because I'm reeling and buzzing.

Curly wins a cookie for saying I'd get a boy! We have a photo of a penis (amongst others). He's healthy - we've been shown ventricles, atria, kidneys, bowels, blood vessels et al. He's measuring 21+4 (ish) so a week bigger right now but she says it's not a big deal. She also commented on the fact that he's a real wriggler.

I made a tit of myself though (par for course obv.)... have been steadily drinking water since 6:30am and bitching to jailbait that there's something inherently wrong about forcing water down yourself when you need to pee - like some mad type of torture. She scanned me and he was all bunched up, arse up, head, feet & hands down and she started laughing and said "see this big black thing? Get down now and go to the toilet" so I hopped off and ran. Apparently you does not need full bladder for second scan. Nobody told me.

I will reply to everyone else later.xxxxxxx

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skihorse · 08/03/2010 09:45

n.b., when I say we've got a photo of a penis amongst others - I mean we have multiple photos of the boy - not er... multiple photos of penis' (penii ?).

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iggypiggy · 08/03/2010 10:12

gasps oooh exciting news of little girl!!

and ski equally exciting news of Boy!

And not sure if I also said same to rots

but anyway - yay for all!

I did know that about bladder ski cos I always get asked for a piss sample before my scans - and when I said 'but doesn't it make it hard to see?' they said - no - only need full bladder for the early viability scan... so I no longer bother with drinking much water.

Also yay for sal's scan!

I start fat lady yoga tonight - strangely looking forward to it... plus have signed up for hypnobirthing course - which is in April... which is also when the NCT classes start - am bit worried will have no life as will be running from course to course

CUNextTuesday · 08/03/2010 10:22

Congrats each on boy/girl shiz

Still determined not to know here - want a surprise. Hom put the car radio on this morning and the vol was too loud which made Rastus properly jump . Was amusing.

Dad's 1st anniversary today. Feeling down in the dumps.

RunLyraRun · 08/03/2010 10:41

Not properly lurking, haven't read through, just wanted to send cuddles to you Cunty on your Dad's anniversary. Thinking of you mate xx

givecarrotsachance · 08/03/2010 10:46

Oh ski I'm so pleased you're having a boy! I've had the weird thing going on the last few days about mine. I was so happy, then I heard cas's fab news and if I'm totally honest, I was feeling quite . I know that if mine was a girl I'd be feeling the same level of whatever it is I'm feeling but over different stuff (like WTF do I do with a GUUUURL! What if she wants to wear DRESSES??? What if she won't climb TREESSS???). I'm being unreasonably stroppy with my adorable husband, who doesn't deserve it, and basically a bit low.

Nothing can be done but I just wanted to say that.

Thank you all for the good wishes re scan. Really appreciated that

sal having been through it myself, I totally understand what you and honey have gone through, and in fact me feeling a bit low about a boy now makes me feel like a totally ungrateful bitch. It's not that I don't want this boy, I mean, it's wonderful and I adore boys, it's just that I really want to be the mummy of a girl at some point and don't want to go through getting a football team to have one! Plus YOB is insistant that this is the last one

Believe me, I'm really aware that so many people would be absolutely over the moon to even be pregnant, and I want the moon on a stick, but there we go. If I can't be honest here....

MIL didn't help yesterday when she said she felt sorry for me coz a son is a son till he takes a wife etc. She has two boys and then a girl, with YOB being the oldest boy, so she knows!! It sounds like she was being mean but she wasn't at all, it wasn't mean how it sounds here - but even so it made me sad!

SomethingSuitablyWitty · 08/03/2010 10:47

That illustrated guide is very helpful Pony. The Germans have a way with words really. And what a beard Vater has. Sexy, jawohl!

So, I had to go cold turkey on the testing for the weekend with my friends. It was a struggle! I pleaded with boyfy to pick me up some tests but he pointed out that I still hadnÂ?t even used the digital one. I argued that I was afraid of the digital one and its overly technical ways and he laughed. I spent the weekend pretending to drink, but this was made easier by the fact that one of the friends is actually 7 months pregnant. So, not a very booze-orientated meet-up in any case. And plenty of scope for pregnancy questions!

I finally did the digital one this morning. It said + 2-3 wks. That seems to be spot-on to me. I am pretty sure I am 4 +4 today. So very early days! But here I am, ready to join the madness. I think IÂ?ll go to the doctor this evening and see what gives.
As for symptoms: well, I have been waking up to pee at 4 every night and am absolutely unable to get back to sleep. So, exhausted. Boobs starting to be a bit heavy and slightly nauseous feelings from time to time. I also had some cramping which worried me a bit and I said it to boyfy, who announced kindly that it was a very normal symptom and to be expected. This was doubly touching: it was reassuring, but it also showed that he has been reading up about it on the quiet, which I find very sweet.

Very exciting news about the sex scans! I canÂ?t imagine what it must be like! How fantastic! Ski are you going to call the baby Julian or is that just a bump name? And how about you Gasper - does it help with the name selection to know you have a girl? I went into the poshest baby shop in Brussels this weekend. ItÂ?s French (naturally) called Jacadi. I was in there with my pregnant friend of course. Anyway, it would be lovely to have a little girl just for some of the divinely unaffordable little dresses. Actually, IÂ?d love a little girl Â? just something IÂ?ve always felt Â? but I am sort of resigned to the fact that itÂ?s unlikely. In boyfyÂ?s family there are no girls on the dadÂ?s side Â? all men and all of their children are boys and their childrenÂ?s children have also been boys so far (just the one admittedly) so the odds are not in my favour.

But of course none of that matters. To have a healthy baby would be all I could ever hope for. So here I am, starting to be excited, though still trying to hold back a bit until we can get further down the road!

SomethingSuitablyWitty · 08/03/2010 10:50

PS - hugs to Cunty. That's very sad.

skihorse · 08/03/2010 10:50

cunty Maybe Rastus was channeling your dad this morning "turn that ruddy music down girl!". I hope today goes OK - I take it you'll be talking to your mum later?

rots That dress is really lovely - I'm impressed! Ya boo sucks to the tight 16. I had the same on saturday actually, tried on a top which was obscenely tight around the boobs and I do not believe for one iota that I've gone up 3 fucking dress sizes around my chest! Btw, wrt organic - I am far less concerned about organic clothing - I'd rather have organic products to slather all over my PFB - why don't you do those on MAC eh? hmm? eh? Head-to-toe organic clothes don't cut it when you're powdering his winky, SLS'ing his bumhole and your nail- varnish (during pregnancy) is causing genital mutations. Sometimes I wish I'd never read that buggering book! Btw yes, Newcastle meet is Saturday 15th May. All PESHes welcome.

Silver/pony I've only had a day or two of bunged up and as pony said, more of a "job only half done" feeling. I'm eating a lot of celery though which is supposed to help morning sickness too... and I've got to make up for the fecking mcdonalds somehow.

rots If the darned waitress bitches aren't taking the bait how about pulling a pack of full-strength marlboros out of your asda carrier bag and asking for a light? Or would they simply smile and say "No smoking inside I'm afraid madame, you can use the atrium."

sal Great news! Did they give you any reason for the bleeding or was it just one of those things?

Re: Shetlands. We stopped off (at McDonalds natch) after the scan this morning for a chat and a grin. I asked if our little boy was going to have a Shetland pony? Noooo, apparently jailbait's boy is going to have a Clydesdale. When he's 2?

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CUNextTuesday · 08/03/2010 10:52

Thanks Lyrical

skihorse · 08/03/2010 10:52

If I'm honest I secretly wanted a boy. Jailbait said after that he was worried I'd miss out not having a girl. But right now I'm happy it's a boy, a couple of reasons really. I never had a brother so I don't have any pre-conceptions about little boys... and I had a fear if it were a girl that I'd repeat the mistakes my mother made. So I can practice on the boy and if it works I can try for a girl!

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CUNextTuesday · 08/03/2010 10:54

And everyone else

salander · 08/03/2010 10:55

witty v nice to see you here - v exciting, totally understand the paranoia!

cunty sorry mate, thats v sad

ski yeah they said there was some 'separation of the membranes' (yeah, not at all fucking terrifying) - said she could see v small bit of bleeding which would prob just form a clot eventually. seems to have stopped anyway so everything crossed again

iggs yay for the yoga - sounds cool actually

rots thanks for the wishes. think i can imoagine what you mean, it must be v hard.

skihorse · 08/03/2010 10:56

switty Congratulations! Julian has always just been a joke name for us - it was our "what is the worst name in the world for a baybee?" name. We have pretty much decided on the name but also said this morning that this didn't mean we wouldn't still look at other names. Jacadi? Well, feck you then - I was going to share with you my bargain finds but clearly you are a eurocrat with a penthouse in Montgomery so don't need my bargain finds!

I'm also really thrilled I'm having a boy because it was the one thing my mum really wanted - so it's very much "in yo face beeyatch!"

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salander · 08/03/2010 10:57

I have 2 sisters so kinda think i would have nae idea what to do with a boy! but actually at this stage and esp after last week quite happy to still be preggers really

givecarrotsachance · 08/03/2010 10:57

cunty X post. Is it a year already? So, so sorry. YOB says the first year anniversary is the worst Thinking of you today.

@ Rastus jumping!!

CUNextTuesday · 08/03/2010 11:04

Flown by innit rots. Nothing really special about today I suppose - am tearful every day.

@ Rastus channeling Dad - had to watch that prog on the Solar System last night on 2 so that Rastus can start womb-learning. My Dad was the type of bloke that knew a little bit about a lot of things and my childhood was made up of learning about stuff like cloud formations, stars/constellations, nature, rocks and shiz. We went out on rambles a lot and it was always an opportunity for Dad to impart knowledge. He was great, always enjoyed a good discussion, esp if he learned something to boot. That prog would have been right up his alley and had Rastus been 8, 9, 10 would have been a topic for dissection and discussion . Bless him. Rastus is really going to miss out

Cosmosis · 08/03/2010 11:06

cunty so sorry PESHBabe. Mucho slaps, kicks and a swift cuddle while no one is looking. xx

SomethingSuitablyWitty · 08/03/2010 11:11

Ski I visited Jacadi in a fit of baby lust together with pregnant friend. Would never buy anything in there as would be physically unable to hand over 57 euros for a babygrow (even if it was delightful white linen with the cutest buttons). I am no eurocrat and don't work in the institutions - I am holed up in St Gilles. So hit me with your bestest tips! But I'll see your Hema and raise you a DOD junior.

skihorse · 08/03/2010 11:19

Oooh Dod jr... never thought of that - in fact I thought Dod had died. Well a couple of finds I've had so far are Kruidvat - 5 babygros for 5 euros anyone? Hema (of course) - but beware, apparently stuff comes out on the small side and you will get waylaid by giant packs of JellyBelly beans. C&A is absolutely bloody glorious - they've got some really nice maternity wear (who knew?) and some really really smashing baby clothes which are the holy grail of baby clothes... non-gender specific! You can haz quads and get 1000 euros a month in child benefit from Belgian government?

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skihorse · 08/03/2010 11:22

The big baby shop which I can't remember the name of, but it's in Leuvensesteenweg between St. Stevens Woluwe and Sterrebeek is a big, fat rip-off. BCT (Brussels Childbirth Trust) bi-annual sales are supposed to be awesome, but a pure bunfight. If you go to NL you have www.babydump.nl and www.babyplanet.nl. In Aachen you have www.babyone.de where if you're buying new you can save a couple of hundred euros on the travel system alone!

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givecarrotsachance · 08/03/2010 11:26

Cripes lots of simul-posts!

I know I'm being stupid about the boy/girl thing. And believe me, I'm utterly delighted to be having a baybee. And I'm actually delighted to have a boy. I just want a girl, too, and every time I do this and don't get one reduces the chances of me ever getting one if that makes sense.

LOL ski at the fags!!

Organic cotton reasons:

Conventional cotton is one of the most destructive crops available. To make one t-shirt uses approx 1 cup full of chemicals ? insecticides, herbicides, fertilisers. There?s not the same limits as there are for non-organic food production so a lot more chemical is used. Because most cotton is produced in developing countries where health and safety is really not considered, the upshot is that water courses are poisoned, and the average life expectancy for a cotton farmer is around 20 years less than it should be.

Much conventional cotton is now GM (which is not allowed with organics). In developing countries this ties the farmers into re-buying seed every year rather than using seed grown on the cotton ? and this pushes them further into debt. It also increases the use of some chemicals as the GM used allows it to resist a certain herbicide, for instance, so rather than using people labour (and creating local jobs) to remove weeds, it gets sprayed with yet more expensive chemicals.

Some cotton is produced in the US. Because of the US?s way of controlling its trade (protectionism), when the cotton market fluctuates its farmers are supported, while the world market crashes and Indian farmers starve. The suicide rate amongst cotton farmers in developing countries is around 10x the national average due to the terrible hardships that they go through during market downturns.

Fairtrade cotton is the best option. It supports the farmers financially by guaranteeing that they are paid a minimum amount for sustainability at all times and extra as the market rises, plus a premium which never changes even with the market, which is used for community development projects such as hospitals and schools.

Fairtrade cotton is not organic unless it?s separately certified as such, but there are strict limits on the chemicals which can be used on Fairtrade cotton, so if there?s a choice between Fairtrade and organic, I?ll go for Fairtrade. Organic cotton is a brilliant option from an environmental point of view, and if it?s produced in a developing country they will also have had much support in other areas.

Organic cotton is finished without formaldehyde (a fire inhibitor) which means that it?s less likely to irritate delicate skin. LC wore mostly organic cotton until he went to school, which really helped his eczema, and it flared up terribly when he went to school wearing conventional cotton shirts and a jumper made from artificial fabrics.

Organic cotton is usually hand picked, which leaves the fibres longer than machine picking, creating a super-soft, super gentle fabric which can be easily distinguished from conventional cotton.

So all round it?s better for the producers, better for the environment and better for the wearer. My organic tees are just sooo silky soft and if you could feel the stuff I sell in MAC, you?d immediately tell the difference.

Finally, you mention lotions and potions. We only sell parabens and SLS-free organic toiletries. Clearly there?s no point putting your babe in organic clothing then smearing crappy creams and powders over him.

givecarrotsachance · 08/03/2010 11:31

witty Told yer so

LOL

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