Due July 2008 - The thread where we either all have our babies or talk our way through another one LOL

[Kaz1967]

Starting again ladies? God we don't half talk LOL

[disneystar]

aww thank you peanut for the kind offer and i am glad charlie is doing so well now

yes i do have a doula but TBH she isnt very good i dont have a lot of faith in her
she came with me nearly 2 weeks ago to an appt i havnt heard from her since despite promising to ring me as soon as she could
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she isnt on call until 2 weeks before and 2 weeks after i think
shes never assisted a mum for an induction or a baby with medical probs before
shes very lets go natural and i am having an epidural for definate
ive slept on it i dont need no one there i can do it on my own
my daughter wont have them for longer than 9.30am-2.30pm she just wont be able to do it
my dh suggested he pickes her up cooks the dc dinner and wil she be ok then but she is so negative and puts problem after problem in our way id rather just leave that idea and go it alone
she is expecting a baby in november and expecting me to drop all with 4 dc and have her son so her dp can be wit her
guess i feel let down right now
she had a good labour last time and sees it as easy and pain free as she had epi from 3cm to actual birth
things dont always go to plan do they though she will find she does need me and i am so cross with her right now
any ladies have to go my ds just got up and waiting for me to give him birthday presents

[mcchesers]

Morning all.

Disney- Happy Birthday to your DS, sounds like you have some great plans for the day

Jules - Mickey on BB gets on my nerves, she's all over the place. I should just read or something.

Woke up so sore, could barely walk to the living room. I've made my self a green cocoon with my robe and giant green paisley blanket on my lounge chair in the living room. I can't move and it's perfect.

Had a monster blow out with DH last night over God knows what. I'm just sick of being home and stuck in with a giant bowling ball stuck to me. Not that I'm not happy to be having baby, but it's just hard work lately.

I'm going into town to have my hair dealt with today. (gift certificate from a friend) and then back home before I spend money. Wish I could just wear a moo-moo for the rest of the time, or did someone say sleep? even better.

About the itchy hands and feet thing, as it is the tops that itch, I was prescribed some kind of antihystimine that I'm not entirely sure works, but is safe for baby and makes me a bit drowsy..hey added bonus.

[purplejennyrose]

Disney - hope your ds has a fab day!! If you get really stuck, I know there are'emergency childminders' around, usually accessed through Social Services - that's the case in Chelt anyway, should be same for Glos - as you have poorly ds you should qualify? They're meant for just such situations really. Except I know they won't do nights!!Will try and find contact for you...

[Heffagooday]

Disney - sorry to hear about your DD. Hope you manage to find an alternative. Happy birthday to your DS!

Sympathy to everyone with annoying mothers/MILs! My MIL has been out of the country travelling for 3 months but will be back soon. She's been a nightmare in the past; we're hoping that a grandchild will mellow her but will have to wait and see. Luckily my parents are fab and live very close by so that balances it out.

Mcchesers- your cocoon sounds perfect!

Re itchiness - I've been using aqueous cream. I put it on all over before I have a shower/bath and then wash it off. It seems to be working, although my hands still get a bit funny.

Sorry if I've forgotten anyone, my head feels all fuzzy in the mornings.

I had my first phone call yesterday from DH's stepdad's cousin's wife to ask if anything had happened yet and to check the due date! Slightly random but I guess I'll have to get used to it.

[libralady]

Sorry, didn't manage to get back on to MN yesterday as it was a bit hectic.

We do talk alot don't we and at least I've managed to track you guys down.

Will catch up in a mo. Just uploaded another couple of Luke's photos, from when we were still in the delivery suite.

Have we had any more babies yet?

LLxx

[Kaz1967]

Good grief can't believe we are on page 3 already

CilC I totally understand the how you feel I have ended up having a trace too once when LO was playing possum I just rang the maternity hospital and went down there though If you have the worry again (or over anything else pregnancy w I really strongly recommend doing that we have a day assessment unit which is open during office hours and delivery suite out of hours and they are far better set up and trained for hormonal pregnant women. I would hope that they would take into consideration that your hormonal state and anxiety. Yep you can get antenatal depression it's actually as common as postnatal depression although less talked about but I suspect you are just stressed, in pain and tired that is enough to flip anyone out. I have lost it as a witch of a receptionist who was a jobs worth (all the others are lovely) I did not actually shout I was is bloody tears and the silly cow accused me of abusing her (god I felt like hitting her) she got the practice manager down who was great and sorted out my problem within minutes.

disneystar I would be there too (not for the birth my offer would be for children only birth I want to be at is my own LOL I won't even read other peoples birth stories sorry girls) but I suspect you live to far away as I will be in Lincs from Sunday.

Is there not another Doula in the area? Another thought is can you afford to pay for a nanny for just one day there are agencies that you can go through. I worked as a temporary nanny years and years ago in my early teens and did occasional short term jobs that covered hospital appointments and alike.

[Heffagooday]

Awww Libralady, he's beautiful! So cute How are you feeling?

[pigleychez]

Peanut- enjoy your Mothers group club

Disney- Sorry to hear about your childcare worries. Look into the emergency childminders and such..might be able to help.

Hope your DS has a lovely birthday

Mchessers- Sorry your so sore, but hopefully your hair appointment will cheer you up!

Libralady- Lovely pics- Bless him! Hope your doing well.

Another lazy day here today.... have our last antenatal class tonight. All set now for the main event !!!

[JacobsPrincess]

Blimey I feel like crap this morning. SPD playing up, my bump is so big I think I may be giving birth to whole Rugby 7's team, and I think all last night's talk of having a show has set off my niggles. Had cramps all night, and gave up on the idea of sleep at about 4.30, so had a nice long bath. that eased the cramps a bit, and if it were not for the 2ft terrorist running around my living room, I'd be back in the bath like a shot!

[JacobsPrincess]

On the plus side, Postie has just delivered my TENS machine. So at least I'm ready if things do kick off!

[bebejones]

Morning all! Can't believe we are on page 3 already!!! Don't think this thread is gonna last too long! Feeling loads better this morning although dont want to jinx it! DH was lovely last night and made me lie down when we got home and got me some ice cold water and wouldn't let me get out of bed until I had finished it! Felt so relaxed it really helped! If it happens again will have to call MW but as it improved I didn't see the point. Think I might have overdone it a bit in the morning. Was just very restless and agitated I couldnt sit still and I think I paid the price! LO is still a complete wriggle ass so I am not too worried!

Whoever it was that said Mickey was weird in BB, I totally agree....why shout ALL the time, esp in Diary room?!?! And what was with washing his bits with a cup?!?

[Heffagooday]

JacobsPrincess - sorry to hear you're feeling rubbish! I think my TENS machine should be arriving soon, looking forward to it! My MW going to show me what to do with it so that'll be useful.

Bebe - glad you're feeling better!

[JacobsPrincess]

I concur that Mickey is weird.
Also, does Darnell realise the point of the game is to STAY in the house?! If he's always slagging off people for being fake (and straight to their face too) he won't last 5 minutes!

[Libra1975]

Morning all, only just got up and going to lunch with a friend who is also pregnant, I could get used to this maternity leave lark. Am watching Babychannel at the moment with tea and the mute on, not interested in stories just want to see little babies!!! So keep the baby photos coming Peanut/LL/isaidno/TJuice/Twinkle!

Spent an hour on all fours last night and the baby turned to OFP but of course by this morning it was back to it's back to back position. Grrr.

DS - so sorry that it sounds like your DD is being a selfish wotsit. Is there anyway you can put your mother voice on and inform her you need her help and it will be forthcoming or will that damage your relationship too much? Hope your DS has a great day.

EEC - I have bought one of these which is really comfortable
www.figleaves.com/uk/product.asp?product_id=ANT-5051&mci=&size=&colour=&image=r4 61761-p462088-front

Mncheesers - sure your DH understands that you just needed to vent, enjoy your haircut!

I have been told that witchhazel on a pad down there after the birth feels great - any oldtimers out there agree? (shall I stop calling you oldtimers before you clock me one?)

[Mummywannabe]

Glad your a bit better bebejones

Have midwife this afternoon, next appointment won't be until i'm 40+1 so might be last time i see her before this one arrives.

DH moody with me cause i snapped at him about his smelly feet last night! Hate rowing but he has grumps now so will have to let him get over it i think.

Right off to study have one more essay to do (should be done by monday if i get of MN!) and i will be nealy 39 weeks then, so just hope this little one stays tight until then!

[Poledra]

Morning all
I don;t seem to get as much time to post now I'm on maternity leave - I guess sitting in front of the 'puter all day at work was giving me lots of snmeaky opportunities to keep an eye on what everyone's up to.

Libralady, Luke is gorgeous!!

Disney I'm so cross for you about your dd. Wish I was closer then I could help (or my lovely mum if I was otherwise occupied).

Maybe TMI, but I have had quite an upset stomach over the last few days, have to keep runnig to the loo. Hope this is not a sign as I am so Not Ready Yet!! Selfishly, I want a few more days of rest before she gets here. Plus, of course, my parents aren't arriving till 09th July, and they're my childcare and chaffeur/ambluance service!

One last word - I know we're (mostly) on maternity leave ladies, but that is no excuse for rotting your brains watching BB!! I detest it, but then I was totally addicted to The Apprentice when that was on, so I guess we all have our reality TV weakness

[Poledra]

God I really should spellcheck before posting - sorry!

[gillythekid]

Poledra I agree re BB!! I gave it up 2 years ago and still feel a sense of freedom and relief at not having to watch a load of numptys every day.
May I take this opportunity to formally thank Radiohead for the continuing in utero musical education of my unborn child. The gig was wonderful, although my crowd surfing days are sadly over.
Sorry for those having nightmares re childcare, SPD, health and in law issues, this is such an exciting yet tense time.
Had my Bum genius nappies and Bio oil delivered yesterday so all I need is the nipple cream, some witch hazel (so I hear!) and loads more pineapples (ate one this morning).

[JacobsPrincess]

Mummywannabe - totally understand the smelly DH problem! It must be the hormones, but I think my DH stinks! Keep catching whiffs of onions fromhim, but I know he hasn't eaten any, so it must be me. In fact, all men smell funny to me. nearly passed out in Sainsburys when one chap stood too close in the checkout queue! Bloody hormones.

[Mummywannabe]

Jacobsprincess - glad its not just me! Poor DH feel bad now but the way i see it i have had to grow this little one for 9 months, put up with sick/piles/heartburn etc, so putting up with a moody wife is his part!

Will cook him a nice dinner tonight if he cheers up by then!

[Heffagooday]

Gilly - glad you enjoyed the gig!

Re pineapples - is it my imagination or is it OK to freeze fresh pineapple? I'm going to stock up, but I get ulcers if I eat too many in one go.

[jocesar]

I get pineapple ulcers too- why is that? Feeling in a good mood this morning. Had a marital relation with my DH for the first time for months! Bless him. It wasn't earth shattering for me but was perfectly nice and tbh has made me feel far less guilty for witholding relations for soooo long- purely 'cos I couldn't be bothered! And, bonus, won't need to do it for a while again!!!!! These poor men!
Having loads of Braxton Hicks- does this mean anything?
Question to experienced mums- after I have LO I want to get out and about to meet other mums- i've thought about baby massage/post natal yoga/breastfeeding groups- any other suggstions- preferably activity related. I live in dorset if that triggers any ideas. Thanks.

[bebejones]

I so completely agree with the whole smelly DH thing! DH's feet and morning breathe and how he smells after a day at the office make me want to stand him in the shower and hose him down with a jet wash!!! Love him to bits, and I am sure he has always smelt this way but it never bothered me before!!

I think I have a new addiction to Tesco cheesey mite twists! They are all I can think about. Kicking myself that I only bought 2 this morning. But think it would be very very bad indeed for me to go and get anymore. All that pastry and cheesiness would not be good for the bulge I will have to shift after LO arrives! Why can't I have sensible cravings....why is it always crap, no wonder the MW last week told me I was too fat to have my baby at the Birth Unit (Ok so she didn't actually say that, but I am hormonal and sensitive and she might as well have!!!!) On the flip side, could also eat fresh pineapple til it comes out of my ears, but as I am only 35 weeks tomorrow I don't want to start anything IYSWIM!! But all this pineapple talk is pushing me to the edge. Tesco do a big tub of fresh pinaeapple chunks all cut up and I could gladly eat my way through that in a single sitting!!!

[sweetkitty]

Afternoon ladies well I went out this morning and bought my essentials for my homebirth, 3 plastic shower curtains, cheap fitted sheet, 2 cheap towels and some Bounty kitchen roll (for mopping up) already have some maternity pads, made it seem really real . Also bought a present for the DDs from the baby so they don't feel left out. Am totally exhausted now had to stop twice when walking as well. Got loads of housework to do as well, kitchen is a bombsite.

libralady - photos of Luke are lovely

disney - sorry about your childcare debarcle, I know exactly how you feel although for us me going in to be induced on a certain date would solve a lot of problems, it's just this not knowing when I could go thats the biggest problem. I wish we all lived closer so we could help each other out.

mcchesers - enjoy your day out getting your hair done I need mine done but cannot be bothered, being wrapped up in a cocoon sounds diven. DP sent me to bed yesterday for an hour in the afternoon think I could be doing with that every day.

bebejones - glad you are feeling a bit better

EEC - I bought a comfy sleep bra from figleaves as well

jocesar - marital relations whats that again? Apart from the sheer exhaustion, SPD, heartburn and feeling like the world is falling out my fanjo I would be up for it as well. I think DP knows not to even suggest it for fear of death. I went to a postnatal group after DD1 was born and met a few mums there who I stayed in contact with, we used to meet up a couple of times a week too, unfortunately I moved away when DD1 was 9 months but still keep in touch. When I moved up here I joined a couple of Mother and Toddler groups and got some new Mummy friends through them.

Best be off get something done can anyone find me some energy from somewhere?