I LOVE the idea of the baby latching on straight after birth. I really hope I get that this time and that it all goes smoothly. I was truly hopeless at breastfeeding last time (although I did feed DD exclusively for 5 months), had no patience with it and found it a truly miserable experience. But I'm determined to try again and always said it wouldn't put me off.
However, when it comes to cutting the cord, catching the baby or anything that involves my dh being at that end of the birth, it's just not for me. He was kept well and truly up by my head last time and will be again! I couldn't even look at myself down there after giving birth so certainly wouldn't want him anywhere near it!
I've gained 5kg (I'm 20+5 too) - what's that, about 11 pounds? I think it's about average so far but I'm quite scared at how quickly the scales have been going up recently.