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January 2014 (Thread 11) - We demand answers like what to pack in our bags and who stole our energy?

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Toothfairy78 · 27/10/2013 23:18

OK before we start... SQUEEEZE!

And begin!

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quackojuliet · 04/11/2013 19:15

Tough titties for them, Nature! Nowt they can do. I always take the whole day off for m/w appts since anything after 11 makes it hardly worth me going in afterwards. So I generally book them for 11...

quackojuliet · 04/11/2013 19:15

Seven weeks to go for me too, bleurgh. Really don't think I can be arsed!

lovelilies · 04/11/2013 19:29

5 weeks for me Grin
booked a massage for tomorrow to see if it will ease my horrid back pain fx!
Bag half packed, only things we need to get are baby monitor (I want one with a camera so can spy on baby - anyone recommend one?) and breast pump and bottle paraphernalia.

Frizz1986 · 04/11/2013 19:37

Uhoh blue i daren't look at the december thread.
I really hate to start thinking about it all but I fully expect that a least one of us lot will pop by mid december. With the amount of us that there are someone is bound to blow. I have this ongoing feeling that I wont make it until xmas and i dont know why.....
My nephew was born at 34+5 and was absolutely fine though so I think we are almost at the point of 'oh crap im not due yet but baby will be fine so its not too bad' His nursery have even told my sister that he is advanced for his age and thats major considering he was premature.

Have really felt bleurgh today. Back has been mega achy, bump has been really uncomfortable all day and lots of moments of hardness as bubs pushes against me. Hope this is just one of those days and not a daily thing for the next 10 weeks!

At least the bag is packed and last night I kinda did my birth plan. Have also told dh that if he goes anywhere his phone must be charged and he has decided he will stop drinking from mid November so he can be designated driver.

Mac2014 · 04/11/2013 19:39

Arse.

I left the lights on the car this am and the battery is now drained with the car at the station.

We're sposed to be at an NCT class, but I am now waiting for the breakdown people. DH had his op last week so can't drive.

Feel like a right pg brained wally.

GummiBear74 · 04/11/2013 20:00

lovelilies, I got this baby monitor. I've been using it to spy on my cats and give them a fright when they jump up on the kitchen work top. It has been very effective! Grin

frizz, I've been exactly the same today, bleurgh and hard lumps and all. Came home from work early and went to bed for the afternoon. The thought of 6 more weeks of work is depressing. Can I please volunteer to be the one who pops early?

Angelesque · 04/11/2013 20:56

nature gone for the green for the Vista (DH's choice... I preferred the blue but he felt more strongly!) and the confetti for the Pebble. Can't wait for them to arrive!

8 1/2 weeks of actual work left... Boo! Really excited about Christmas this year - no idea why, baby won't be here by then - but just have this urge to stay inside wrapping presents and eating mince pies... Even though it's only 4 November!

MrsVDB · 04/11/2013 21:02

Eek book that's not a nice thought!

nature we went for confetti too :)

I've been having a strange pressure/cramp type feeling this evening. Kind of middle/top of bump at front. Has anyone else had this?

Frizz1986 · 04/11/2013 21:17

Anyone know about bottles and sterilisers?
My sister has a spare phillips steriliser from about 3 years ago but i need some bottles. I know they will need to be phillips avent ones and i really like the look of the natural teat ones as i want to breastfeed and these are said to be quite good with that, but i have no idea if these new bottles will be compatible as i don't know the steriliser model or if the new bottles can fit the older sterilisers.
Just when u think u have figured something out another thing crops up. I wasn't even planning on getting bottles yet but my sister commented that what if baby doesn't feed well on the breast and then i might panic if i don't have bottles (she knows me well as i would panic)

BookTart · 04/11/2013 21:19

5 weeks of work left, with a work of annual leave in there. I'm still not sure I'll make it though, I can only just fit behind the steering wheel as it is!

Blame my DH mrsv. He is totally grossed out by seeing the baby move, and keeps comparing it to the film Alien. I actually find it quite upsetting, he's supposed to be lovingly stroking the bump and talking to it and stuff, but he can barely bring himself to look at it! Once he'd realised my belly button was going to stick out that was game over for him. Oh well, I like seeing her move :)

Yay Mac - join the 'my brain stopped me going to antenatal class' club Grin I hope the breakdown people turned up quickly!

MrsVDB · 04/11/2013 21:34

book my dh isn't too fussed either (although not grossed out I don't think) but says he gets bored waiting to feel a kick or watch for a movement even though it only takes about 30 secs! Think its easier for us to get excited as we feel it all the time

TobyLerone · 04/11/2013 21:35

Exciting, all of you with maternity leave coming up! :o

Tonight I am mostly having some quite painful contractions and trying not to worry about them. They feel the same as when I was admitted to hospital a couple of months ago, and nothing came of them, so I'm just trying to ignore them.

Braxton Hicks aren't meant to be actually painful, right?

MrsVDB · 04/11/2013 21:38

toby why don't you call the midwife just to be safe. Probably just the same as last time but won't hurt to check

quackojuliet · 04/11/2013 21:42

Toby,don't think bh should be painful just uncomfortable...perhaps you sshould keep tabs on how frequent the contractions are and to confirm they're irregular...

TobyLerone · 04/11/2013 21:45

I will in the morning if they carry on and nothing drastic happens in the meantime. I'm in bed because everything is too uncomfortable for me to sit on the sofa -- heartburn is back with a vengeance, the baby keeps sticking parts of itself into me, I've got really restless limbs and now this.

I have moaned for England tonight! :o

TobyLerone · 04/11/2013 21:46

Will do, juliet. Thanks :)

flyawayblue · 04/11/2013 22:24

friz they are compatible some ways but not others. There's a really good image showing how on the amazon page ( can't link on my phone).

Toby Don't like the sound of those pains and hope they calm down and you're able to get some sleep.

Not sure what she's kicking / punching me with but something is getting me in the ribs tonight and owe.

Also scared by the talk of December babies already! Only 30 weeks so everything still feels a long way away and December babies makes everything more real. Might need to start looking into the hospital bag....

HumptyDumptyBumpty · 04/11/2013 22:25

toby have you had your electrics fixed? And I hear you on the uncomfortable thing, though no contractions, fortunately. My back hurts after five mins of any position (blaming the shit landlord saggy sofa), bump is sore underneath and I feel like my insides might fall out when I stand up.
Have you had a bath? Might help? Even if they are proper contractions, doesn't a bath slow such things down - win-win? Hope your DH is around to keep an eye on you.

nature yep, tough tittie for work. Paid time off for antenatal care is part of the deal, whether they like or no.

frizz do take it easy. I'm back to work tomorrow for my last four days before my cover person starts, and I've decided this is it. I am NOT going to be a patsy anymore and work late/agree to stuff/be forced to stress about my boss's incompetence. I don't like the job, nor do i plan to return, so why should I let it affect my pregnancy?
I saw my sister today, and she is just as stressed in her job, and cried on me out of nowhere in Sainsburys, poor lamb. It made me realise that it's just NOT OKAY to be put in that position. Esp when you're pg.

Had our NHS antenatal class on Sunday, which was really useful - in fact, DH and I are now talking over the possibility of home birth! I really liked the midwife, who was very up to date (delayed cord clamping, skin-to-skin etc) and very much 'it's your baby and your body, you ask for what you want', not at all what I was expecting.

Whoever said they haven't packed a bag yet - I don't even HAVE a bag (all our bags are at the new house, bar one suitcase for the last stuff this week, and some boxes), nor do I have:
a nightie, any maternity pads, any nappies, nursing bras, a birth plan... I have some Lanisoh, and LOADS of clothes with #ears on to pick from for our coming home outfit Grin

flyawayblue · 04/11/2013 22:32

humpty clothes with ears lots of ticks, everything else on your list nope! and while we're not moving I don't think camping rucksacks make good hospital bags so need something to put it all in to. Hmmm may need to look into this at some point :)

Bluecarrot · 04/11/2013 22:53

booktart We dont have many fabric shops here and everywhere charges extortionate delivery fees to NI. So I've ended up with king size sheets! Plain fuchsia and plain teal /dark aqua. Will get pale pink and pale aqua as smaller accents eventually. I want to get main sewing done then ill look to appliqué and embroidery. For non- nursery stuff where colour matching wasn't an issue I looked for day quarter bundles online.

Still to make in nursery colours:
liner for bin ( will be laundry basket)
Lining 3 different wicker baskets/hampers.
Skirt and quilt for crib
Cover for poang chair ( on loan from a friend and its cream so making extra washable covers!)
Cover for wedge pillow ( loaned from same friend)
Quilted blind ( for winter only probably)
Voile blind with crocheted edges ( or ricrac or Pom poms if I run out of time for crocheted edges!
A few floor cushions and throw cushions
Few changing mats
Cover for dreamgenii pillow inc a PUL layer.

Not in nursery colours, but still need to finish making the
Post partum pads
Nursing top refashions
Lined burp cloths
Reusable waterproof pads for car/bed
Bibs
Blankets
Cocoon/hat sets

And if I have time I want to make... About a million other things! I just need to find somewhere I can set out seeing stuff for a few weeks without it having to be packed up every day.

extracrunchy · 05/11/2013 00:15

Wow Blue, you're so clever! Wish I could sew things.

Toby how are you? Have the contractions stopped? Hope you're ok.

I'm a bit sad, I keep yelling at DS cos he's being extra naughty and shouty at the moment. He's only 2 1/2 and I really should be calmer, I'm just so tired and hormonal and he keeps making me snap at him and then I feel absolutely awful and like the worst mum in the world Sad

TobyLerone · 05/11/2013 01:10

Thanks for the concern, lovely ladies!
The contractions eased off enough for me to get a bit of sleep but the heartburn just woke me up. God, it's sexy being pregnant, isn't it?!
Only one in the 20 minutes I've been awake so far, which is good.

No electrics yet, Humpty :(
A friend messaged me her dad's number as he's an electrician, so I called him yesterday and had to leave a voicemail and he hasn't got back to me yet. If he hasn't called by lunchtime I'll have to call someone else.

I haven't packed a bag yet, either. I'm holding out until my scan in a few weeks. Then I'll know what sort of delivery I'm likely to have.

Envy of your possible HB, Humpty

blue, that's one hell of a list! You put us all to shame!

TobyLerone · 05/11/2013 01:11

Go easy on yourself, extra. 2 year olds aren't exactly known for their ease of looking after!

OnlyThePurpleOnes · 05/11/2013 05:21

Same here extra, my poor nearly 3-yr old DD seems to wind me up in nanoseconds at the minute. Mind you, so does DH... I really am trying to be nice to everyone I promise!

blue I am seriously impressed with your making skills! I have been internet shopping like a crazy person, although I harped on about how we didn't need anything as we have everything from DD... Whoops.

I have been getting a lot of BH too, and those uncomfortable top-of-bump pains. I have my glucose test this Friday I think (and two toddler birthday parties...breathe!) so I'll be able to have a little checkup then.

lovelilies I treated myself to a mother-to-be massage yesterday. It's the first massage I've had in two years, and it was blissful! I was so relaxed all day, and DH had to kick me out of bed this morning. Hope you enjoy yours.

Has anyone decided on names yet? I spent half an hour yesterday cobbling together a few ideas. I have a first name that we both really like but it's become quite popular over the last couple of years and I'm not sure if I should be letting that put me off or not.

Hope everyone's working weeks are stress free! Says me, still sitting on the sofa in my pj's... I'll start in 15 minutes. Definitely.

Sultanajo · 05/11/2013 07:18

Toby glad your contractions eased in the night. How are they this morning?

MrsV that's EXACTLY what my DH says - after literally 10 seconds waiting for a kick/movement - "I'm bored with waiting"... Hence why he has only felt bubs kick 3 times! Grrrr!

Aquanatal last night was AWESOME! Really enjoyed it and realised I do really miss doing exercise classes. My god I was knackered afterwards though and the heartburn - Toby I am totally with you. It was the worst EVER last night! It started before I got in the pool, lasted the whole session and I must have eaten about 10 rennies throughout the night. This morning I have a dodgy stomach and I wonder if it's because I ate too many Rennies - but I had no choice! I was propped up as it was and STILL the heartburn and reflux continued.

Got to carry out a 2 hour training session today - I really don't have the energy or enthusiasm! Just hope my stomach doesn't continue to be dodgy otherwise it could be an interesting session! Blush