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ThePFJ · 07/10/2013 21:49

New Thread!!!!

Update the stats here with your EDD's, Scan Dates and Baby Names!!
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Settle down for cake, sympathy and lots of laughs! xxx

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Chip86 · 14/10/2013 10:54

Isean your scan pic is amazing

Oh dobe I hope you feel better soon take care of yourself

Can we stay here for a bit longer, maybe move to FB once most are over 12 weeks im worried i would press wrong buton and tell everyone on my FB plus some on this thread dont have it so dont want to leave anyone out

LongTailedTit · 14/10/2013 12:50

Ok, I know I've only lurked for ages, but have been reading the "awkward questions" thread and have the following to impart re 'The Antibiotics Excuse'!
When I was in early pg with DS, I was lying about not drinking due to antibiotics and a smartarse colleague whose father was a GP announced very loudly that it was a myth. Prick. Anyway, if I had known the below, I could've stood up for myself and hidden my pg for another month!
So ladies - cite antibiotics as the reason for not boozing, and if anyone disputes it, just say "Yes, that is true of penicillin based ABs, but the ones I'm on are the other sort and I am def not allowed to drink."

"Mrs PennyApple Pharmacist here. Re Antibiotics and alcohol, the answer is that it depends on the antibiotic

Metronidazole (Flagyl) and tinidazole are metabolised by the liver and, in some people, block the metabolism of alcohol so it "backs up" and a very, very small amount gives you such a hangover you want to die so you certainly avoid alcohol with them.

Penicillins are excreted in urine via the kidneys, alcohol is a diuretic so flushes more water from the bloodstream into the bladder, taking the antibiotic with it so lowering the blood levels and making it less effective. With those you can drink in moderation but a lot will reduce the efficacy so that is probably why medics tended to advise against it as they knew drinking in moderation was unlikely!"

:)

impatientlywaiting · 14/10/2013 13:12

Hamandcheese mumsnet is being weird for me today. I can see your profile and the titles of the photos, but not the actual photos which is annoying. Will check back later for a look at the nub.

hamncheese · 14/10/2013 13:24

xavielli ditto, on the group, party and everything. Like a mirror world hehe.

I reckon with so many people even if a fb group was set up there are enough people to populate both even if everyone doesn't use both. May is a busy birthing month it seems

impatientlywaiting · 14/10/2013 13:28

Spoke too soon. Saw your pic Hamandcheese. What a lovely photo. I think girl too. Have you thought about posting it on the ingender website. Some people on there are known for having brilliant success rates. You post the scan pic and people comment with girl/boy predictions.

thistlelicker · 14/10/2013 13:58

I can officially today say I feel pregnant!! I feel like anything I put in my mouth I want to vomit ( I hope this isn't the case when I have Monday roast for tea), brushed my teeth and it was was like I was haemorrhaging from my mouth! Also I have this odd feeling in mouth!!! Also feeling very round !!! Doesn't help I'm very fat anyway!!

bluestone85 · 14/10/2013 14:37

Poor everyone who is feeling rubbish! I'm feeling really sick today (horrah and also boooo).

I'm happy to do both this and FB, but it will have to be further down the line as I don't want many people knowing yet - which most people have agreed with :)

Isean Your scan is gorgeous! So clear too! Perfect little bean :)

dobedobedo · 14/10/2013 15:02

Finally saw the scan pics hamncheese and isean. Lovely!!

Hamncheese don't feel bad but your username totally makes me want to vom! Grin I've went right off meat the past month or so!

Does anyone else boak at just the thought or when talking about food? Even dh asking what I want for dinner has me running to the toilet.

This morning I picked up some maternity jeans I ordered from mother care back when I thought I was 13 weeks pregnant. They're so damn comfy that I'm convinced all I'll ever wear is maternity jeans for the rest of my life. Pregnant or not! My other non maternity jeans are still okay. Except I absolutely need to undo my top button all the time as I get so bloated. Being pregnant is so glam!

moominleigh94 · 14/10/2013 15:59

Horrible stressful day at uni Sad really not what I wanted or needed today.

Hope everyone's having a good day.

hamncheese · 14/10/2013 16:54

Ooh might do that impatiently I'm really keen on a girl this time. SIL has four boys and I think she will be VERY put out if I have a girl eep.

My username makes me feel sick too dobedo it has a long, cute, soppy story behind it though so I would hate to change it! I can't wait to buy some more maternity leggings... They are heavenly.

moomin that's rubbish... What are you studying? Ugrad?

bushprincess · 14/10/2013 16:57

hamandcheese great picture! if the nub theory is correct then it must be a girl!! will be exciting to find out soon (they can tell us with some certainty around 20 wks yes?)

if a hidden secret FB group gets set up then I'll no doubt join (I'm actually a bit of a FB addict - eases the pain of being so far from friends and family) but wouldn't want to leave out Nanny and mumof2 (you plus DH are probably about the only ones left not in the FB world!) so will definitely stay here too!!

sorry to hear you had a rubbish day moomin hope tomorrow is better

I'm having a major clothes dilemma here, nothing is comfy (big boobs and bloating even though have lost 1.5kg since the bfp... and it's got SO SO hot! need to invest in some big floaty dresses, even though they always make me look pg even when I'm not so I'll look the size of a house once I go that way... humph

Hope everyone has a good eve, without to many reasons to feel sick!

dobedobedo · 14/10/2013 17:05

What's the reason behind your name hamncheese? I love hearing stuff like this.
My name came from what my ds says to me when he's too embarrassed to say "I love you" - at the school gates usually! Now he says it at bedtimes etc, it's our little joke.

dobedobedo · 14/10/2013 17:07

Oh and regarding the nub theory? A friend of mine wrote about it a couple of years ago, she's a science journo. She really rates it. It's very accurate (if the conditions are right etc etc)

mumof2aimingfor4 · 14/10/2013 17:29

Aww dobe I love your name story, so so cute!
bushprincess I used to be on facebook but came off years ago after I met my OH on there!

CbeebiesIsMyLife · 14/10/2013 17:39

Dob that's a cute name story! Mine speaks for itself really!

Talk to me about the nub theory, I've never heard abou it?

moominleigh94 · 14/10/2013 17:40

Undergrad; 2nd year. Done a shitload of work for the others on the course; writing a script for them all, organising us all into groups. Just shown them a draft of the script and one twat guy has said "its ok. bit short. you could've put more effort in". Sad I nearly cried, not even a bloody thank you.

And now there's a total us-and-them feeling between everyone on the course; those who have a main part vs those who don't because chorus feel hard done by and it's making everyone feel awkward. The lesson today dissolved into a massive argument with people crying and being made to feel like shit for getting a good part.

Sorry for the language. Everything is affecting me badly just lately. Think I'm nervous about the scan.

impatientlywaiting · 14/10/2013 17:48

Cbeebies from my basic (and possibly inaccurate) understanding the idea is that at 12 weeks the babies sex organs protrude a bit from the body - called the nub. So if you get a nice view from the side with the babies legs raised then you can determine if its a boy or girl. Think the idea is that in boys the nub will be angled, whereas girls will be more horizontal. If you google "nub scan boy/girl" then the ingender website comes up with loads of info and pictures on confirmed boys and girls 12 week scan pics.

MasterFlea · 14/10/2013 18:49

Another one here who doesn't use facebook. Loath the site. But I'm quite the intovert. I love my anonminity here. I regularly namechange and am going to don a halloween one soon.

Moomin That's shit about the sour grapes in your course. Don't let that twat's comment get you down. I love to read but can barely construct a post and am always awed by writers.

Love your story about your nn dobe

thistlelicker · 14/10/2013 20:02

I just been looking at maternity entitlements when on maternity leave! It's left me feeling "is it worth it "

dobedobedo · 14/10/2013 20:15

Tell me about it thistle. Shite isn't it? I thought maternity pay would be full wages for six months! How deluded I was.
I'm worried how we'll cope.

NannyPlumForPM · 14/10/2013 20:21

Mine seems ok tbh (nhs bod) but I still think I will make DP get out and some working! (he currently works every other weekend but mega long days! 5am-9pm) and looks after de while I work in the week :)

NannyPlumForPM · 14/10/2013 20:23
Halloween Grin
thistlelicker · 14/10/2013 20:26

I work
For the Nhs too, I thought we got
Normal maternity pay!!! I not sure we
Can only actually I know we can't live on 138 a week!! We have no savings and dh is on low income!!

FuckSadSadSadSadSad

dobedobedo · 14/10/2013 20:43

138 is normal maternity pay! After six weeks anyway. Hence why I'm going to work until I pop and I'm currently trying to think of ways I can earn money and be a SAHM for two years.

thistlelicker · 14/10/2013 20:49

I have a 7oo hole that needs filling while on mat leave!!!! I knew it was dire I just didn't think it was that bad

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