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Due April 2008 - Lets see those LO's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Carey87 · 31/03/2008 14:07

New thread!!!

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Mum2b2BabyRoo · 31/03/2008 22:36

I have no idea what to do about getting my nursing bras fitted. Because of weight loss, I have lost a cup size (SOB SOB) so I'm not sure when to go for a fitting. I was told 36 weeks, which is what I am now, but surely they are not going to stay this small?? When do they start growing?

ThePFJ · 31/03/2008 22:37

BTW I got my giant sized underwired nursing bra on ebay of all places. There is a seller on there that does them. Mine is very comfy and has front clasps that make BFing very easy. Mine cost me 18 pounds plus p&p I think.

Mum2b2BabyRoo · 31/03/2008 22:39

Sorry Jennie - just seen your message as well. Terrible thing for a friend who KNOWS you so well to say. She should know better!!! And even if she does think that, she should give you the benefit of doubt and maybe try see things from your perspective and shut the hell up with her very negative and unhelpful comments!

Mollyfloss · 31/03/2008 22:40

Mum2b: When they measure you for the nursing bra they sort of predict what size you will be. For the cup size they get you to put your fist inside the bra and that's how big you will be I would just get measured for one now if you want to be ready and if it feels comfy once your milk comes in you can quickly get another one.

ThePFJ · 31/03/2008 22:40

Ok I am going to lie down/try to sleep for a while.
I have had lots more show and bleeds this evening, and things are progressing.. albeit sedately.
Good night everyone and consider yourselves showered with mini eggs and every good vibe I can send to everyone.
xxx

Mum2b2BabyRoo · 31/03/2008 22:42

Thanks Molly! Where does everyone get measured? M&S?

Mollyfloss · 31/03/2008 22:43

Good night PFJ and good luck with everything! I'm off to bed myself, well after perineal massage. I hope it works because I DO NOT LIKE IT! I hope you all manage to sleep well

Oh and by the way, I forgot to remind you all recently but remember to do those kegel exercise!!!

Mollyfloss · 31/03/2008 22:44

X-posts: I found M&S not good at all. John Lewis are great for measuring!

Mum2b2BabyRoo · 31/03/2008 22:45

Night PFJ and Molly - I'm heading off now too!

And sqeeze 2, 3, 4...

jenniejennie · 31/03/2008 22:48

night everyone x

VictorianSqualor · 31/03/2008 23:19

Grr, jennie, probs green-eyed monster tbh, from your mate, it can be hard though. [[hugs]

AussieDiva, tis done I'll mail you in the morning, molly, I'll do yours once I've done m2b2br.

Good luck for 3am wake up call PFJ

Nanite peeps.
x

chipmonkey · 01/04/2008 00:40

Jennie, does your friend have any children? I think people who have never been pregnant have absolutely no idea of the effect that it can have on you! She does need to grow up though and be more supportive as does your dh! Not nice to have everyone ganging up on you!

Peachy · 01/04/2008 07:34

Jennie, that's not a friend who sends texts like that, is it? Honestly?

Don't worry too mucha bout the HV; they may want to do a test (used to be the edinburgh, not sure if they still use that) to determine risks of PND but it's an easy Q&A thing and just be honest. if you are going to have PND then its best to get what support you can now, but you know- it's quite possible to have AND (antenatal depression) and not get PND; I am quite aware I have a touch of the AND's, not surprising as this baby comes with a whole load of risk factors that i won't get resolved until he is 3. Doesn't mean i will get PND though, and if I do then I will just be a strong girly and get help ASAP and you will do the same thing becuase we will all help you. My Mum had severe depression for most of my childhood btw, doens't mean we have to live like them!. I'm lucky that she's OK (if a little unique ) now, though.

Please don't stress aboutt hat text- some people are oddbeyond measure. You know, i lost a supposed best mate becuase I didnt make her ds's baptism- as it was at midday when ds3 was born at 3am and we were still awaiting discharge LOL! other people have isues far deeper than we'll ever know and sometimes you just have to say 'oh well' and let them deal.

Carey87 · 01/04/2008 08:01

Morning everyone!

PFJ - Hows it going???

Anyone heard from Scorpio?

Woke up this morning extremely crampy, and just had another 'cramp' about 10 mins ago that made me go 'owoooowooooo'

Cx

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Annieroo · 01/04/2008 08:46

Good morning everyone,

I haven't been on here for a while. COngrats to all those who have had their LO's already, am soo jealous! have been willing mine to make an appearance for weeks days now and nothing - except a lot of crampy pains.

I'm sure my bump has dropped significantly though as my stomach now rumbles when i'm hungry where as it didn't before and it sort of feels a bit smaller, is this normal?!!

bunyanvillas · 01/04/2008 08:51

Yep, cramps here too plus knitting needle type pains. Was convinced that LO was going to make an appearance last night - but no .... so do we think that Scorpio is going to be next?

Carey87 · 01/04/2008 08:56

She has just kinda dissapeared, also, PFJ hasnt been on since last night and she's usually one of the first ones on here!

Its all exciting! Ive got MW this morning, praying that she says 'yes, your lo is engaged'!

Cx

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Annieroo · 01/04/2008 08:56

yes i thought mine was coming the other night too but all died down. Have been eating pinneapple, taking clary sage baths, raspberry leaf tea [sigh] nothing!

Ooh i do hope that there is another one on the way!

AussieDivaOnABreak · 01/04/2008 09:04

Morning! Sounds promising Carey...I woke last night with what I swear was baby's head virtually popping out it was so engaged, but this morning it seems to have floated happily back up again. Way too much room in there. This obviously calls for lots of naughty carbs to fatten it up a little more. Or perhaps I should spend the morning loudly flattering my bump in order for its little head to expand!

Looking forward to hearing how PFJ is going!

M2B2BR - which part of the Southern Hemisphere are you from? I was born in Melbourne but I arrived in London 13 years ago and haven't lived in Austraia since. Thinking about going back at some point once we've saved up enough.

Being on red alert every day now for an impending home birth is much harder work than I expected - I am virtually forced to vacuum, do the dishes and keep the surfaces clean in my living room/kitchen evry day and night just in case. Heading down to all the charity shops in East Sheen today to buy some second hand towels and sheets, and then that's it! Ready ready ready!

Carey87 · 01/04/2008 09:05

Well we ae offically 37 weeks therefore I'm going to go full steam ahead from today with the ole' pinapple and raspberry leaf capsules and the long walks (going to borrow parents dog for that )

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EllieG · 01/04/2008 09:15

Not fair. I want cramps and baby too.

Am watching the Baby Whisperer on tv. Is very confusing. She's talking about a 'pick up put down' method for helping sleep problems. Has anyone tried it? Is it any good?

I have a question - baby will be in our room but has 2 sleeping places at moment - we have screened off half of room to be baby's with cot in, which I was thinking I would use to get her used to big cot for some daytime naps if at home and first sleep at night before 10 o clock ish feed. During night I was thinking would have her next to me in crib so don't have to get out of bed to feed every time if doesn't need changing. DP says this is confusing and wants baby in cot all time, screened off from us. I dunno. I want her next to me - am I being silly? Please advise oh wise ones.

Carey87 · 01/04/2008 09:24

From what I've heard from other mums, you'll want baby next to you all the time. However my little brother (well hes 9 now!) didnt like his mosses basket and so from day 4 he slept in his cot. I think its a case of each to their own and that you wont really know until lo arrives, also your DP might completely change once lo arrived and might really want lo to sleep near you two

Cx

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AussieDivaOnABreak · 01/04/2008 09:36

Ellie, I used "The Baby Whisperer" religiously with my DD and it totally worked for me. She was sleeping through the night in 5 weeks and we had a perfect little routine going. What Tracy Hogg doesn't do (like Gina Ford) is try to impose a routine on the baby. Her idea is that first you decide what general type of baby you have (Angel Textbook, Spirited, Touchy etc) and then observe your baby really closely over the first few weeks using a method she calls E.A.S.Y - this stands for Eating, Activity, Sleeping and You. The crux being that she wants to encourage you to learn to interpret your baby's cries (because they don't all mean "I'm hungry!"...sometimes it's because of over stimulation, or wind) and most importantly never to let your baby sleep straight after a feed unless it's in the middle of the night. It Eats, then you do some kind of Activity which let's face it at that age will be a nappy change, or a walk in the buggy, then you put it down to Sleep leaving time for YOU. By doing this the baby learns to sleep on its own rather than being lulled to sleep by feeding. This is really important because it builds self-soothing skills and means you are not accidently teaching it to associate breast (or bottle) with sleep.

The pick up/put down method is designed to encourage the same thing - independent soothing - where you first WAIT to decide what kind of cry your baby is using, and then if it isn't hunger you pick it up, comfort it until it stops crying (IE. you have fulfilled the need) and then you put it back down again. There are varying degrees, so you may pick it up and end up holding it for some time, put it down and not move from the side of the cot. It cries when you put it down so you pick it up but it doesn't take as long for the baby to calm down. So you put it back and edge a little closer away from the cot. Doing this takes patience at the very beginning but I promise in only a few days you are literally putting the baby down at night after a bath and it goes to sleep completely on its own. Brilliant I say.

She suggest you keep a little journal of the EASY method and by the end of the first week or so you have a wonderfully clear pattern of when your baby is more/less hungry, when it is most awake, when it needs to sleep - and once you have these patterns then deciphering its cries becomes much easier.

I have a spreadsheet that I have printed out as a log which I intend to use for the first month or so that I can email to anyone out there if you'd like to use it.

That's my experience, I'm sure others out there may feel differently...but it really worked for me and I can really recommend it.

moominsmummy · 01/04/2008 09:40

morning all - just to let everyone know that if you use promo code sky20 on figleaves you'll get 20% off!

Carey87 · 01/04/2008 09:46

Would you mind emailing me the spreadsheet? Im quite intrigued.

[email protected]

Cxx

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