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April 2014 Thread 4 - We're almost in Trimester 3!

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LeeHandy · 04/12/2013 20:26

Here's to fantastic 20 week scans, feeling baby move and other exciting milestones and best of all, the end of sickness!

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mamapants · 25/03/2014 19:53

Congratulations lee well done!
Are you at home now or still in hospital.
Sounds like everything is going well.
How exciting!

wendle70 · 25/03/2014 19:53

Hi all sorry haven't posted for a while...

Congrats lee and vicki! How exciting our babies are arriving now! It seems like yesterday we were discussing our morning sickness.

All ok here...though finding last few weeks pretty tough physically...can't get comfortable in bed (wake up with excrutiating hip pain at least 15 times a night and need to turn over plus 3 loo trips on average!) Afternoon naps getting me through..all good practice! Baby feels quite heavy (he is breech still so lucky i always wanted a c section!) Also getting some bad back pain when i totally seize up which makes walking an effort. Oh and quite a bit of breathlessness as his head is on my diaphragm! Sorry that was a major moan!

Nursery is all ready and looks lovely..i ended up getting some great wall stickers after someone posted a link on here. Am v prepared practically as started mat leave really early ..bag packed, drawers full of clean clothes, baby books read...but am not so prepared mentally! I just can't believe in about 3 to 4 weeks junior will be here and i'll be a mum forever! V excited though and talking to him loads already!

Dreading breastfeeding not working. Also dreading physically being opened up on an operating table. And dreading the post natal hospital bit where you stay in with loads of strangers...but so excited for the joy he's going to bring. I keep watching one born every minute and crying when the newborns arrive! It's all such a miracle.

Anyway lots of luck ladies and looking fwd to hearing about all the new arrivals!

Wendle 35 + 4

Xx

prettyinpink90 · 25/03/2014 20:55

Congratulations lee more lovely news!

Currently bouncing on my ball Smile

36+4

Cannotbelieveit · 25/03/2014 21:53

Congrats lee!!! And nice to have an update Wendle! Glad you're all organised x

Growth scan estimates little man at 6lb6oz at 35+3 today. Lovely to see him again even if he wouldn't pose for a pic!

ChurrosConChocolate · 25/03/2014 22:02

Congrats lee glad he is here safely! Let us know when you have a name.

wendle I'm also finding it tougher and tougher physically. Sounds like you are pretty well prepared though so hopefully you'll have some time to relax. And it doesn't matter how much you read, you are never mentally prepared for having a baby!!!

patsy that sounds like a lovely birthday Smile

cannot Glad the scan went well, although as Lee's tale and other stories prove growth estimates are rarely all that accurate!

BlessedAssurance · 25/03/2014 22:12

lee congratulations. Glad to hear all is well with you. I can't believe the babies are coming finally. Just wondering what mine is doingSmile.

Misty9 · 26/03/2014 04:31

Wow, babies are really starting to arrive! Congratulations to the new mummies, just in time for mother's day :)
Woken up by need for wee and now can't get back to sleep. Got almost everything ready for birth now but pool accessories won't be here for couple days yet, so need to hang on! I don't think I'll be early anyhow.

38wks today

Trinpy · 26/03/2014 09:23

Congratulations Lee!!!! Glad you're both doing well.

I'm Envy at everyone having their babies already.

38+5

prettyinpink90 · 26/03/2014 11:39

Glad your growth scan went well cannot did you go private for it or were you referred by your midwife? Sorry if I've already missed this is previous conversation!

I've seen the midwife this morning and all seems well. Baby is head down but not yet engaged. Will keep bouncing on my ball! I've also been referred to physio for carpal tunnel as it's waking me every half hour during the night now as well as causing me problems during the day. Not sure I'll even get an appointment before she arrives now though.

36+5

BlessedAssurance · 26/03/2014 12:03

Glad your scan went well Cannot.
I saw the midwife today and little blessed is not engaged yet. I was also relieved that she didn't jump to having me induced yet since my due date is tomorrow. She has given me till sunday and if the baby hasn't showed up yet then she will book me for a chat with the doc at the hospital where i am to give birth. I am glad that, that will give me more time. Keeping fingers crossed though that he will come soon..

40+3

LeeHandy · 26/03/2014 12:24

Thank you everyone! two nights of continuous feeding and no sleep have left me totally dazed. I am so glad dh and my parents are here leaving me to just focus on baby and myself.
wendle I was initially concerned at being totally exposed to a bunch of strangers but honestly at the time, there was so much going on that I couldn't have cared less. and the moment the baby was put on my chest was unreal.. Grin couldn't believe this was my own baby who had been kicking me from inside my stomach just a couple of hours earlier. Grin Grin

those who need inductions, please consider your pain relief options before you actually start the process. you may not have time later.

I knew I wanted an epidural and I got one but it failed (apparently 1 in 20 do for no reason) then I had to switch to gas and air while they figured out another epidural for me.

the gas and air helped with the pain but I hated the dizzy, floaty feeling it gave me. I felt like the end of a very bad drinking marathon. Sad and it made me nauseous so I was vomiting while contracting! Blush

the second epidural worked and because of the synto I got from 3-4 cm to 10 cm in less than 4 hrs.
unfortunately at that point baby's heart rate started to drop and my consultant found it was because the umbilical cord was wrapped around baby's neck. at that point everyone went into emergency mode and I had to have an episiotomy and ventouse to get baby out quickly.

anyway, apart from feeling sore because of the stitches, both of us are doing very well. I was able to come home the next day.Grin

we're yet to establish a proper feeding pattern but the midwives are very reassuring and helpful luckily and told me that for the first few days as long as baby was weeing and pooing, everything would be fine.

I was also definitely not prepared for baby's stinky farts which does not run in the family at all Blush Blush wind habits. but the midwife thought it was fine too. Grin

good to know your growth scan went well, cannot!

looking forward to all the babies arriving!

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LeeHandy · 26/03/2014 12:25

omg, sorry for that marathon post!Blush Blush Blush

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CountdowntoSummer · 26/03/2014 14:16

I'm 37+5 days today. Feeling anxious and not entirely sure why. :-(

Cannotbelieveit · 26/03/2014 19:21

Referred by midwife pretty x

Cannotbelieveit · 26/03/2014 19:22

Thanks for sharing ur story lee!! Glad you're home and getting lots of help xx

Misty9 · 26/03/2014 21:00

Glad you're home lee and the birth sounds like it went ok? Ds was also a very windy baby - he would fart when he was waking up (so I knew excruciating pain of feeding was just around the corner...)

After poo pooing everyone saying I'll go early, I've felt a LOT of pressure between my legs today and when I sit down it feels like sitting on a bowling ball. Also lots and lots of discharge stuff. Hmm, who knows but I'm thinking maybe before my due date now! The birth pool accessories are in the post so she'll need to hold on for a couple of days yet Grin
She's still engaged and ready to go though. Eek!

38 wks

Trinpy · 26/03/2014 23:12

I love a good birth story Grin . Great to hear everything's going well Lee.

Misty, I'm convinced you''ll have your baby early.

I had a presentation scan yesterday. Completely pointless because baby has been head down for the past 3 months but apparently they have to do it for anyone who wants a homebirth. Bit annoying having to spend ages at the hospital waiting for a 2 minute scan, but at least it's done now.

LeeHandy · 27/03/2014 12:19

misty, hope you manage to hold on till your birthing stuff arrives. Smile
tiny baby clothes arrived today!! I can't wait to put the baby in clothes that actually fit instead of giant newborn clothes.. Grin

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ChurrosConChocolate · 27/03/2014 13:50

lee loved the birth story, and glad you are both well. It took months for me to establish a feeding pattern with DS! Once you think you have one it all changes anyway... glad the baby clothes arrived, hope you get a bit of use out of them before baby is too big.

misty I hope baby stays put until birthing stuff arrived but I'm sure you'll go before your due date Smile

countdown are you feeling anxious about anything in particular or just a general anxiety? I'm feeling more anxious too but trying to stay positive.

Trinpy glad the scan went well if a bit of a waste of time.

Had 36week midwife apt today. All ok apart from blood pressure being a bit low and a bit of glucose in my urine (which could well have been the sugary porridge I had for breakfast.) She also reassured me that baby is in a good position as I'd been feeling a bit concerned it might be back to back (paranoid after last time maybe!). Still 4/5 engaged.

35+6

Mummyk1982 · 27/03/2014 14:27

Hi there everyone,

Thought I'd come say hello as we were meant to be Martians but my little lady is currently 8 days overdue, booked for induction on Monday and so may be an April fools baby!!!
Hope you're all well and getting through to last few weeks of pregnancy as comfortably as possible!! :-)

wendle70 · 27/03/2014 16:46

thanks for the great birth story lee! ha ha it had not crossed my mind that babies could fart. I have a feeling my little man is going to be very windy as he hiccups so much and has done all the way through the last 10 weeks or so!

blessed I hope your little one arrives soon - must be v frustrating.

misty I hope your LO waits until your birthing stuff arrives.

Hi Mummyk1982 not long to go now!

churros and countdown I am feeling a bit anxious too...think it's just the fear of the unknown and the knowledge that life will be so so different in just a few weeks and will never again be the same...spoke to a friend from my NCT group today who's just had her baby a week ago and she is uber organised and she said when they got home, her and her other half just slept on sofas in the downstairs of their house as it was all they could do....it sounds like no matter how prepared you think you are the first few weeks are crazy. Plus she said she has cried every day so far but also been really happy at points every day too. I guess the birth hormones are playing their part. But I am really hoping I don't cry every day.....eek! I keep reminding myself that a friend of mine who is similar to me had a v tough first 3-4 months but then after that it all came together and now she loves being a mum and says it is the best thing ever. Just got to get through the first tough bit as unscathed as possible....

Trinpy · 27/03/2014 17:29

Churros - glad everything went well at mw app and that baby is in a good position.

Mummyk - How exciting to know you're definitely going to be having your baby in the next few days. I bet you can't wait.

wendle - I know I'm not really the voice of experience on parenting, but from my observations of other new parents I know, everyone seems a bit shell-shocked to begin with but they all pick it up as they go along. I'm sure we'll be the same Smile .

How's everyone sleeping? My body clock has got into a habit of only wanting me to sleep for a few hours at a time. I was wide awake at 5.30 this morning then exhausted again by 9. Feels like I already have a newborn!

38+6 (and only just realised my dd is next week!!!)

Misty9 · 27/03/2014 19:13

Hi all,
churros you're planning a hb too? Water, or not? Is that in the uk you had to have the scan? No ones said anything like that to me.

I'm feeling sooo uncomfortable today :( it hurts to stand up or walk, and not just due to SPD but general discomfort of huge bump. Can't remember if I felt like this last time at this stage, but I can't believe I could have 2-3 weeks of getting bigger! I hope you're all right and I go before my dd Grin this last bit is draaaagging.

38+1

Cannotbelieveit · 27/03/2014 19:33

Welcome mummyk! Hope your little lady arrives soon! x

DS and I stayed in today as been out walking last few days and back and pelvis hurting too much!

Just getting a bit emo thinking that DS will turn 1 on Monday, where has the time gone!

35+5 Grin

BlessedAssurance · 27/03/2014 21:36

Contractions every 15 min. Due date today.Grin. I hope this is it!! So excited but boy do the contractions hurt!!.

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