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September 2013- We've managed to hold them in!

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fl0b0t · 30/07/2013 17:28

Hi all! Providing the ladies who are currently in hospital don't give birth before the last 20 posts in our old thread, we've made it to a new one with babies all still staying put for now!

Here's the stats thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/a1694946-September-2013-STATS-THREAD

Welcome newbies! If anyone wants to join the FB group (better for sharing documents and pictures), please message myself or jennimoo with your real life name and email address and we can add you to the group!

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
RakeABedOfTyneFilth · 12/08/2013 15:29

I've just had my 38 w appointment and am really confused. BP, pee, swelling (lack of), baby heartbeat and bump size/position all fine. Although I thought bump was lower, she reckoned head was free, not at all engaged. Hmph. Then she said (having already had the discussion about how I am booked for a home birth) if any of these things happen, call delivery suite: cramping, any bleeding, waters breaking, baby movements slow down, (etc) and I was thinking but isn't this a lot like the checklist for 'labour is starting' ?? I didn't ask, I was just a bit puzzled. I guess as it's the same phone number for delivery suite and for calling out the community birth team, when whatever it is starts up they'll ask some questions to triage me and I'll be advised whether they think something sounds wrong over the phone.

Been in to work today too, starting to enjoy saying to people "any day now really!" when they ask the inevitable question. They all jump back at least 6 inches hee hee. Oddly, I feel like I have more energy when I go into work than I would if I just potter around at home, must be something to do with psyching myself up to be on form and not look useless. A couple of important meetings tomorrow, a useful but optional one on Monday, and then I'm really freeeeeee.... I also have a hair appointment booked this Friday morning, thinking about a nails appointment some day too. It would just be a lot of things to cancel though if baby did show up nice and soon.

Mooster I completely empathise. I've had enough of this, it's boring now! Last pregnancy for me, too. Just want to get on with the show and have a baby to cuddle. Could be four more weeks though. How tedious.

Hugs and take-care vibes to everyone with major extra upheavals going on - especially Derpess. Remember that there is all sorts of support to lean on - even from a MN postnatal thread, right through to counselling. More than one of these big life changes at once are a recognised factor in your emotional well being, so don't suffer alone. Xxx

jennimoo · 12/08/2013 15:34

Rake - here it's the same number to call no matter what sort of birth you're planning, so that's probably it.

My bednest just arrived and DD and I have set it up. I've a feeling one of the sides isn't working properly (doesn't stay up properly...) so might have to send it back already... Will wait til DH gets home to check I'm not being really dense!

Some cramps and BHs today, and some unusual back pain...

Mooster1709 · 12/08/2013 18:33

Thanks for the words of wisdom badguider - I'm sure you're right! and very sensible. This will be my new plan.

weebarra · 12/08/2013 19:24

derpress, so sorry to hear your news, hope you are coping ok.
I'm in hospital again, been contracting since 5am but cervix still high and closed. They don't want to leave me - 2 previous cs leaves me at risk of rupture. Might be seeing baby quite soon. 36+2 today.

HettySunshine · 12/08/2013 19:32

Eek Weebarra! Do keep us updated when you have the chance. Fingers crossed for you that everything goes smoothly. X

kipsonline · 12/08/2013 20:41

Sending moral support to depress and good luck vibes to weebarra, hope things all go

kipsonline · 12/08/2013 20:48

...Really well (blummin' phone)
I've had a really lovely last few days with my boys doing lots of special things whilst I'm still a mummy of 2 not 3 :) shattered now though!
I go in tomorrow for a sweep as 1 day off 38wks and this baby needs to get a wriggle on now as my chances of stillbirth (with lupus) are too high to risk any further growth... my consultant who I have had since my 1 st pg in 2007 has to do it, which makes me feel a bit yucky as I kind of feel like she knows me too well for all that?!? Still hoping I can avoid full on induction later in week but this one seems too comfy (my 2 DS had both been born by now!)

Wincher · 12/08/2013 20:50

Eek weebarra are you going to be first? Still amazed we have no babies on this thread! There has to be one in the next few days I'm sure.

So sorry to hear your news depress. Look after yourself.

Rake, I believe it's normal for the head not to engage until you go into labour if you're not a first timer. Probably more comfy that way!

I have been camping for the weekend, including scrambling down to the beach, swimming in the sea etc. Had a fab time, I was no more uncomfortable than I would have been at home, and felt good to be active. However that's it now, am 36 weeks in a day or two and not planning any more stays away from home.

Manoodledo · 12/08/2013 20:52

Good luck weebarra and kips!

Joskar · 12/08/2013 21:38

So, DH cuts himself and bleeds profusely all over a tissue. Some hours later I go to the loo, finish, turn round to flush and see a bloody mess in the loo. Assume I'm bleeding so start hyperventilating and going into a major panic. Check myself and realise that it is not my blood. DH has discarded his bloody tissue into the loo! Now have murderous thoughts towards DH. Will be more bloody tissues if he pulls a stunt like that again!

Totally fed up being huge and sore and ungainly and so over reading about pregnancy. I want the baby to be here! (Except not until next week at the earliest.)

Kips and Barra hope all is well. Fingers crossed!

CheeseStrawCraving · 12/08/2013 22:10

Mooster, fed up here too. If I have to wash any more flippin small things I think I'll scream. My current washing loads consist of small stuff for baby in one load, chef trousers (black) in another, chef jackets (white) in another, greasy tea towels in another, plus all the normal washing. Grump grump grump.

36+1 today. Head 2/5 engaged, does this mean anything in terms of going into labour? Want baby now!!

Mooster1709 · 12/08/2013 23:15

Good luck weebarra and kips - scary but exciting!

And thanks all for the sharing of the moaning - has made me feel so much better. Actually got things done today rather than just moping about and it's really helped. Have a clear desk to get on with actual work tomorrow and am determined to do so.

Anyone else been having period-like pains? Have been getting them for the last week or so and they're pretty painful, but go away with paracetamol. Is this the head engaging do you think? They didn't mention it at my 36w appointment.

Mooster1709 · 12/08/2013 23:16

And joskar, that made me laugh..

juniper9 · 13/08/2013 00:07

I'm not sure how I'm going to cope through the next few weeks- I just teared up at the idea of you two having your babies soon! I'll become dehydrated if I cry over every birth!

In other news, apparently I'm underprepared. My mum asked me last week if I knew how to look after a baby, and I said I figured I'd work it out / google it. She's bought me three books in the interim Blush

RunningBear78 · 13/08/2013 12:40

Good luck weebarra and kips hope all goes well, keep us posted!

So, for those of you fed up of reading about labour, breastfeeding, looking after babies ... have you read anything non-baby related recently? DH bought me an anthology of Miss Marple books to take my mind of things Grin

Oh and perineal massage - oof! starting to get the hang of it but crikey, concentrates the mind Shock

JammyTummy · 13/08/2013 12:50

I just got the first in the series of inspector McLean books- Natural Causes by James Oswald. Love me a good murder.

Being read in combination with The Good Birth Companion and Gina Ford

badguider · 13/08/2013 13:17

Barbara Kingsolver - Flight Behaviour..... I just finished and really enjoyed this.

Mooster1709 · 13/08/2013 14:26

Ooh,I've fancied flight behaviour - will give it a try.

In fact, am off to the library this afternoon to get some non-baby related books to restore sanity (library is major part of operation 'living on maternity pay' - have realised book expenditure is ridiculous). Have also vowed to get through at least one hard-core, work based book a month when on mat leave - massive box that I ordered from work arrived today. There's something very exciting about a shelf of brand new books I always think...

jennimoo · 13/08/2013 15:17

It's worth seeing if your library do Ebooks of you have something like an iPhone: mine does and I remember sat BFing in the dark reading them when DD was small.

I had another little bit of plug come out today, and MW says fully engaged, so I'd say within a week for me. I surely won't be first though? (38+1, DD was 38+5...)

RakeABedOfTyneFilth · 13/08/2013 18:32

Wolf Hall - just started a few days ago. Made me realise I haven't read fiction for ages, possibly not since my first maternity leave four years ago!

I've instigated a "screens off an hour before bed" rule to try to improve our sleep patterns, so I won't be reading on ipad/phone/kindle during the night feeds. I've asked for a book light thingy instead.

The screens thing worked so well last night that we woke up naturally at 5.30 and it didn't feel painfully early. We had a bit of the old howsyerfather or as I like to call it 'natural prostaglandin based induction method' (catchy)... and I have done almost a full day in the office too and am still very strangely feeling full of beans. Is this a pre-labour energy boost?? mustn't waste it!

Joskar · 13/08/2013 18:35

jennimoo exciting stuff! The baby and the prospect of no more SPD! Good luck!

Books I have read and liked in the last few months of being unable to move:

Capital by John Lanchester
Citadelle by Kate Mosse (v trashy though)
All the David Sedaris books (non-fiction and utterly hilarious)
Harold Fry by Rachel Joyce
Donna Leon's Venetian detective stories
Agatha Christie anything (if you pretend that you can't read the gender/class/racial stereotyping)
The Rosie Project by Graeme Simieson

I'm considering getting a Kindle for when the baby arrives so that I can read and feed. Anyone done this? It seems easier but maybe I'm just being silly and a book is just as easy/impossible to concentrate on? Can you do stuff and bf?

mrspaddy · 13/08/2013 18:42

Anyone else absolutely exhausted?
I did nothing today except small bit of housework. Had a busier day than normal yesterday. 36 + weeks so probably normal. Also very sore / lot of discharge TMI..

How are you all? .. it will all be worth it.

jennimoo · 13/08/2013 18:52

Joskar - I think that it depends if you want to read in low light while feeding evenings / nights. If so get something small and lit up, otherwise books are probably fine but I think I'd struggle a bit with turning pages, depending where I was feeding. I'm a solely iPhone reader now: so easy with one hand, apps to use all types of Ebooks, you can turn the brightness down for night time and browse MN when you get fed up of your book!

Manoodledo · 13/08/2013 19:03

I tend to find I read more when they are little babies as I read while breastfeeding as you only need one hand for it. Thanks for the book suggestions. I loved Wolf Hall and the sequel Bring up the bodies. Also second the recommendation of Capital.

On the exhaustion front, I'm afraid I'm with Rake Grin and feel oddly energetic, or at least I did today, yesterday I felt rubbish all day. Today I took the kids to the beach and then the park and then the supermarket. In fact I'm starting to worry about the size of the baby, it just doesn't feel very heavy. I did have a scan at 34 weeks and it was measuring below average but I'm only 5 foot 1 and my boys were both small so I'm not expecting a large baby. Will see what I'm measuring when I see the midwife next week, if, of course, I haven't had the baby by then (she says hopefully!)

kipsonline · 13/08/2013 21:04

Well, I had the sweep. I was 2cm dilated so the consultant could do a v thorough job. Ouch. I've had some bleeding and cramping since so hoping it is working?? The baby measured 7lb10 at today's scan so a good size for 38wks, despite all my scary meds that should = low birth weight. Induction b