Morning all
Happy Birthday Stom! Lots of october birthdays, mines on tuesday too.
Mum, don't worry about your little boy. And don't instantly blame him for the hitting. Why is he hitting? Does he feel threatened or is he being picked on? Does the teacher know and if not why not? And certainly don't blame yourself. Boys will be boys and a bit of rough and tumble at 4 years old is par for the course I think.
Whisper, try and speak to someone lovely. Its not good to feel so down and depressed. And you deserve better. Can your DP help out? Is there a bus service to the docs or could you scrape up the money 1 way? Or explain to the midwife and ask them to come and see you at home. Mine do home visits if necessary.
Well I have been up all night being ill. Lovely. Have a major case of the shits. Woke up about 2am with terrible cramps which frightened me to death as I thought it could be something to do with baby, who was bouncing around like a man possessed. Then had a rumble and the urge to fart. Luckily I went to the loo 'just in case' and it was a shart and not a fart. And there I stayed for about an hour. Fell back to sleep (in bed not on the bog) and woke up at 4am for another hours worth of cramps and shite.
Nice. There is a D & V bug making its way around school and DD has been a bit more regular and 'loose' the last few days. And I did feel a bit sicky at one point (bin by my feet as I sat on the loo jobby). Only other thing I can think of is I finally gave in and took a Ranitdine tablet yesterday lunchtime. Gaviscon just wouldn't work and felt sick with the acid reflux so had one of those. So I think it's either a bug or the Ranitdine that didn't agree with me.
DP was worried bless him. Wish he hadn't been. I like to poo in peace and its only since I've been 20weeks or so pregnant I've farted in front of him. So him hovering outside the bathroom door whilst I did what a girl had to do asking if I'd like a glass of water or a cup of tea and should he phone the hospital etc doesnt help.
Think he was making a bit of a point though. The last time one of us was ill in the night was him 2 years ago and I (less than sympathetically it has to be said) said to have a shower and take 2 parecetomal and stop making a fuss. 9 hours later he was being wheeled into theatre for a 5 hour operation as his bowel had burst, his apendix had gone and he had perotinitus. He had 6 litres of pus and infection in he perotonitic cavity and his lungs had begun to collapse! So he was in a bad way and spent 5 days on intensive care.
So now he often reminds me that a shower and some parecetomal just wouldnt have worked. Called him an ambulance when he asked for one though!
Anyhows have a nice saturday everyone!