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February 2014 - babies flying out all over the joint!

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marzipanned · 20/01/2014 13:44

We've now welcomed mini sun, dawn, kat, zazou and selfies (please tell me I haven't missed anyone...)....who will be next?!

Those of us waiting impatiently will be showing down on dates, pineapple, RLT and curry while having awkward whale sex.

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Tinkerbellefairy · 29/01/2014 22:35

Good luck champagne hopefully this may be the start of something.

Urrggh am 39 weeks and have awful cold! Feel rubbish and weak. Have been trying to get this baby out but now I don't know how I would cope if I went into labour! Really hope this cold clears off soon, what bad timing.

lastnightopenedmyeyes · 30/01/2014 05:44

Really hope I'm not jinxing this....

41+1 today, had second sweep yesterday and midwife said things were very ready. Woken up at 2.30am by painful contraction and have had them building in intensity since then. They are every 8-10 mins at the moment, lasting 90 seconds.

Poor DS is next door coughing his lungs up, and DH is in with him also full of cold so I'm having to handle them by myself but so far it is manageable.

Hoping this is the start for me! Might have to get the tens machine out soon....

jazzcat28 · 30/01/2014 05:51

Ooo exciting times lastnight!! Good luck!! Another baby on the way - yay!

bugsyburge · 30/01/2014 07:05

good luck lastnight

Littleen · 30/01/2014 07:39

Tinker I've got a cold too! Fingers crossed babies will stay in until colds have passed :)

lastnight Good luck!! Sorry to hear your son and husband also got a cold, seems everyone is poorly at the moment. Hopefully they'll be well very soon if your baby is coming right now :O

CubanoHabana · 30/01/2014 08:35

Good luck lastnight

Fx for the start of something champagne

Eek pram coming today! Excited!

Julietee · 30/01/2014 10:43

Littleen Yes. Yes I do.
I seem to remember a thread a while ago where a woman was moaning because her DH had 'only' got her a spa weekend away and a diamond. Poor, deprived thing. I love my husband dearly but I don't think it would occur to him to get me pregnancy related gifts/ treats. But he's there for the everyday stuff, which I guess is what matters.

Julietee · 30/01/2014 10:47

Oh - good luck to those approaching labour! Fx for smooth sailing.

I had 2 birth nightmares last night - first time.

Recently I've found out I should have been referred to a consultant because of my anxiety disorders. I went to see one on tues and she said she could have been seeing me all the way through whenever I was worried about stuff.
Honestly I'm angry at the midwife who took my booking info for minimising my condition and ticking 'no' in the box that would have given me the referral when it should have been 'yes' (the 'have you ever seen a psychiatrist? one. Yes, I have, but she didn't ask). Wondering if I should make a complaint to the supervisor of midwives. My pregnancy would have been soooo much less horrible for the first 25 weeks if I had had consultant access.

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glitterhoops · 30/01/2014 12:31

Champagne yes BH can be uncomfortable. 1st pregnancy they weren't so uncomfortable, but this one they are. However I get a lot of under bump pain at the mo, so when the BH comes it tightens an already painful part if be- if that makes sense

Littleen · 30/01/2014 13:08

Julietee I would def complain - it can make such a massive difference! I was in such a deep depression when getting pregnant that I was suicidal, which really isn't good (esp. when having another life depending on yours) so after I went to my gp, they set everything going incredibly fast, and I've got more support than I know what to do with. Wouldn't be here without it though, so I'm very grateful for it. It's so infuriating when you're not taken seriously on these things because of the major impact it might have on your life. So yes, absolutely do complain! Luckily you are at the end now, and hopefully not quite so anxious?

champagne My BH's are "painful" at times, but I think it's just I find them so uncomfy that it borders on painful. It's so tight and feels like there's no room for my bump on my body!

Sassy20 · 30/01/2014 13:19

Champagne - my bh can be quite painful at times. Don't remember them being like this with dd so think my body just knows what it's doing this time. X

Julietee · 30/01/2014 13:32

Littleen I am so much more chilled out now, thank you :) Still have my anxious moments, but very manageable! I'm glad you got the support you did.

I still haven't had any noticeable BHs. (jinxes self immediately)

Littleen · 30/01/2014 13:54

Glad to hear you're calmer now, Julietee :) Fingers crossed you won't get any BH - mine keeps me up at night, as they make it hard to breathe and 'exploding head' feeling, so I wake up gasping for air! They're pretty frequent too, very frustrating!

CubanoHabana · 30/01/2014 18:44

My BH's are painful :-(

marzipanned · 30/01/2014 20:07

Have dropped off the thread completely...trying a bit dismally to catch up...but wanted to say julietee yes you should complain, definitely. One episode of Midwives I watched recently featured a woman with terrible anxiety as she had lost a baby at 30 weeks. She was able to see a special MW every fortnight to whom she could just offload - she could also call her whenever she wanted, if concerned about anything. It seemed like a brilliant service and I'm sure is a genuine life saver for some. So at least if you complain you will be in a better position to access that type of thing in your next pregnancy.

39+3 and still haven't had any BH! This baby is never coming out is it...

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Julietee · 30/01/2014 21:53

That's a good point, thanks Marzi.

Just had hospital tour - the 'sensation room' (some couches, basically) smelled like a sweaty sock. Apart from that all the delivery rooms seemed clean and the post natal ward looked just awful.

Littleen · 30/01/2014 22:46

I suppose it being the "sensation room" nobody specified which sensations it should be.. School Gym perhaps? ;)

lastnightopenedmyeyes · 31/01/2014 01:45

Birth story alert!!

For those not on fb, Olivia Grace was born today at 8.40pm weighing 8lb3oz Grin

Noisy post natal ward so can't sleep so may as well do birth story. Excuse typos as on iphone and been mostly awake for nearly 24 hours.

So had 2nd sweep on Wednesday early afternoon, woke up at 2.30am Thursday with a contraction. Fell asleep until 4.30 when I felt a huge contraction and then they intensified (used tens machine with fabulous results from around 8am) and they came every 8-12 mins until around midday. At which point, they stopped!!

So we went for a walk and I had a mega one whilst out, then nothing again for 40 mins.

When we got home I had a few more, 13 mins apart but incredibly intense (couldn't walk or talk through them). At this point I decided enough was enough (plus hadn't really felt much movement since early morning) and I rang labour ward mid contraction so they could hear the intensity of the contractions. They got me straight in.

Monitored baby who was fine, a little excited but ok. Still contracting every 10 mins but very strong and I was becoming a bit distressed with them. Examined me at 3 and I was 5cm so moved up to delivery suite.

The next 5 hours went so so quickly. The contractions were coming every 4 mins as soon as we got I to the suite, I think because I totally relaxed and felt safe. Waters started to go around 5pm, and then the strong period type pains gave way to overwhelming pressure, mainly at the back. (Yes girls I pood, and I really did not care!!! It's true what they say).

Laboured so differently this time. Had to be on the ball for all bar delivery when I lay on my left hand side to push, with right leg up in the air.

I stayed in complete control. Despite thinking I would go in and request an early epidural (as advised by my consultant), I coped on gas and air and tens machine. I had one contraction where I was in transition and did the whole 'I can't do this' thing, but it was manageable and I genuinely enjoyed it for the majority of the labour. After my traumatic time with DS I never thought I could have that.

With my son the pushing was automatic, and the best bit of labour. With this labour, pushing was hard work and the most painful and scary part. But, it wasn't that scary and I was still kind of enjoying it in a funny way. I definitely went within myself this time and had the belief that I could do it. The midwives were incredible too.

I was pushing for around half an hour and the sense of relief when she was born was amazing. 2nd degree tear again (didn't feel that at all) and a fair bit of blood loss but not as bad as last time.

Anyway, a really positive birth story from me. And to have had that with all the fear and dread I had, I feel so lucky. I want to wish all of you ladies still waiting the same positive experience and to tell you not to be scared. It's simply amazing having a baby and worth every second of pain/discomfort.

Sassy20 · 31/01/2014 02:03

Lovely birth story Lastnight and love the name of your daughter. I've been rudely woken up feeling sick and with stomach ache. Not had upset stomach or been sick so not sure what it is. Phoned hospital to check what should do and they said take paracetamol which I have and see how I get on. Ever since speaking to them my stomach keeps tightening a lot but nothing like labour was with dd so think it's just baby having a good move around and not anything starting up. X

Champagnebubble · 31/01/2014 04:27

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rueyrichardson · 31/01/2014 04:40

I'm with you Champagne and Sassy, exact same symptoms for a day or so but wearing off at the mo. Baby feels very low. I guess the only thing that's sure is that it will make an appearance in the next few weeks! Ho hum. Night waking as DH snores is no fun.

rueyrichardson · 31/01/2014 04:41

Ps lovely name lastnight

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rueyrichardson · 31/01/2014 04:59

I hear you! And DH keeps looking at me kind of anxiously to check if my grimaces are becoming meaningful (ie he will have to execute some kind of action plan). Not at 5am though. He's happy to rock the house with snores and leave me to it then.

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