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RH · 23/10/2006 19:16

Hello All

Hope I am correct in beginning a thread for July 07. BFP today (23rd October) and EDD 2nd July 07.

By way of a brief introduction; live in the South West, work part-time, have DD aged 5 and DS who is almost 3. Have been incredibly lucky this time as made decision to try for third and hey presto seem to have achieved it on first attempt (much to DH disappointment if you know what I mean!!).

Look forward to 'meeting' you and sharing this amazing experience with you.

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dewmeadow · 25/11/2006 08:53

mumpbump. Thinking of you.

Typhoon - thats right as far as i know.

Anyone else feel unbelievably tired and sick? I have fallen asleep twice in the evening (which I NEVER do in nonpregnant state) with my baby snuggling beside me. Its kept him up later which is a bit of a puke though.

Need to get some energy and motivation to keep exercising!

jennster · 25/11/2006 08:56

Am wearing sleep bra still to keep breast pads in place so don't wake up soaking wet! Can recommend the mothercare double pack, but ONLY their sleep bras. Their nursing bras are rubbish. Poor quality and not much support. M&S have done me proud. They use a triangle of fabric rather than a piddly bit of elastic (which stretches and becomes useless) to support your breast when cup is down.

typhoonsmum · 25/11/2006 09:10

cool in that case i'm 4 weeks 5 days not 4 days

Bodkin · 25/11/2006 09:11

Really sorry to hear that Mumpbump. Keep strong. xx

Cakehead · 25/11/2006 09:37

Oh mumpbump. Really sorry to hear that. Wishing lots of luck for next time. Lovely to have met you - hopefully paths will cross again. Take care.

Dewmeadow, am feeling lousy too. Very tired - napping every lunch time I'm at home, so long as DD will let me. Yesterday she fell asleep in the morning, and I was desperate knowing that she wouldn't sleep again til the evening. Have friends over for dinner tonight (they know) but just wish I could crawl back to bed early!

MS not so bad last night, but think because I ate small portions over a few hours, rather than one big meal. Had raspberry jelly and it was just divine. DD hated it, but I'm going to make more...

justbeme · 25/11/2006 11:48

im so sorry mump bump - i think theres quite a few of us here who know what u r going thru -
im sure mumsnet will be helpful to you - there are threads on nearly every subject going arent there? so glad ive found this site - i must admit i think im addicted to it!

Groveregg · 25/11/2006 14:25

So sorry Mumpbump, I can't even imagine how hard that must be. It's a lesson to me to not start thinking too far ahead - and to stop telling people...

beartime · 25/11/2006 14:30

My due date has switched to 27th June, but please don't chuck me off

Abgirl sorry about bringing up a subject that is probably hard for you.

However there has been a lot of research done which shows the importance of protein - and other nutrients - in preventing preeclampsia. But because the people who did this research could not ethically do a controlled clinical trial, their research is not acknowledged by many. Here is a paragraph from an article in Midwifery Today:

'The research that was done was not widely accepted due to the fact that it could not include clinically controlled studies. It would not show common sense or ethics to starve a group of pregnant women in order to supply a control group. The researchers did the logical thing and used the women's previous diet and circumstances as the control (Brewer 1982). The results were amazing. Dr. Tom Brewer totally eradicated preeclampsia in specific populations where the former rates were upwards of 40 percent. He had the women eat a healthy, varied, well-balanced diet that included high quality foods, adequate protein and complex carbohydrates. He also had them drink water to thirst, salt to taste and avoid drugs. Unfortunately, the National Institutes of Health refused to publish the results because he couldn't do a clinically controlled study.'

Also I'm not trying to say that people who have preeclampsia have a bad diet. I think to get that amount of protein you need to be really conscious of putting that much into your diet. In fact the Best Odds Diet in 'What to Expect when you are Expecting' recommends the same amounts of everything - they just don't specify the types of protein such as eggs etc. they just say 4 servings of protein a day. And in our society where a lot of meat is prepacked and processed it can have a lot less protein than we think. like ham - you need to have about 10-16 slices to get one serving of protein! And 6 fishfingers etc.

I think the trouble is that doctors say 'there is no evidence that...' for a lot of things - and there is no evidence cos you can't ethically do a controlled trial on those types of things. Like if you are suspicious that heavy lifting might cause miscarriage you can't ethically take 10 pregnant women and say you 5 lift heavy things every day, and you 5 don't and we'lll see what happens. You can compare those who are in physically demanding jobs with those who aren't bu tthat wouldn't be scientific evidence.

Anyway not trying to get into an argument, bvut you might like to read that article in Midwifery Today to see where i'm coming from. And I'm trying to help people - knowing that there has been a lot of research that has eradicated preeclampsia under the right nutritional conditions. I should add that if anyone got the signs of preeclampsia they would also put them on a very high protein diet right then too, which is helpful to know in case that happens to anyone, and the symptoms would go again.

Kyte I also found that eggs in the morning didn't go too well, what I have ended up doing is eating wholegrain cereal first thing and then boiling up a tonne of eggs and eating them later in the day.

A friend who has one day different from my due date had a miscarriage this week I keep hoping mine is sticky.

earlyriser · 25/11/2006 14:50

so sorry to hear your sad news mumpbump. Take care. Hugs.

earlyriser · 25/11/2006 14:57

Gosh, been away since thurs and it's taken me ages to catch up! My boobs have also not been sore like last time and i'm putting it down to bf. I'm down to twice a day (dd is 13mo) and haven't bf for the last 2 mornings. I actually miss it more than i thought i would. Think i will try and keep it up (the not bfing) although i still think it is prob better for her than other milk.
My school called last week asking if i could go back to do supply teaching, i was thinking about doing 1 day a week, but after reading messages from other teachers i'm not sure i could face it!
Hope all folks with ms are finding cures/things to make it bearable. if i get a wave of nausea i fing scoffing a bag of crisps as fast as i can really helps

lynneclynne · 25/11/2006 15:06

typhoonsmum, like yourslf, my edd is end of July but my boobs are fine so now i am really panicking, therse no sign of ms either

giulia68, how are you feeling??? Sorry, just shi* scared now incase of mc.

giulia68 · 25/11/2006 15:13

mumpbump, i am so sorry, i really am, it is so upsetting for you and yours. i hope you can be looked after and take things easy. i enjoyed crossing paths with you here and wish you the very best for the future. x

giulia68 · 25/11/2006 15:16

lynne, i wish there was something i could say to stop you worrying but i can't other than to say i am the same - does that help ! i don't have any symptoms other than tiredness ( like - already persuaded dh to look after ds so i have had two naps since i got up!) - that's really it... i don't have any other symptoms. i just think that no two pregnancies are the same - this is totally dfifferent to my first - is this any help? . so sorry you are worrying though , but please try not to x

lynneclynne · 25/11/2006 15:19

giulia, that does help (alot) thanx! It would just be a total nightmare having to go through another mc!
Thanx again! That has put my mind at rest.

firststar · 25/11/2006 15:52

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earthtomummy · 25/11/2006 17:00

Mump Bump, so sorry to read your sad news. Take care of yourself.

Wow, whoever did all those EDDs. V. impressed. Went to the cinema to see Bond last night and am glad to report back that Daniel Craig had enough screen presence to keep me awake throughout the film! 1st time for about 10 days that I've not been in bed at 8.30.

typhoonsmum · 25/11/2006 18:01

Just read the posts back. I'm so sorry Mumpbump. Hope things go better for you next time

beartime · 25/11/2006 18:31

For people suffering from morning sickness I just found this:

  1. What if I suffer from nausea and vomiting -- how important is it for me to eat everything on the diet?
Malnutrition at the end of pregnancy is a much bigger threat, particularly during the last trimester. The quality of your diet is still of utmost importance, though the quantity is not as big an issue. Morning sickness usually fades away by around the 12th to 14th week of pregnancy. Up until that time, small meals containing some protein and carbohydrates should be eaten frequently. This can even help to relieve morning sickness in some mothers.

Full Article on the Brewer diet here on ivillage.com

Sorry - hope I'm not boring you too much with all of this info, just don't want to keep this to myself as it seems to really help prevent a lot of bad things.

mrspf · 26/11/2006 15:49

To all those worrying about mc, especially those who've had one before, I would strongly recommend getting your GP or midwife to refer you for an early scan. I had one the other week, and it was so reassuring and I feel much better now, as i was worrying about missed mc etc.

Annyway, my philosophy is what will be will be and there's nothing you can do to stop it happening.

Fingers crossed to all, and my thoughts are with mumpbump at this difficult time.

lynneclynne · 26/11/2006 20:59

mrspf, i agree! I spoke with my gp the other day and explained how i felt so shes asked the early pregnancy clinic to send me an app asap, i also agree if its gonnie happen it will!! Im still petrified!! Even more so as i feel fine except for peeing a bit more than usual.
Hope everyones well!

lynneclynne · 26/11/2006 21:06

It's very quiet in here tonight, is everyone having an early night???

giulia68 · 26/11/2006 21:15

hi all and lynne - hi there - i am just briefly on line after a rather knackering day - hoping you are ok. still no symptoms here if it is any consolation other than extreme tiredness.... and some rather bizarre eating habits. hope you are not worrying too much and that's great you are going for an early scan. i am going to have one on tuesday so i will report back... take care and speak tomorrow probably. x

lynneclynne · 26/11/2006 21:24

Good luck with the scan giulia, i'll be thinking of you!

littlepiggie · 26/11/2006 21:33

when is everyone else having there first appointment with midwife? I am 7 1/2 weeks, and have been told it will be after the new year.
When i was pg with ds i had the appointment at 10 weeks, then midwife arranged scan for 2 weeks later, if it is that same again i will be about 15 weeks by the time i have first scan, that cant be right?

I had a bad pg with ds, and am worried about mc, had bleeds at 6 1/2 weeks, 21 weeks, then again when i was in labout (not a show before someone says)

lynneclynne · 26/11/2006 21:37

littlepiggie, id speak with the gp, see if he/she could speed things up, thats what i have done since i mc in aug.

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