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July 2016 Babies (9) - let the babies commence!

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Ellizardo · 25/05/2016 20:28

Nearly there folks.

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beckslovestimmy · 02/07/2016 10:31

Hopes he's gorgeous, love the name too.

pulpi · 02/07/2016 10:46

Juflin I see we have very similar taste (am a recovering political junkie - recovering because this last referendum did my head in and I need a break). My top favourites that you haven't already seen are (in no particular order): House of Cards, The Thick of It, The Wire, The Sopranos, Deadwood, Parks and Recreation (we're watching this at the moment and near crying with laughter), John Adams, Fringe, Battlestar Galactica (also filmed in British Columbia, so I watch it when I'm feeling a bit homesick for Canada), Buffy the Vampire Slayer (no really, it's good).... I'm sure there's more. I've got How I Met Your Mother queued up (haven't seen the last few seasons) along with Republic of Doyle (for the Canadian content, no idea of it's good or not). I'd also suggest Corner Gas, but alas, unless you've lived on the Canadian Prairies, it probably won't resonate... or make much sense at all.

In baby news, this one has not shifted one bit. Definitely going late, despite all the walking and ball bouncing. Baby shower is today and I've bought all kinds of great prizes for the games. And booze. Lots of booze. And lemonade for me. DH is making a tortilla espanola and then the fellows are hiding out at the pub for a few hours (and coming back in time to clean everything up). So everyone will be tipsy except for me and my friend's 18 month old baby.

In non-baby news, my mom phoned me yesterday to tell me that a family member has gone missing and hasn't been heard from in 3 days. A history of depression + falling out with his wife + new meds = a massive row and him leaving Tuesday night in the truck, not to be heard from since. We're all trying to be optimistic, but it was only a few years ago that his younger brother hung himself (the family is still reeling from that - just days before Christmas and he left behind two very young kids). So naturally, the family is panicking and thinking the worst. I'm trying to be optimistic and hope that he's just gone for a strop and a campout in the woods, and that he'll be back in time for his stepson's graduation. If any of you have any family in Canada and want to ask them to keep an eye out for him, here's the link to the CBC article: www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/oscar-bot-missing-castlegar-1.3661243

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Thom80 · 02/07/2016 10:49

hopes - congratulations! I can't wait to see pictures.
you&me - that doesn't sound good, fingers crossed the antibiotics work. Hope things improve.
primary - I can't believe that you were scrubbing floors at 4:45!!!!!!! It sounds incredibly hard work. My OH would have a heart attack if he saw me doing that, he would think that I had been taken over by aliens! After discussion on this thread my brilliant cleaner is staying.
beautician - what is a Hollywood wax? I am intrigued. You make it sound easy looking after 3 with a third on the way but I am sure it is not!
julfin yeah to the mat leave! I am going to spend, if possible, keeping on top of politics, watching the west wing again for the tenth time, Borges, finishing off the killing and generally showing an interest in what is happening in the world outside of London!! My boss phoned me for a chat yesterday, I never said good bye as the last words I said to the office were 'they are brining me in for monitoring, I will be back in 24hes' famous last words. I am going to go in & say goodbye.
hope that the July babies come soon!!! I want to see more pics
speak - I hope that things are going well for you.
Good news, after two weeks we are finally home & I am typing this from the comfort of my own bed looking out of my window!!!!! It is so nice, even if I am surrounded by boxes. My lovely in-laws are staying & are super helpful. Emmie is doing well & we have the MW coming today. Because of the complications I won't be discharged for a while. We have a load of hospital apts booked in for her already starting next week for different bits stemming from being premature / respiratory problems but all good. I am a very happy Mummy!

beckslovestimmy · 02/07/2016 12:31

So glad your home Thom and your enjoying your home comforts. There's nothing like it is there?

I must admit I'm a little envious of the first time mums. I remember just snuggling up with new born DD and doing very little (especially as it was a very cold January) Now I have a 3 year old whirlwind there's very little time to sit still and cuddle Ben uninterrupted Grin

primarynoodle · 02/07/2016 13:01

So ctg showed i was having mild contractions but i was 0% effaced and only 1cm dilated... contractions have continued but dont seem to be more than once every 6-10 mins (not timing yet). Theyre bloody sore though! Am hoping and praying this continues and i have a baby in the next few hours!!!

Any second time mums - how long from initial contractions to going to hospital for you? Have been contracting for about 8.5 hours now!

Thom80 · 02/07/2016 13:02

pulpi - just seen your post, hope that he is found soon. It must be hard being so far away at times like this. X

tams13 · 02/07/2016 14:01

Congratulations hopes. He looks gorgeous!

Fingers crossed this keeps going somewhere primary.

pulpi I'm so sorry to hear about your missing family member. I really hope he is found soon and gets the help and support he needs with his new meds.

gnat99 · 02/07/2016 14:25

Congratulations Hopes! Thanks for photo of gorgeous Harry.

Primary - good luck! Hope things speed up soon!

Pulpi - that is worrying about your family member. Will keep my fingers crossed.

You&me - hope antibiotics kick in soon

Thom - great news that you are home finally. Enjoy settling in :)

Photographer (and whoever else was sympathetic! I can't remember!) thanks for hay fever kindness. It seems very minor in the grand scheme of things but oh does it make one suffer. I have decided not to go out today in the hope that this will help - probably only make me cranky tho Wink

39 + 3 today, no sign of baby. Sister+ mother in law coming to visit on Monday with niece and nephew - or maybe Tuesday - wish they'd make up their minds so we could plan around it! Means I need to actually clean and tidy today and tomorrow instead of just watching Wimbledon.

Beautician - hope you are enjoying 'not doing much' this weekend - not sure how you manage that as a pregnant mum of three Wink Hats off to you.

Bluebell - hope things start happening for you soon! From your post, I'm imagining you as a wobbling skittle, pulled around by your bump.

Am I the only one who feels happy to let baby stay in for another while? I think I always felt it would be late, and now I would really like more time for organising nursery and situing around watching box sets and reading. Clearly I should have taken mat leave sooner...

DH is so anxious and tense we keep having arguments - now there are two of us to be out of sorts! Hope things settle before baby but probably not. Oh well.

Happy weekend all.

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Bluebell20 · 02/07/2016 17:10

pulpi I am a rabid Buffy the Vampire Slayer fan. I watched the whole set of seven seasons in about three months a year ago, and if this pregnancy goes on for much longer I shall be watching them all again WITHIN A WEEK. I basically love anything sci-fi / post-apocalyptic. Have you seen Firefly? I'm assume so if you're a Buffy aficionado, but if not - get it get it get it! It's basically a space Western and it's so good! I'm borrowing a friend's login for Amazon Prime to get me through these last weeks of gestation, and have started watching 'The 100', which is space AND post-apocalypse - dream combo. A mite too cheesy to be genuinely good, but very watchable nevertheless. Not sure the adrenalin hits I'm getting when something on-screen makes me jump is necessarily very good for bringing on labour, though...

I'm really sorry to hear about your family member. I hope that he's found soon - such an awful situation.

photographer I am fine post-sweep, thank you... TOO fine, I could say! Nary a twinge have I experienced. Well, I did think I was getting bump pain last night and got terribly excited, but it turned out to be trapped wind. So disappointing. How did your sweep go today?

YouAndMe so sorry to hear about the infection. One of my NCT friends had that a few weeks ago - she is all good now though and looking fabulous, I must say.

Cookies oooo my skirting boards are really annoying me! I have done the upstairs but not the downstairs, and the ones downstairs are seriously bugging me - just not quiiiiite enough to induce me to get on my hands and knees and scrub them.

Hopes massive congratulations! What a gorgeous little bundle you have!

Cheery I also burn at the drop of a hat, so no tanning for me! I don't care though as I never get my midriff out.

julfin I laughed so much at the threadbare teddy comparison! That is ABSOLUTELY how mine looks after I went at it with scissors and razor pre-sweep. Sod it, though; it's going to look a lot worse in a few days' time...! Sooo glad that everything is looking up for you. Here is to a gorgeously relaxing maternity leave that gets you in just the right state of mind for the babe.

Thom I am so happy for you; after such a worrying time it is lovely that everything is now blissful and on the mend.

primary eeeeee that sounds exciting! Hope you have a baby in your arms soon :)

gnat I hope you get some time to relax in before the baby arrives, and that DH stops getting his knickers in a twist - it is a bit of a tense time though; I can empathise!

So aside from my trapped-wind pain last night, I've had nothing labour-like at all. We have dtd three times this week, I have been for a couple of long walks, I have bounced on the birthing ball until I ached, obviously I had the sweep, and none of it has come to anything. So tonight I am going to go out for a curry with DH and my dad, and I will be chowing down on a vindaloo. I usually eat madras and don't find it particularly spicy, so it's going to have to be a vindaloo if I want it to have any effect whatsoever...

Dad is slightly stressing me out, but the sunshine came out this afternoon and we sat in the garden, which was much better. This morning he told me I could 'do some clothes washing for him' and I had great difficulty keeping my tongue civil! I told him he knew where the washing machine was, and he was welcome to use it. He then said 'but I've got a bad back' (which to be fair, he does - looks like he's in awful pain, too - I am such a bad daughter), and I'm afraid I replied with 'well I'm nine months and one week pregnant, so I won't be doing your washing'. Is that awful of me? I know it's a bit awful, but the thing is I didn't actually invite him to come this weekend and I really do not feel like I ought to have to be a hostess at this point!

Aaaanyway his back is so bad he can't drive anywhere for a while, so he will be staying till Wednesday (!!!!!!!!!!!!!). To be completely fair, he is lovely and means well, he is extremely excited about the baby, and he has brought some very helpful gifts with him (e.g. a travel cot), and he is genuinely being quite considerate - but I am just so conscious that these are mine and DH's last few days as a two before we become three, and I am feeling awfully selfish about them!

Deep breaths, ladies. It is very sweet of him to be so interested and excited, and I am terribly ungrateful and unreasonable, I know. DH's parents (who live nearby) have offered to have him to stay for a couple of days from Monday to take the pressure of us with entertaining, which has helped me to relax a bit.

Anyway. One nice thing I did today was to handwash my childhood teddy so that he could be handed on to my little babe. GOOD GOD girls, the water in the first wash was VERY brown. I had to wash and rinse him six times! I felt awful when I was squeezing him out - like I was wringing a kitten's neck or something! He then took a little trip in the washing machine on a spin-cycle, stuffed in a sock to protect him because I was afraid his head might fall off. And he has spent the day sunbathing in the garden to dry off properly. Looking super-cute and quite perky, if rather lacking in the hair department.

Vindaloo in an hour and a half. Fingers crossed!

gnat99 · 02/07/2016 19:25

Love the teddy bear washing story, Bluebell! My bears are in Ireland and I didn't think to bring them back with me at Easter. Tbh, I'd probably have to freeze them first like my mum used to do periodically, to kill the dust mites... we were all so asthmatic!

Totally understand how you're feeling about your Dad. You needn't feel bad at all, space is so important at a time like this, as is freedom from hosting duties....

You must be having curry around now. Hope that vindaloo is good - and who knows, maybe it will start something?

gnat99 · 02/07/2016 19:27

Forgot to say, my DH has spent half the day replacing our broken kitchen tap. Corroded pipes underneath apparently so bigger job than anticipated, and lots of mess and sweat in the kitchen. But upside is I think he feels quite chirpy now Smile

Soon it's time for M&S pizza. Yum.

photographerlady · 02/07/2016 19:59

pulpi glad I am not the only one excited for all the next generation :) Really sorry to hear about your family member.

julfin enjoy the maternity leave!

HopesAndDreams15 such a lovely photo! congrats on the new arrival

primary go Primary go!

Well bit of a failed sweep this afternoon. Apparently it was easy to pull and stretch the outside but she couldn’t get through so its still 2 inches. Booked in for another sweep next saturday but honestly has me slightly down in the dumps. Not really sure what I am going to do to fill my week this week. I think I am slowly driving my DH insane with my restlessness and I keep finding it hard to just sit at home. I guess its the nervousness of being induced once again in a pregnancy.

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primarynoodle · 02/07/2016 20:27

gnat ahh no hope it gets sorted quickly!

Well what a crappy day.. after about 9 hours of constant cramps and definite contractions (and loss of mucus plug) everything has bloody stopped. Been walking/sleeping/eating/bouncing but nothing will start it off again - feel so disheartened :( photographer we can be mardy and miserable together!

mascaraisamust · 02/07/2016 20:46

Ah primary, can't be long though can it?? All the signs are there! Photographer hope things get moving naturally for you too! Gosh, I'm 38 weeks tomorrow and I can't imagine how impatient I'll feel in two weeks time, feel for you ladies who are heading for overdue x

dats · 02/07/2016 21:00

At this rate I'll end up having mine before all you lot - and I'm the one that wants it to stay bloody put!!! Wouldn't that just be typical? Grin

Sweeps sound GRIM!!! I don't want anyone pulling my fanjita about, thank you very much!

Hope those who want twinges to ramp up get them! Come on babies (except this one!!)

I'm about to tuck into a veggie mezze of baked Camembert, ciabatta, vine leaves, French fries, tzatziki...

dats 37+6 (two days over my last pregnancy, hooray)

BeauticianNotMagician81 · 02/07/2016 21:30

In case you haven't seen the fb page. Having pains here. Not sure if it's labour yet as there isn't much of a pattern. But they are enough to make me stop and think. MIL is coming over in a bit. I'll wait until I'm in real pain before I believe it

Cheery1 · 02/07/2016 21:41

Good luck beaut!

beckslovestimmy · 02/07/2016 21:54

I thought this may make you smile.Grin

July 2016 Babies (9) - let the babies commence!
photographerlady · 02/07/2016 22:03

primarynoodle we can be Team Overdue. Hope the contractions pick up for you again soon. I just am left with a soar foof (as my daughter calls it).

dats sweeps are a cake walk if you had a baby before. I just slipped into my hynobirthing breathing and let her have a good poke about :)

BeauticianNotMagician81 good luck Beau.. get rotating those hips!

beckslovestimmy that photo is great on so many levels.

Ellizardo · 02/07/2016 22:05

Becks - love the pic!
Beaut - yeehaw! Keep us posted!

Bluebell - how was the vindaloo? You are a brave lady facing that particular heat. And absolutely fine to tell your dad you're not doing his washing! Mine has the added bonus of being hard of hearing so I feel doubly guilty when I snap at him for shouting 'you want a conker???!!' after I've said a cup of tea would be lovely thanks.

Baby is going mental tonight (well I suppose it is Saturday night), thrashing about and generally making herself known to the authorities.

Had my pre op meeting yesterday. Got me antibacterial shower gel, anti nausea and antacid meds all set, plus they swabbed me for mrsa. All feeling v real.

Good luck everyone and please keep thisthread going even if a parallel FB universe exists!

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gnat99 · 02/07/2016 22:12

Tap is fixed, hoorah! It does mean we ate pizza quite late - and now I've got awful indigestion. Nngrh. Am looking forward to losing this particular symptom once baby arrives.

Primary - sorry to hear things have slowed right down. Fingers crossed you'll regain some momentum with it all soon!

Photographer, hope you get some baby action soon. Must be stressful thinking back to last time and worrying things will repeat themselves. Try and stay positive!

Beautician - thanks for update. Exciting! Think we were briefly due date buddies early on, before they adjusted at scans and then I ended up 2 days ahead of you. No sign of mine making moves yet... Typical if your bubs arrives at weekend when you specifically didn't want it to - they are contrary sometimes, aren't they?!

Dats - it seems we are together in our lack of rush for baby to arrive. Nice to have company Wink

gnat99 · 02/07/2016 22:16

Becks that photo is brilliant!

Ellizardo - when is your op booked for?

TheMissingPieceToMyPuzzle · 02/07/2016 22:56

Hello all, just a quick pop in to say if anyone else wants to join the Facebook group its MN 07/16. If you wanted to join you would now have to add someone who is a member of the group as I have changed the privacy setting to Secret I am more than happy for you to add me on Facebook and then if you wanted to remove me that is fine :)

dats · 02/07/2016 23:59

gnat high-five to the crossed legs crew!

Beaut ooh! Update us already! At least you're all trimmed and groomed ready, if he's making an entrance this weekend!

Bluebell damn right about not doing anyone's bloody washing! Hope the vindaloo does the trick - crikey. Otherwise the heartburn would be a cruel trade-off!

Elliz why would you not want a conker! Grin Good work on the preparations! Never fear, I'm in the FB group but my inane chatter posting is only ever really in here. What did you have for dinner tonight? Is that why she's going mental?

becks super cute photo! How old is DD?

photog I guess if I wanted a sweep it'd be bearable, but I just don't understand why people willingly choose them? Is it just total fed-upnessof pregnancy and wanting babe to come out? Maybe it's because DD arrived at 37+4 and I didn't feel too bad last time so I never got to that stage? And because this time round I'd like to birth the kitchen first??! Although I am getting a bit chuffing fed up with being such a whale, it's true...

primary sounds like you're getting there!!!!

Can't remember if I updated about this but eye de-pigletting was good, I am happy with the results and can def now forego mascara and brow pencil - hoorah! Went home after for a rest - via a hugely indulgent browse round Waterstones - mostly in the children's section, admittedly but goodness me, make the most of browsing you first-timers because it becomes a massive luxury! Got home and a midwife calls me and asked if I'm in this afternoon for a homebirth visit. Well yes I am, but rar! I'm trying to do that taking it easy thing that people keep helpfully suggesting and if it's not a midwife ringing it's a delivery driver with a birth pool liner or a jumbo pack of incontinence sheet things fer chrissakes! Always when I am wearing no trousers and practically break my pelvis trying to put them on in time to get to the door! What about my fat ankles?? I am trying to keep them up! You're not helping! AND having discounted it, both Normal Midwife and Homebirth Midwife said I should do some perineal massage as I expressed concern about tearing (again). Given that any ministrations around that area are almost out of reach, I will approach with caution. Pass the oil, someone - I'm going in...

Oh I also wanted to ask: Braxton Hicks - do they make your arms ache or make you feel like you're having a mild heart attack? Just me, then.

dats, 37+6 (cervix pride)

Cookiesandcoffee · 03/07/2016 00:25

Thinking of you beaut while I can't bloody sleep! Gah! I'm so tired why why whyyy. Hoping this is it for you and childcare is all sorted.

becks that photo is hilarious!! So so good

primary I'm sure it wasn't all for nothing! Come on baby!

photographer sending you positive labour vibes. Hope things kick off soon. You never know!

bluebell Hoping the curry does the trick!! Do your worst vindaloo! Come on baby bluebell!!!

Huge nesting day (ridiculous crazy mamma to be) Lots of 'clearing out' (tmi, sorry ladies) and random contractions throughout the day but all came to nothing. Meh. Now I'm wide awake.
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