im just totally confused what to choose cot wise, my Dh came home and said that at work one of the ladies advised to get a crib or swinging cot (i cant find even this option on google, but heard about it myself), then my cousin said that when it swings its better, then my 2 friends had swinging mechanism, but one of them said not to buy crib or moses basket as its only for 3 months, so..what you think? or what would you use?