Aw so sorry about your cat jazz we had 2 cats who had to be put to sleep very young and it was devastating and they had only been with us a little time, even worse when you had all those years together...
Well officially on school hols now for me, so 2 weeks off and then only 15 working days until mat leave! Had Christmas night out last night - at a cabaret show, was really good and advantage to not drinking and going out with SLT = a grand total of £5 spent all night! It was scarily quiet though for Black Friday...
I was a coffee shimmer girl and depending on which group of friends I was with, listened to wide range of music... I went to all girls private school, so with them it was range of destiny child and r n b, with childhood friends, 911, a1, bewitched and with shop work friends, green day, blink 182, oasis, blur!
Meeting oh... I (23) handed my cv into him (19) at the bar he was working in, had interview next day and could see written on top of cv 'nice bum, amazing legs' (this was back in my figure skating, pole dancing and riding days). Got job, thought hmm, he's ok but was in a relationship. We became good friends and Oh was a complete man whore, who used to try to show off conquests to me to get my opinion (although later admitted it was to try and make me jealous). I became nothing more than someone to collect my thn bf from work and drop off elsewhere, who didn't even remember by birthday, until he rang me to tell me he had been in a fight and needed taking dot hospital. Me and oh then went on a night out with a group from the bar and his girl best friend, who managed to split us up from the group an disappeared, leaving us alone and one thing led to another and we have Been together ever since... 3 weeks before moved in together, 1 year before engaged, 2 years later, married and now 7 years in and baby will be here!
With regards to the ex bf, he rang me at 4am in the morning leaving horrendous voicemail saying we were over because I hadnt answered my phone and blatantly had someone with me, when I had been asleep, all because he needed someone to pick him up because he had crashed a car and needed get away from the police... So it was a lucky escape! I ended up changing locks at 5am and had him ringing later in the day expecting everything to be normal! He also owed me nearly £1000, to this day, he has given me £10 which was when I was working in bar and he came in and gave me it as a tip because he had heard I was getting married and to take e it as a wedding present!
Wow! That was an essay and a half! Sorry guys! :-)