Becoming bulgy! June-oh what I mean? (June part 2)

[madamefreckle]

Hello everyone! Welcome to the second thread! Hope you are happy enough that I've gone ahead with this title! If not, I won't be mortally offended if you ditch it and start again!

Here is the list - hope it is more or less up-to-date. Apologies if you're missing, please add yourself on. Pogue - we don't have you on here. Scared - are you still around? Perhaps you've moved to the May thread. Let us know how you're doing.

27th-3rd - ScaredofEverything, 33, #2
30/05 GoodName, 31, #1
1st - Washersaurus , 33, #3
1st - ELM, 29, #2
1st - bambino02, 23, #2
1st - mampam, 29 #3
1st - whenwillisleepagain, 42 #2
2nd - scrappydappydoo, #3
2nd - MrsGravy, 33, #3
3rd - nickytwotimes, 35, #2
3rd - RnB, 31, #3
3rd - Tafftaff, 36, #2
4th - minimoonumbertwo, 33, #2
4th - madamefreckle, 33, #2
4th - sunshiney, 34, #2
5th - greensnail, 27, #2
5th - Dizzymac, 35 No.3
6th - AlwaysHopefull, 35, #2
6th - zumm, 37, #1
7th - LittleRobbo, 34, #3
7th - MrsC09, #1
7th - mumandlovingit, 28 #4
8th - Tobermory, #2
8th- Saucepanman, 31, #4
9th - Woofie, 33, #2
10th - charlottew 32, #1
10th - fillybuster 35, #3
10th - upsydaisysexstylist #3
11th - PorridgeBrain, 34, no. 2
12th - UnrequitedSkink, 33, no. 2
12th - Rangemaster 29, #3
11th - Fabi76, #1
13th - ChairmumMiaow, 29, #2
13th - sobloodystupid, 34, #3
14th - Cadmum, 38, #5
14th ? MrsAlwaysRight, 31 #2
15th - MummyWantsANewBag, #2
15th - Ponymum, 41, # 2
17th - Bluesnowfalcon 28 #1
17th - theperfectbaguette 34 #1
17th - muchchocolate #2
18th - Horton 40 #2
19th - Ladyemmalou83, 26 #1
19th - Georgee 37 No 1
21st - Gizmo, 39, #3
22nd - GinaFB, #1
23rd - Sunshineday 39 #5
23rd - GibberingGinger 33 #2
23rd? - Spudthescarecrow #3
24th - imkeepingmum, #1
25th - Ilovemyterrier, 38 no1
25th - readysetgo, #1
26th - Celery, 34 #4
28th - CantSleepWontSleep (HappyAccident),
36, no3
29th - MrsDmamee #3
30th - Monthlymayhem, 34, no. 2

Well, you go away for a weekend then you have to catch up!!

Hope everyone is doing ok and feeling better/less tired.

I did NCT and NHS antenatal classes with DD1 and still see a couple of the girls from my NCT classes although not actually anything with NCT. The NCT classes were probably more informative though. I also went to some mother and baby sessions that were run by the health visitors at the local surgery and met a few friends there that I'm still in touch with now. I didn't do anything for DD2 though so probably won't do anything this time around either.

I'm trying to work out how to tell work that I'm pregnant - only went back in August and will be finishing at the end of April so feel a little bit guilty - any ideas? I need to do it soon though as my belly seems to have "popped" and I'm not sure I can hide it much longer!

Just adding my stats to the list.

Millymollymoo, ?, #4 - scanned
27th-3rd - ScaredofEverything, 33, #2
30/05 GoodName, 31, #1 - Scanned (next scan 13th January)
31/05 RnB, 31, #3 - scanned (next 20/01)
31/05 dinosaurinmybelly (DIMB), 37, #3 scanned (next scan 8 Jan)
1st - Washersaurus , 33, #3
1st - ELM, 29, #2
1st - bambino02, 23, #2
1st - mampam, 29 #3
1st - whenwillisleepagain, 42 #2
1st - PogueMahone, 35, #3 - scanned
2nd - scrappydappydoo, #3
2nd - MrsGravy, 33, #3
3rd - nickytwotimes, 35, #2
3rd - Tafftaff, 36, #2
3rd - Jenba, ?, #3
4th - minimoonumbertwo, 33, #2 - scanned
4th - madamefreckle, 33,#2 -scanned (nxt14/1)
4th - sunshiney, 34, #2
5th - Dizzymac, 35 No.3
6th - AlwaysHopefull, 35, #2
6th - zumm, 37, #1
7th - LittleRobbo, 34, #3
7th - MrsC09, #1 - scanned
7th - mumandlovingit, 28 #4
7th/11th - PorridgeBrain, 34, no. 2 - scanned
8th - Tobermory, #2
8th- Saucepanman, 31, #4
8th - MrsAlwaysRight 31, #2 - scanned
9th - greensnail, 27, #2 - scanned
10th - charlottew 32, #1
10th - upsydaisysexstylist #3
11- woofie, 33, # 2 - scanned
12th - UnrequitedSkink, 33, no. 2
12th - Rangemaster 29, #3
11th - Fabi76, #1
13th - ChairmumMiaow, 29, #2 - scanned
13th - sobloodystupid, 34, #3
14th - Cadmum, 38, #5 - scan 30th Nov
14th - Fillybuster, 35, #3 - scanned
15th - MummyWantsANewBag, #2
15th - Ponymum, 41, # 2
16th - NizzyNoodles, 35, #3 - scanned
17th - Bluesnowfalcon 28 #1
17th - theperfectbaguette 34 #1
17th - muchchocolate #2
18th - Horton 40 #2 - scan 7th December
19th - Ladyemmalou83, 26 #1 - scanned (next scan 8th Dec)
19th - Georgee 37 No 1
21st - Gizmo, 39, #3
22nd - GinaFB, #1
23rd - Sunshineday 39 #5 scanned next 07/01
23rd? - Spudthescarecrow #3
24th - imkeepingmum, #1
24th - GibberingGinger #2+3 - scanned
25th - Ilovemyterrier, 38 no1
25th - readysetgo, #1
26th - Celery, 34 #4
27th - Stac14, 30 #2 - scan 2nd Dec
28th - CantSleepWontSleep, 36, no3 - scan 10th Dec
28th - diznom 32 #1
29th - MrsDmamee #3
30th - Monthlymayhem, 34, no. 2

I'm with you NizzyNoodles I only went back to work at the beginning of Oct and planning on going back on ML end of May, they are not going to be impressed. Going to try to hold off telling them until the new year though although I got a bit of belly already....

I did NHS classes with DD everyone was very friendly. Most of the girls I am friends with now I met at either these classes or baby groups. I am still in touch with them but hardly see them now I am back at work full-time.

I'm in the same boat nizzynoodles and herewegrow I've only been back at work a couple of weeks! And plan to start mat leave at the end of april i think. Am planning to pluck up the courage to tell them this week, should be interesting...

cadmum don't be too jeallous, I'm knackered too but luckily not sick anymore. I just forget why I'm so tired

Cadmum speaking of jealousy, I am quite jealous of you moving to Cambodia. Actually sounds amazing. What will you do there?
We went on holiday there (and to vietnam/thailand) this June (last major holiday before having baby) and I loved it although it was incredibly hot. Sounds like you have a very interesting life. By the way my mum had 5 kids (must have been with similar age gaps as well) and we had a fantastic family life and are still all really close now. Think big families are the best if you can do it.

I also was wondering whether or not to NTC classes, seem quite expensive for what they are tho.

hello All nothing much to report..11 weeks today so hopefully nearing the end of the dreaded sickness.
Was feeling awful today, it just drives me insane, i feel sick when i dont eat and sick when i do eat and then if im really lucky i get to see it all again in the bathroom

trying to catch up om all the posts ive missed and hope everything goes well for all of us over the next 30 or so weeks

ive yet to tell most of my family and will do so over xmas, was waiting until i was closer to 14 weeks before telling SIL she is 7 weeks away from having her 1st baby and i didnt want to be telling her too early. She is having a wonderful glowing 1st pg and of course im (a little) but delighted everything as gone so smoothly for her too

I thought about NCT classes last time but the nearest were 20 miles away with a huge catchment area so in reality the mums I would have been meeting might have lived 40 miles away. Not ideal when I wanted to meet local mums. However went to NHS classes at our local GP surgery and although met some mums there was never really the opportunity to chat, I was always rushing off back to work.

However after baby was born, went to postnatal classes organised by NHS called Baby Matters classes. They were great. Met all the mums from the antenatal classes again and had much more time to make friends with them. But going back to work meant that I've lost touch with a lot of them.
In the long run, the mums I know best are from the tots group I go to on my day off.

Not much to report from me. Still nauseous. Have another scan on Thurs which I am looking forward to, though its for nuchal fold screening so am a bit nervous about that.

Ok thought the morning( hmm) all day sickness was easing too until changed my ds nappy!

He has been very chatty about the baby in my tummy since last scan asking me to draw her and saying she will need nappies, a new dress and a hairbrush. Mind you he also thinks she has boobies in my tummy and books, I think he is getting me muddled with his book on kangeroos !

All you considering NCT classes you get help with costs if your income is under £25,000, and you can always go to the bumps and babes groups as a bump. Handy to see other mums bf and get all the helpline numbers. Done the pr bit now, not bothering myself as out NCT group toddlers group is full of new babies and pregnant mums at the moment

Just catching up on everyone's news. 15 weeks tomorrow and things have been uneventful, which I like! let it stay that way! except for first ever night of leg cramps (I had been flicking through a pregnancy book and noticed a section on cramp, and foolishly thought that because I didn't have it last time, I wouldn't this time - duh) and DS kneeing my bump pretty hard earlier today. Presumably all pregnant women with small children have this happening to them on a regular basis though.

I didn't do NCT - but thought the antenatal classes at the hospital were fine, and I made friends at the bf & other sessions at the Children's Centre after I had DS. I did get invited to some NCT social sessions in cafes for new mums, but was always a bit shy about going because I thought others might have already done classes together - but that may well not be the case.

Has everyone told their families now? We told the in-laws yesterday and they were surprised and distinctly underwhelmed and unimpressed. Didn't even congratulate us.
We haven't told my parents yet because our relationship is very strained at the moment, and we don't speak. We're hoping that we'll get a decent scan photo this week and then make them a Christmas card on Moonpig or something with pics of both dc and the scan, sign it from 'the grandchildren' and see how long it takes them to realise.

Sounds like a great idea CantSleep . Sorry to hear your in laws were not jumping for joy.

I told my parents at around 7 weeks. They find it v. hard to sound enthusiastic in front of me but I have since heard that they've been spilling the beans to others in quite an excited manner. Why they have such trouble expressing emotions to their own offspring I have no idea. It's always been like that though, they would never dream of telling me or my siblings that they love us. The idea of it would make them cringe into their boots! Weird.

MadameFreckle

My mum is very much the same. Her reaction to this pg was 'Oh...' Well thanks for that, mum

Just want to say CONGRATS TO ALL who've had positive scans and welcome to all the new ladies!!

My parents live in Canada so I told them on the phone. My mum's reaction was: "You're not. You're NOT. You're not, REALLY!" At that point my dad grabbed the phone from her and went on and on about how dh and I are great parents and how much he loves his grandchildren. I had images of him whacking my mum about the head and shoulders as she was reaching for the phone back. Once she had succeeded in obtaining the phone, she managed a slightly more positive: "I am happy if you are happy."

My relationship with them is not really strained and it is me that has trouble sharing things with them but I felt the need to tell them before they arrive for the Christmas holidays because my house (and life) is a big mess and it will only barely meet their standards when they arrive unless the sickness abates quickly. (They arrive on Friday and dh is not back until December 19.)

I hope to manage to clear out their room and clean their bathroom today so that if nothing else, they will have a place to recover from jet-lag.

Sorry to hear about all the underwhelmed grandparents My relationship with my parents is very similar to be honest, however luckily the one thing they do get very excited about is grandchildren and our relationship has definitely improved since DD was born. In fact, they're coming over to see us today, and my house is a complete mess so really must get off mn and go and clean.

Hope everyone had a lovely weekend? We went to Manchester and back on Saturday with the dcs and ended up having a surprisingly lovely visit to my gps, although I did sob my little heart out in the car after we left....DH very sensibly pushed us out of the house by 10 so we got to M'er around 1.30 (weren't due until 4pm), so we took the kids to Pizza Express and then to a softplay recommended by some lovely MNers In the end we had a really nice day out and both dcs behaved like 'perfect' ggc at my gp's house for over 2 hours...phew! Despite the extra time in the car, it was nice to get home saturday night and then have a whole day in London on Sunday to do stuff.

Had my sister's 'family engagement party/meet the new in-laws' thing at my parents last night....really lovely, and no big announcements from Filly - I had told everyone important on the phone and everyone else had heard

Sorry to those who haven't had positive responses from their families...relieved to say that everyone on both sides (SIL included, although it is hard for her) have been very nice about it all...and my MIL and parents (and sister) are hugely excited

Weird upset-tummy thing the last couple of days though - not being sick but running to the loo every 30 mins or so, so stuck wfh the whole time

Going to tell my boss over the phone today, ahead of our xmas party at Ministry of Sound tomorrow...see no point in pretending to be drinking all night and I'll be visibly pg by January...no promotions in the offing so I guess I might as well 'out' myself now I'll probably start ml at the end of May/beginning June (I have promised dh I will not work until 39.5 weeks again this time around....)

We went to NCT classes before ds1, and whilst they were useful for the social aspect they really didn't cover anything we couldn't read ourselves. I also got quite as they are very prejudiced towards 100% natural births (ie no epidurals etc) and the impression they give is that everyone can have one if they try hard enough. In the end, of the 12 in my class, there were 6 c-sections (3 of them emergency), 5 long and difficult labours with epidurals and 1 quick and easy birth - and huge amounts of guilt/failure feelings amongst 11 of the 12 mums because they hadn't 'achieved' the ideal birth And don't get me started on the breast-feeding pressure! So one friend had an awful emergency c-section and then spent 4 weeks desperately trying to establish bf-ing when ill and stressed with a 5lb tiny baby....can you imagine how great she was made to feel? It was ok-ish for the social (as a 1st time mum, it was a lifesaver having 'friends' in the same situation and we had ds before most of our friends started sprogging) but I didn't make lifelong friends and with dd I hung out with my 'real' friends who had all been getting on with having their own dcs in between and were on ml, sahms, or working part time.

Dinosaurinmybelly - yes, lots of the same 'rather you than me' responses here from parents of 2 Weirdest was my aunt (mum's middle sister last night) telling dh in detail how 3 dcs is a really bad idea and how because she was a ft working mum (as am I) she decided 2 dcs was enough so she could give them enough attention etc....

Gizmo - both of my dcs have been 'off' the height chart when born (I love it that you can't get above 99th centile!), but nothing close to 1.05 ....rather you than me!!

Madamefreckle I am in utter labour-denial...no way am I going through that a 3rd time....

Cadmum - Cambodia, when? I spent a few weeks there with dh years ago, interesting place and Angkor was wonderful (of course) but we did find ourselves very uncomfortable with the unresolved history of the last 20 years....definitely liked Laos more!

Sorry for the long post....oops...

My parents are similar too! My mum's reaction was well don't expect me to look after it when you're at work.

Just received my scan date - next monday and I'll be 13wks. I am getting impatient...

I still have flu and feeling very sorry for myself!

Hope everyone elses sickness etc starts to improve this week x

GinaFB I'm a bit shocked at your Mum's reaction to your news!! Thats awful.

I'm quite at reading the responses people have had when telling family members! Family can be so hurtful at times can't they?!

My parents were over the moon although I was expecting the worse as DH and I are really stuggling for money and my parents have had to bail us out a couple of times. Instead my Mum just said "don't worry there's never a good time to have a baby".

We haven't told DH's parents but that's a totally different ballgame as we haven't been on friendly terms with them for nearly 3 years now. Think DH is going to send them a Christmas card and write it in there but only because is he doesn't tell them they'll find out anyway and then they'll play the victims to the rest of DH's family and they will be forever on his case!!

I can probably take the for the reaction from my MIL, she offered to pay for an abortion and couldn't believe I'd done this to her son.
The baby has been planned for over 18 months btw.

I think they've had their families, it's our turn now.

goodname and filly Dh would be working at the courthouse of the Khmer Rouge trials. We were originally expected to go in January but now I don't have a clue what the plan is as dh is in Copenhagen until the 19th and we don't have a move date sorted yet... Typical for dh's employer and maybe all for the best now that he has had an offer through from NYC as well...

I do find the history of Cambodia incredibly sad and the fact that there is still no resolution and continued evictions is even more unsettling. I do hope that it will be an eye-opener for our dcs who seem to think that hardship is not having a Nintendo DS or being allowed to play video games online. I would like to take advantage of the opportunity while the dcs are still young enough not to be resentful of the frequent moves. I would also really like to explore much of that region but well... db5 could put limits on this exploration, eh? Silly me.

My mum was also startlingly underwelmed by my pregnancy annoucement. However she was the same with my first, and with my sisters two, so I wasn't expecting much. Dad was very pleased though. I told them ages ago, about 5 weeks.

Unexpectedly she was really excited about it being twins though. She's not a gushing person but was pretty giddy for her when I said twins.

I have now pretty much told everyone on the planet, including work. Which I'm now wondering if that is a good idea, what happens if something happens? It will be a nightmare telling everyone. I should maybe have restricted it to people I would want to know if something went wrong. Having to explain to the postie/lady in tescos/neighbours etc that its all gone pear shaped when they excitedly ask how its going will be really awkward. Nevermind it's done now. And hopefully will not have to cross that bridge

GibberingGinger Try not to think about something bad happening. You need to rest and stay postitive! Having been there; done that I can honestly tell you (retrospectively) that it was a blessing that everyone knew when we had late miscarriages. AT first I dreaded the sympathetic looks and I hated having to tell people but the rumors spread quickly and people were remarkably supportive and kind. My dcs appreciated the extra attention from everyone and all of the play-date offers as I recovered. It would have been very isolating for us and confusing for those around us to not know why were so sad to say nothing of the hospital stays and follow-up visits.

(Besides, by the time you are 12 weeks with twins people have either sussed that you are pg or suspect that you are terminally ill. The constant nausea and exhaustion being dead giveaways! )

Back to my original thought: Everything will go beautifully! Are you feeling any better yet?

GG, I think Cadmum is wise here. Even with early miscarriages I was upset enough for it to be obvious and found that it was worse in some ways to have to say 'I was pregnant and now I'm not'. People really don't know where to put themselves.

Very interesting to hear what people have to say about NCT groups: it sounds as if there is still quite a bit of variation in the way the classes are taught. And what you have to say makes me cross, Filly, I don't think it's the role of any antenatal class to tell people how to give birth. I don't have any direct experience unfortunately, but I have a good friend who is the chairman of the local branch of the NCT so perhaps I might offer her all your feedback, if everyone is comfortable with that? I would hope she would not support a 'natural is the only way' approach - she's had complicated pregnancies and births and knows the value of medical interventions - but perhaps the best suggestion is to let the group set the agenda, and particularly try to cover non ideal scenarios in birth and the early days?

And oh bloody hell what a grumpy bunch of grandparents we have - MillyMollyMoo, your MIL is a shocker! My parents are laughing at me but broadly supportive: I think my PIL are nonplussed and probably slightly dreading the chaos 3 of my children can wreak in their very beautiful house. However, given that my boys have 'form' in that area (DS1 planed a large groove out of their mahogany dining table, DS2 broke a table over DS1's head) I can hardly blame them.

I have been broadcasting the news to all and sundry now. The DSs seem really excited - although they were more excited when they first saw the scan picture and thought it was a puppy . DS2 wants a sister, and obviously I shall do my best to oblige

Millymollymoo I am utterly and flabbergasted at your MIL....do you normally get on ok with her or is she always an utter bitch?

Cadmum, I must say the weirdest thing about Cambodia was the massive discrepancy between the poverty - lots of amputee children as a result of the mines, terrible roads even in the middle of Pnomh Penh, beggars everywhere - and the very flashy wealth of both the handful of Cambodians who were doing well in the new capitalist economy and, mostly, the UN officials and their very expat-brat kids (there's a whole other story there, but this post is too long already!). So there were lots of very big, very flash 4x4s driving around the almost-non-existent-full-of-potholes-how-can-this-be-a-capital-city roads. Especially in contrast to Vietname (no cars anywhere, no beggars, sense of social cohesion) and Laos (well maintained capital, no cars (no money!) and sense of civic pride despite the landmines) it felt vey odd. Quite wild west in fact. Having said that, it would be great to see some proper closure on the Pol Pot regime; I still think the biggest issue is that so few of the perpetrators have been brought to justice and that so many of those involved are still part of 'normal' society.

Gizmo - my grandfather thought the scan was a picture of a puppy . And ds is fully aware that the deal is "3rd baby, then dog" and has reminded me of this already

Hi everyone.
God, what a shame that some of the grandparents have been less than enthusiastic.
Happy to say ours have been fab, which is just as well as they had to look after ds the last 2 mths with me being ill.

I am very happy to say I am HEAPS better. Just knackered. But i can enjoy eating and drinking again almost all of the time. I will rapidly gain back teh lost 1.5 stone at the rate I am going.

Unfortunately, ds has woken up today with what apperas to be slapped cheek. I am getting tested for it next week, but fingers crossed I have had it.

SOemtimes I wonder what fresh hell tomorrow will brong, then I remember other [peopl's stories and get over myself.

Millymollymoo, ?, #4 - scanned
27th-3rd - ScaredofEverything, 33, #2
30/05 GoodName, 31, #1 - Scanned (next scan 13th January)
31/05 RnB, 31, #3 - scanned (next 20/01)
31/05 dinosaurinmybelly (DIMB), 37, #3 scanned (next scan 8 Jan)
1st - Washersaurus , 33, #3
1st - ELM, 29, #2
1st - bambino02, 23, #2
1st - mampam, 29 #3
1st - whenwillisleepagain, 42 #2
1st - PogueMahone, 35, #3 - scanned
2nd - scrappydappydoo, #3
2nd - MrsGravy, 33, #3
3rd - nickytwotimes, 35, #2 - sscanned
3rd - Tafftaff, 36, #2
3rd - Jenba, ?, #3
4th - minimoonumbertwo, 33, #2 - scanned
4th - madamefreckle, 33,#2 -scanned (nxt14/1)
4th - sunshiney, 34, #2
5th - Dizzymac, 35 No.3
6th - AlwaysHopefull, 35, #2
6th - zumm, 37, #1
7th - LittleRobbo, 34, #3
7th - MrsC09, #1 - scanned
7th - mumandlovingit, 28 #4
7th/11th - PorridgeBrain, 34, no. 2 - scanned
8th - Tobermory, #2
8th- Saucepanman, 31, #4
8th - MrsAlwaysRight 31, #2 - scanned
9th - greensnail, 27, #2 - scanned
10th - charlottew 32, #1
10th - upsydaisysexstylist #3
11- woofie, 33, # 2 - scanned
12th - UnrequitedSkink, 33, no. 2
12th - Rangemaster 29, #3
11th - Fabi76, #1
13th - ChairmumMiaow, 29, #2 - scanned
13th - sobloodystupid, 34, #3
14th - Cadmum, 38, #5 - scan 30th Nov
14th - Fillybuster, 35, #3 - scanned
15th - MummyWantsANewBag, #2
15th - Ponymum, 41, # 2
16th - NizzyNoodles, 35, #3 - scanned
17th - Bluesnowfalcon 28 #1
17th - theperfectbaguette 34 #1
17th - muchchocolate #2
18th - Horton 40 #2 - scan 7th December
19th - Ladyemmalou83, 26 #1 - scanned (next scan 8th Dec)
19th - Georgee 37 No 1
21st - Gizmo, 39, #3
22nd - GinaFB, #1
23rd - Sunshineday 39 #5 scanned next 07/01
23rd? - Spudthescarecrow #3
24th - imkeepingmum, #1
24th - GibberingGinger #2+3 - scanned
25th - Ilovemyterrier, 38 no1
25th - readysetgo, #1
26th - Celery, 34 #4
27th - Stac14, 30 #2 - scan 2nd Dec
28th - CantSleepWontSleep, 36, no3 - scan 10th Dec
28th - diznom 32 #1
29th - MrsDmamee #3
30th - Monthlymayhem, 34, no. 2

Millymollymoo, ?, #4 - scanned
27th-3rd - ScaredofEverything, 33, #2
30/05 GoodName, 31, #1 - Scanned (next scan 13th January)
31/05 RnB, 31, #3 - scanned (next 20/01)
31/05 dinosaurinmybelly (DIMB), 37, #3 scanned (next scan 8 Jan)
1st - Washersaurus , 33, #3
1st - ELM, 29, #2
1st - bambino02, 23, #2
1st - mampam, 29 #3
1st - whenwillisleepagain, 42 #2
1st - PogueMahone, 35, #3 - scanned
2nd - scrappydappydoo, #3
2nd - MrsGravy, 33, #3
3rd - nickytwotimes, 35, #2 - sscanned
3rd - Tafftaff, 36, #2
3rd - Jenba, ?, #3
4th - minimoonumbertwo, 33, #2 - scanned
4th - madamefreckle, 33,#2 -scanned (nxt14/1)
4th - sunshiney, 34, #2
5th - Dizzymac, 35 No.3
6th - AlwaysHopefull, 35, #2
6th - zumm, 37, #1
7th - LittleRobbo, 34, #3
7th - MrsC09, #1 - scanned
7th - mumandlovingit, 28 #3
7th/11th - PorridgeBrain, 34, no. 2 - scanned
8th - Tobermory, #2
8th- Saucepanman, 31, #4
8th - MrsAlwaysRight 31, #2 - scanned
9th - greensnail, 27, #2 - scanned
10th - charlottew 32, #1
10th - upsydaisysexstylist #3
11- woofie, 33, # 2 - scanned
12th - UnrequitedSkink, 33, no. 2
12th - Rangemaster 29, #3
11th - Fabi76, #1
13th - ChairmumMiaow, 29, #2 - scanned
13th - sobloodystupid, 34, #3
14th - Cadmum, 38, #5 - scan 30th Nov
14th - Fillybuster, 35, #3 - scanned
15th - MummyWantsANewBag, #2
15th - Ponymum, 41, # 2
16th - NizzyNoodles, 35, #3 - scanned
17th - Bluesnowfalcon 28 #1
17th - theperfectbaguette 34 #1
17th - muchchocolate #2
18th - Horton 40 #2 - scan 7th December
19th - Ladyemmalou83, 26 #1 - scanned (next scan 8th Dec)
19th - Georgee 37 No 1
21st - Gizmo, 39, #3
22nd - GinaFB, #1
23rd - Sunshineday 39 #5 scanned next 07/01
23rd? - Spudthescarecrow #3
24th - imkeepingmum, #1
24th - GibberingGinger #2+3 - scanned
25th - Ilovemyterrier, 38 no1
25th - readysetgo, #1
26th - Celery, 34 #4
27th - Stac14, 30 #2 - scan 2nd Dec
28th - CantSleepWontSleep, 36, no3 - scan 10th Dec
28th - diznom 32 #1
29th - MrsDmamee #3
30th - Monthlymayhem, 34, no. 2

just corrected my number to child number 3 im pregnant with. currently 14 weeks and feeling awful.sickness has stopped but im now blacking out, having migraines every day and itching all over.got a cold as well and cant stop coughing so i feel awful. didnt feel like this with my other pregnancies at all. some people are convinced its a girl because i have two boys already.

finally given codeine yesterday for migraines which im trying to take sparingly and also a cream for the itching. they're doing an ecg on me and more blood tests monday to see why im blacking out which is worrying me. fingers crossed the second trimester bloom will happen soon and i will start to feel better. i cant have anymore days off work. ive had loads off already.

sorry if im moaning, i just want to start enjoying the pregnancy, especially with xmas coming up.fingers crossed the baby will start kicking soon so i can be reassured.