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Due April 2009 - Festive bumps explode into crimbo, April mums wait in limbo

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BabyCRIMBOlat · 15/12/2008 19:48

New thread here (I hope!!)

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SnowySunshine · 27/12/2008 18:13

Nutty, he finished just as I was fetching my phone to take a photo. Then he decided it was time for a shower & came in to fetch his towel off the radiator. Naked. I had better be getting some action later, or he's getting so told off for this

Your MIL is such a cow! To tease you with pate on top of everything else! You should've frozen it into a big meaty icicle & stabbed her with it. It's only fair.

BabyCRIMBOlat · 27/12/2008 18:17

SNS your DH rocks! so glad he didn't allow it to be opened - I also love love love pate and goats cheese - in fact, I think my first meal post baby will be pate to start with some form of goats cheese and roasted vegetable for main! I made it through Xmas on applewood cheese!

Snowy, definitely think the pics should be taken!

I can't even imagine making plans for new year - not sure I would even make it until 12! I will probably be snuggled up in bed by 9 - although might wake up in time to see the fireworks through the roof windows in the bedroom!

Puzzle I've put on loads of weight (I stopped weighing myself when I cried at the gym!) but thankfully seems to be mostly in the bump area although my bum and thighs are getting a little larger!!! I have stopped thinking about it now and am just letting it happen - will deal with it all post baby! Refuse to let myself get stressed out about it - if that is all I have to worry about then that is fine by me!

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PuzzleRocks · 27/12/2008 18:18

Blimey Nutty, you are a better person than me. I would have gone nuclear over that.

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 18:51

Cool, you could enter him for a naked chef competition lol

luckily i was in more of a "i could murder a bacardi & coke" frame of mind (due to IL's visit) if she (or anyone else) had started cracking open wine etc i would have completely gone fruitloop bad back or no it would have been carnage.

The pate was a minor dig compared to what she can be like.

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 19:02

Good thing is that my brother and sil are coming down from oop north on monday and staying for 2 days, so that will be soooo fantastic (haven't seen them for 6 months) will get lots of love and cuddles and looking after (dh & dd are fantastic and i love them to bits but seeing either of my brothers sort of recarges me so i feel i can deal with everything and reassures me that i'm not alone iykwim)

sorry v deep for a saturday evening

VirginBoffinMum · 27/12/2008 19:30

I am not as super competent or glamorous as all that, guys. The backstory behind my times in women's and celeb news mags is that I was living with a journo at the time, and was also a very hard up teacher in London with a small DD, so at weekends, evenings and in the holidays I used to do shifts for various publications. It paid a bit better than teaching per hour, but I was perpetually knackered, I have to say. Although I did get to go to lots of great parties, which was a terrific perk.

The backstory behind the cooking is that I was so bloody hard up for so long I had to learn the hard way. I wouldn't say I am a fancy cook of any kind, but I am pretty nifty at rustling up good wholesome meals that people devour, out of next to nothing in terms of ingedients.

Re: Pate, I have actually been stuffing my face with pate for the whole pg because I am a very naughty rebel who refused to do what the m/w told me. It occurred to me that for each pg I have had a different list of what I am and am not allowed to do, yet there is never any proper science behind it that I can find, so I am now ignoring all the b*x and doing what the hell I like. I eat like a Frenchwoman, basically (they aren't given these stupid lists, btw).

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 19:39

Oooooohhhh Boffin you delicious food rustling pate eating rebel you

stop with the modesty too and revel in praise, feel the love lol we women have to suck it up when we get it!! there's not enough praise for us ladies imho

VirginBoffinMum · 27/12/2008 19:43

I am feeling the love now. It is great!!

My rule for pg food is if it comes from a good supermarket, then eat it!

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 19:47

what supermarkets do you class as good boffin (is asda ok?) or should i go for sainburys/ M&S for my naughty contraband nibblies?

SnowySunshine · 27/12/2008 19:51

I'm sure the supermarket name on the packaging makes all the difference I was really close to having some 'forbidden' cheese yesterday, but it would've been more hassle than it was worth with all the hassle that would've come with it. People should just butt out.

& I full agree - less of the modesty, Boffin. You're fabulous, just accept it

VirginBoffinMum · 27/12/2008 19:57

I am shy now but enjoying the attention.

Re: Supermarkets. Any one in the UK which refrigerates the food properly and has a rapid turnover of supply. Look for slightly sanitised products rather than specially imported rustic things if you're going to sin. Common sense has to prevale a little here.

On my birthday last month I celebrated with a glass of red wine and some (fresh) unpasteurised camembert. Very tasty.

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 20:02

dont you just wanna lick the contraband items in a childlike manner and evily MWAHAHAHAHAH & say if i cant have it nobody can lol

SnowySunshine · 27/12/2008 20:09

We don't have contraband in our flat at all, but other people aren't so considerate at Christmas

Although I do have some really expensive unopened vodka that I was brought back from Russia when I was about 2 weeks pregnant & we had no idea - I never got around to drinking it. Luckily I still don't really fancy the idea of drinking, but I do miss going out & getting a bit tipsy. God knows when we'll get around to opening it. It'll be antique

VirginBoffinMum · 27/12/2008 20:21

Quite right, Nutty. Go for it.

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 20:24

We have some vintage champagne in the cupboard for head wetting in april (or may) dh got given it when he passed his wine course, luckily it gets better with age.

I have been reliably informed that because Vodka is so pure anyway due to the distilling process that it will keep forever.

SnowySunshine · 27/12/2008 20:27

Your DH really is a man of many talents! Good to know about the vodka, though. I'd hate for it to go to waste!

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 20:34

Tis his current job so he has to know about these things, hes was supposed to be doing his advanced wine in april but he's going to postpone it till september now i think.

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 20:34

Tis his current job so he has to know about these things, hes was supposed to be doing his advanced wine in april but he's going to postpone it till september now i think.

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 20:34

oops

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 20:36

has anyone gone off anything since being pg? last time i went right off chicken with dd and now i cant stand pasta for some strange reason

SnowySunshine · 27/12/2008 20:41

Ooh, I'd be lost without pasta! It's my absolute favourite food & always has been. At the very worst of my morning sickness the only way I could make anyone understand how dreadful I felt was to say 'I even feel too sick for pasta '

I've not massively gone off anything. I can't even look at a particular pasta sauce (tomato & mushroom) since I was spectacularly sick on it (I don't know why that affected me so much - I can still eat everything else I was sick on over the 17 weeks or so ) & have been a little off tea, although I'm better with it now - I never think 'ooh, I'd love a cup of tea' anymore, but can drink it.

Oh! Orange juice! I've not been able to drink orange juice the whole way through. No idea why - it'd be a really useful source of vitamins if I could face it, but I just can't.

thebluefoxategreensocks · 27/12/2008 20:42

Just saying hi - been busy doing lots of dusting around the house the past couple of days - have neglected it for tooooo long! ...guess it doesn't feel such a high priority when you're big & preg! LOL But I've been having problems with breathing/wheezing in my chest, which I thought might have been some kind of chest infection. Though now I'm wondering if maybe I've actually got asthma. Got antibiotics & an inhaler from GP last week (since not sure what I had) and had 2 good days but been worse again, esp after clearing dust from under beds! So need to figure out where to go from here, though seems it's not a good idea to leave asthma alone when you're preg, as important for baby to get enough oxygen!

Anyone here have asthma or any experience with dealing with it? I know I've previously had problems with breathing when I was around mould or cigarette smoke, but being rather dim, I never actually realised that it could be asthma symptoms! duh! Wonder how you can be certain if you have it or not? But I'm getting a bit desperate with not having enough oxygen to be able to come with daily tasks!

Hope everyone is doing OK. I'm just tired out...

SnowySunshine · 27/12/2008 20:48

Hi Rachel

I have no idea about asthma, sorry. I've been really lucky & avoided it - although I've been known to tell people that I'm asthmatic out of shame at my rubbish fitness levels

Exciting update for everyone: My left boob is now officially leaky too! It's still not as good as my right boob, but it's getting there. Everything 'official' that I've read has suggested that this isn't meant to happen for at least another few weeks, but there are a few of us leaking now, aren't there? Us April ladies are obviously just very advanced (Who's brave enough to post on the gifted & talented topic about it? [mischievous])

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 20:53

I (used to) love pasta, now i cant stand the texture/taste or anything its like slime in my mouth

Rachelinscaotland - My brother suffered really badly from asthma and dust, excersize and loads of other stuff used to trigger it definately reccomend another visit to the doc's so they can do the breath tests and stuff (as you can tell i'm not majorly clued up on this)

SantasNuttySTaff · 27/12/2008 20:55

Snowy - hurrah for your 2 leaky boobs that i still have no leakyness just yukky flaky boobs

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