@LittleMiss7 I absolutely agree with everything you've said, and to be honest if you just say this to your consultant, perhaps ending with 'and I won't be considering any other options from now on, this is what is right for me and I want to sign off on it'. Then I'd say it's a done deal. Be strong, be firm, trust me in the moment you have got this 💪, because in the end just visualising a emergency section plus a vaginal delivery in your head will no doubt be enough for you to say everything you have just said to me and more, with confidence, and with absolute certainty. Your next conversation needs to not end with another, let's see how we get on sort of thing, of that's said to you after everything you are going to need to broach changing consultants as your getting so much anxiety about this part of the pregnancy, sleepless nights ect (lay it on thick woman!), That you need to know that you are supported in this decision and that the consent forms are done. You will not walk away without it sorted then I promise you.
It's two babies and you've made your decision so it will work out how you wish, it's just a ball ache and a stress that they haven't made it an earlier conversation isn't it?! I mean you have an actual condition, and I bet your consultant hasn't birthed two babies from their vagina 🙄.
Your body and your rights. That's what the nice guidlines say anyway, they will absolutely grant it, they are just basically waiting in case you have a change of heart which I assume most women don't, or your are somehow persuadable potentially.
You will get this sorted I promise, keep us updated, and look into the natural c sections, they are brilliant! Though not sure all hospitals do them but think a fair few do, see operation obviously but the babies push themselves out of the wound without being forceped out and they can lift the screen if you and your partner wish to see them born this way too ☺️