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May 2015 - thread 4 - the one where it all gets real!

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Titsalinabumsquash · 09/11/2014 20:51

Here we are. If someone could link to the stats that would be fab. Smile

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LinaDee · 16/12/2014 22:37

Thank you Smile

Fluffeh · 17/12/2014 06:24

Morning!
I'm gearing up to buy lots of bargains in the sales. This baby needs a complete wardrobe as I have nothing under 9 months sizes left from dd. We weren't going to have another but events changed things and we decided it was better to have one.
Has anyone any idea what to dress a boy in during the warmer months? DD spent all her time in little sundresses but I don't think they'll be appropriate :D.
I don't want him to be too warm and I remember DD was dripping in sweat whenever she was in the car seat. I used to place a Muslin in side it and it would be soaking after a 30 min journey.
I'm guessing a sleep suit would be too warm but I hate using pants/tops on tiny babies as they look so uncomfortable with that pokey waistband.
Maybe I'm over thinking it and we'll get zero summer haha x

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cuphat · 17/12/2014 06:52

Lina, I did need a sample at my 20 week scan so it must differ by area. Here, they check it every time you have an appointment.

I think a vest would be be enough during hot weather. We'll buy a few bits, but for the first months we'll be reusing DD's vests and sleepsuits (she was a June baby) I'm sure a bit of pink won't hurt!

Titsalinabumsquash · 17/12/2014 07:02

No samples for scans here :)

Fluffeh, a romper suit will be fine in the summer, Sainsbury's usually have a good selection every year.

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cuphat · 17/12/2014 07:47

I should add, last time - haven't had my 20 week scan yet this time!

mumxof3x · 17/12/2014 08:38

Fluffeh ds was born in the heatwave last year in july, he mainly wore rompers, he had a couple of linen material shorts dungarees too that was just loose fitting with no waistbands or anything on them.

KittyVonCatsington · 17/12/2014 08:53

Morning! Have the morning off work and waiting for another Consultant appointment at the hospital.
Fluffeh All my nephews once they started getting bigger lived in shorts and t-shirts and little romper suits - they are so cute aren't they xmumx?! Xmas Grin

I too have never given a sample at scans-only midwife and consultant appointments holding it in as we speak!

I have been very lucky to get hand-me-down baby and toddler clothes from my sister and both SiLs (nieces and nephews) and I have absolutely no qualms about putting my daughter I love saying that! in a blue BabyGro or boy toddler jeans as well as all the girl themed outfits. As long as they are clean, I'm sure Kitlet won't mind and will probably go through multiple outfits a day anyway Xmas Smile

KittyVonCatsington · 17/12/2014 09:00

Link to stats are here docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/tcIgXqLTVxVobMmhWDTDVbw/htmlview?pli=1

If you write Boy or Girl if you know in the correct column, there is another worksheet where there is a pie chart that will show how many boys/girls. Xmas Smile If you are not finding out the sex, type Yellow (for Team Yellow!) and that will be included too xx

mumxof3x · 17/12/2014 10:45

They are kitty. I got lots from boots and matalan. Many in the sale.

Its ds2s christmas concert today, his first ever one. Pretty excited to go and see him. And only 3 days untill ds1s birthday and then 8 until christmas im really looking forward to the next week. And then my pregnancy can finally be announced, which is rather worrying lol.

Threesoundslikealot · 17/12/2014 13:09

Being dim, how do I add myself to the stats list? I can't get it to accept new entries.

Right, am on PC, so promised sling post!

The types of sling most commonly used for newborns are stretchy slings, like the Moby. They are very comfortable for you and your baby, and you can pop the baby in and out without undoing them. Some women are able to feed in them which is handy. They are not particularly expensive and often available pretty cheaply secondhand too. Cons are that some people think they look too complicated (I've found you get the hang of them really quickly), if you're short and/or very thin, it can seem like a lot of material, men are often not keen on them as they don't look very 'masculine', and most people find their babies are too heavy for one by six months, despite the manufacturers claims. A variety of the stretchy, growing in popularity, is the Close Caboo type of sling, which is basically a ready-tied stretchy. Same benefits and fewer of the cons but not as versatile.

An alternative to stretchies is woven wraps, which is essentially the same idea but non-stretchy material. These come in a huge variety of colours, materials and cost, so they can be addictive! The stretchy slings can be a bit warm in hot summer and you can get thinner material in woven wraps - I have a lovely gauze one called a Calin Bleu. A woven wrap is suitable for a wide range of ties, including back and side carries, so will last you into the toddler years if you become an enthusiast.

The other type of sling suitable for newborns is a structured carrier like a Manduca or an Ergo (some need a newborn insert) which will also take you right through. They are more expensive than a stretchy or most wovens, but are designed to last. (NB, although Baby Bjorns LOOK like these, they are very different. Baby Bjorns mostly do not offer the same level of back support for the adult (I believe the newest version attempts to address this - don't know how well), and you can't carry a baby into toddler years. The outfacing position used so often in the Baby Bjorn is not good for the baby's hip development - other types of carriers facilitate the 'froggy' position, which is the most comfortable and supportive way to carry a baby and toddler). Structured carriers have the benefit of being more widely acceptable to men (my husband will wear any sling but does prefer ones with buckles!) and quicker to get on. They are though slightly less snuggly for a newborn.

The main thing is to google and see if you have a local (or semi-local) sling library or meet. Often the sling you like the sound of ends up not suiting you or your baby, and it can be an expensive mistake if you've bought new. Sling libraries let you try on lots of slings with your baby to see what you like, and borrow them for a week or two to try out.

There are many other types of sling but probably not ones that most people would start off with with a newborn. But you can have a look at them at a library and get some idea of where you might go from your first sling.

For disclosure, I've used and liked stretchies, wovens, an Ergo and Manduca, a ring sling, a mai-tai, a Hoppadiz, which is a semi-structured, and a Close caboo. Neither of my pair went into their prams until about five months!

Chookford · 17/12/2014 13:35

I can't add myself to stats either! Blush

cuphat · 17/12/2014 13:53

I can't update anything on stats either, but I'm on an ipad.

I've used and liked stretchy wrap slings and the Ergo carrier with DD. Stretchy ones look complicated but they're not really, it's quite easy after a couple of times. I didn't use either as much as I planned to, however, as I couldn't get to grips with feeding in them and DD would always want to be fed as soon as I put her in (she was a 'snacker' rather than a baby who would have big feeds).

Snooky17 · 17/12/2014 14:27

I can't update stars either, thanks for sling post, I'm only short and have a dodgy back so never really got on with slings, may have to look into a sling library see if I have one near me.

aberjen · 17/12/2014 15:00

Three that's amazingly helpful, thank you! I bought I Close Caboo carrier for DD but never quite got to grips with it, really should have gone to sling library for advice. Definitely planning to go this time! Have heard great things about the Ergo - how do you think it and the Manduca compare?

Re stats, I can't edit through Kitty's link but I can through the link on the first page for some reason: docs.google.com/spreadsheet/lv?key=0Ajyv-zM-ASvUdHg4TVk1ZmlZbGk5RWJsVklicE80X3c&usp=sharing

Fluff DD mostly lived in short-sleeved and sleeveless vests during summer 2013, when she was 2–4 months old.

cuphat I am also in the 'anterior again' club. It's rubbish! Am now 19 weeks and not feeling movement apart from the odd 'was that baby?' moment, and while I've generally been feeling really relaxed during this pregnancy compared with last time, the lack of movement means I'm starting to get a bit nervous about scan next week Sad

On the plus side, tomorrow is last day at work until 5th January - hurrah!!!

aberjen · 17/12/2014 15:01

PS Kitty love the graphs 'n' stuff!!

cuphat · 17/12/2014 15:32

Oh no, aberjen Sad . I'm sure it'll be fine. I'm already fed up of being lectured on pattern of movement when I mention my anterior placenta and that I felt hardly any movement last time. There was no pattern, grrr! Although for some people it just means no movement till later on and then they feel a fair amount - wasn't the case for me last time though.

Snooky17 · 17/12/2014 16:18

This is why the group is great, when I sit there worrying myself silly, common sense prevails and I think to myself other people who are further on then you also don't feel movement so it's ok h

KittyVonCatsington · 17/12/2014 16:30

How odd about the link above-I just copied and pasted it from the first page too but the address is different to aberjens. Spooky! Doing some Googling and Apple products seem to be having trouble with Google Docs. When I first did the spreadsheet I could update it on my iPad-now I can't and seems like a common problem. Hmmm. Will look into it

Blondie87 · 17/12/2014 16:44

Thanks for the sling advice three. Want to use one and answered lots of questions I had! I'm 18w 5 days and first felt movement properly last week. However some days I feel lots of wiggling/kicking and others not much like today where I've barely felt any. Is this normal?

Purpleshoes2 · 17/12/2014 17:05

I've not felt anything (I'm 18) but I have an anterior placenta - I was a little bit worries about it till I read this thread. The midwifes bless them have been worry about other things (like the bleeding) and they've always found the heartbeat so they've not mentioned moving

Threesoundslikealot · 17/12/2014 17:12

Another anterior placenta here, so have felt very little too, and am almost 20 weeks. I also have virtually no bump standing up although I feel it when I'm lying down. Too much flab for it to show yet.

Glad the sling stuff is of some use. I think aberjen that which you like best possibly is pretty individual - body shape makes a big difference. The Manduca doesn't need a newborn insert and the Ergo does, which is the biggest difference between them. I know fans of both types, so I'm not sure there's a consensus, although the Manduca possibly has the edge in numbers!

I'm on a Dell PC so nothing Apple here right now. Will try the new link to see if I can edit.

Threesoundslikealot · 17/12/2014 17:16

I've put myself on but no faith in my formatting or that it'll stick around. I hate Google Docs.

piglet81 · 17/12/2014 17:53

Curious to know, when did you folks find out about anterior placentas - at 12-week scan or 20-week? I'm still only feeling the occasional bubbly/wriggly thing (including right up by my navel this morning!) but I reckon it must be the baby! 20 weeks tomorrow and scan on Friday...fingers crossed.

Thanks for the sling info Three, that's really useful. I'm definitely keen to get one and will look into sling libraries. We don't drive so rely on public transport, and it seems like bus journeys etc would be much easier with the baby just tucked up on my front rather than in a pram.

Hope everyone's keeping well.

Purpleshoes2 · 17/12/2014 19:31

I found out at 16 weeks when I had a big bleed and they did a scan to check on everything for me (I actully think I meant posterior just the symptoms sounded the same - mines very low at the back)