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September 2013 - The Beginning of the Bumps

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BinarySolo · 06/03/2013 16:01

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Dorita75 · 08/03/2013 06:37

Good luck today beans and red!

Just read whole new thread, also cannot believe how some people feel they have the right to express any opinion they like, as someone said, I could not do that to a person so obviously glowing with happiness. I suppose we're all different! Which leads me to adding that if you're still reading Rosie come back, it would be a boring world if everyone had the same opinions. And you've given us the best laugh with the icecream tub in washing machine story Smile

I had headache all day yesterday so went to bed at 6pm after work. Have woken up a few times and it's splitting now so already decided to stay off work today. Think you made the right choices badguider and lexy to get some sleeps in.

I've found a pregnancy yoga that I'm going to start next month, and local children's centre does antenatal classes in July. Just 3 classes, is that usual?

Dorita75 · 08/03/2013 06:40

Ooo, meant to say Jo my symptoms eased lots at 12wks and scan was perfect last week. It's come back slightly but no where near as bad. Ultrasound man showed us the corpus whatsit explaining it causes the sickness until placenta takes over....am hoping that's happening soon!!

Dorita75 · 08/03/2013 06:43

Just in case anyone gets wrong end of stick in my post below, I'm referring to people in RL expressing opinions on finding/not finding out sex, names, fact we're pregnant in the first place etc...

Girraferama · 08/03/2013 07:36

Hi Dorita my local centre also does 3 sessions - one at 20 weeks, 36 and 37. Just booked the first one - exciting! I'm relieved because I don't think I could afford to pay for the NCT ones

JoCheshire10 · 08/03/2013 07:47

Ah-thanks a lot :-) Had a bit of a panic moment last night but all your comments have helped loads-appreciate it. ;-) Being pregnant is hard going on your emotions!

Dorita75 · 08/03/2013 07:59

They're great aren't they girafferama I know mine thru work and was so impressed with what they offer. I had my booking in there too. I'm looking forward to going later on, they have some fab classes like baby massage and a sensory room!

Kittenkatzen · 08/03/2013 08:01

Morning Smile

jo the few symptoms I've had also seem to be easing/changing over the last few days (13+1 today). I'm still sparko by 930pm but am feeling a bit brighter during the day which is nice. Have developed some very attractive catarrh like some other ladies though. All of my apps are now saying that symptoms should be easing up around now so try not to worry!

On the food front I've also been all about the salt so far, but as this is no.1 who knows what that could mean!

Mat leave - I had my meeting with hr yesterday to officially advise of the pg. At the moment I'm planning to take 9 months off, buffered with a bit if holiday which takes it up to 10ish months. Our problem is that my commute is 2 hours each way, which makes child care a bit difficult, not to mention expensive. We're hoping we might be able to afford for me to either find something more local but less well paid, or earn my keep working for DH's business from home. Basically at the moment we're winging it Confused

Happy Friday lovely ladies, sorry for not name checking am on phone

Rollermum · 08/03/2013 08:03

Hi everyone I'm new to MN so hope I'm posting in the right place...

Is my first pregnancy, am due 6th Sep, 14 weeks today, and MN has been very reassuring to read over the past couple of months!

I'm starting to show now (but am large to start with), craving apples constantly (though tinned peaches sound good too) Lovely to meet some people going through the same stuff and hear I'm not the only one with headaches and nausea - still!

nerual · 08/03/2013 08:47

Welcome rollermum :) ... there is a stats thread that you can add your details to: here

WhizzsMum, my scan is on the 21st, I think I might be last, I will be 13w exactly....

nerual · 08/03/2013 08:49

Though juniper's DD is after mine, her scan might be even later!! 2 weeks away seems soooo long to wait!

badguider · 08/03/2013 08:59

Morning!

Sightly scary meeting this morning for me. I want to move my teaching that I do for the Uni from the second half of the first semester (Oct-Nov) to the second half of the second semester (March-April) so that I can still do it.
There's no way I can do it in Oct-Nov (baby would be six weeks old at the start) but in March will be six months and it's only half a day a week for six weeks (with a day a week prep) so I think that'll be fine. Even if we don't have childcare, DH could take leave. I'll do the prep day at the weekend with DH taking charge of childcare.
I wrote this module last year and delivered for the first time so I really really want to keep it as 'mine' and deliver it again this year.

Anybody else on this thread teach at a Uni?

Next Weds I have a meeting with the chair of an organisation that I am the only paid member of staff for to tell her I'm pregnant. I only plan to take 3months off this job so hopefully it'll be ok...

BinarySolo · 08/03/2013 09:15

I've just altered the stats list so that due dates are subtitles. I think it makes it clearer but let me know what you think.

Ion toasted soreen is rather yummy. Mmm malt loaf.

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Readytosettle · 08/03/2013 09:28

Mmm malt loaf....wishing I had some of that in the cupboard now!

RunningBear78 · 08/03/2013 09:54

Just a quicky to wish all you lovely ladies a happy International Women's Day! www.internationalwomensday.com/ Thanks

Eeeknumber3 · 08/03/2013 09:59

Oh FFS just started feeling vomitty again after two weeks clear. Just in time for weekend on my own with kids, as DH just bobbied off to Frankfurt on stag do for weekend...grrrrr

LexyMa · 08/03/2013 10:55

About the salt, my mum sent me a book off amazon only just published, and the author says that from what research there is on various cravings, the thoughts are that salt is craved because of all the extra fluid being produced by the body e.g. for amniotic fluid and your extra blood pumping around. You need more salt to make all the electrolytes work so that nutrients can pass through cell walls.

I also read (different book I think) about natural vs managed third stage of labour. Didn't think about that at all first time round. I might put in my birth plan this time that I don't want the cord cut for a few minutes - if baby is put on mother's skin and starts rooting for the breast straight away (as they do) you get a couple of minutes where a significant amount of blood drains from the placenta to the baby (which is good because they then don't need to make so much of their own blood supply) and also the suckling stimulates the hormones that tell the uterus to let go of the placenta, which is what the syntocinon injection in the (mum's) thigh is for in the 'managed third stage'. The risk with natural third stage is that the uterus doesn't know when to stop letting go though, and could turn into a primary postpartum haemorrhage. I also now realise from this that I should have been recorded as having had a secondary PPH because the 'light' bleeding after birth went on for six weeks until I was given antibiotics. Still, that might be something to discuss when it comes to birth plan.

I think the difference between antenatal classes, if you have the choice, is that the children's centre and maternity unit classes are very much "this is what we have to offer, this is what we usually do" whereas NCT and independent groups will/should be more about "these are your options, you'll be offered this but remember you could ask for that, here's how to ask them to present it in terms of real risk rather than relative" and so on. I think healthcare professionals, wonderful as the vast majority of them are, sometimes don't have the time and capacity to help patients to be informed 'clients' - if you just teach someone how to question the advice they're given, they could just end up arguing the toss over everything, so you create more work for yourself! But if you can help them make informed choices in partnership with their HCPs, everyone's happier and better fulfilled by the experience and the service, if you see what I mean.

jennimoo · 08/03/2013 11:05

I planned on not cutting the cord right away, but DD was too chilled out to breath when she came out so had to be snipped and taken to the cool corridor instead! I think I'll plan the same though, a few minutes cuddles before snipping and injection.
If you have a water birth you do have to get out for the injection and placenta though, not sure i was ready to get out'

nerual · 08/03/2013 12:15

You can def ask them not to cut the cord until you want them to; we waited until I delivered the placenta, it didn't take that long and by then you know all the good stuff has got to the baby. Cord is long enough that baby can lie on your chest while you wait...

Ezza1 · 08/03/2013 12:54

With my 3rd DC I waited until the cord had stopped pulsating until it was cut but unfortunately ended up with a retained placenta. I was really cross as the birth was absolutely lovely and I ended up being whisked away to theatre to have it removed.

Not saying that it was delayed cord clamping that caused retained placenta but its always worth noting that you always need to be prepared for any and every eventuality when it comes to giving birth!

Tat71 · 08/03/2013 13:06

Hi Badguider, I teach part time at uni too, it can work well when you have kids (I have two already), as you can do prep in evenings/weekends. I'd allow yourself as many months after birth as you think you can get away with before you return. Having said that, if you're not preparing a new course, then going in for a few hours and delivering your lectures/tutorials may if fact be a pleasant break!

BinarySolo · 08/03/2013 13:32

Thanks for that last post LexyMa very informative and a lot to think about there. I didn't even know that delaying cutting the cord was an option.

What are those of us with children already planning to do with the kids while giving birth? This is playing on my mind a fair bit as my parents live 2 hours away, dh's parents live about 3 hours away and we've only lived in this area (this county) for 7 months. Have had a couple of the mums I know offer to take ds tho.

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beans37 · 08/03/2013 13:47

All well, but dates nearly a week out. 11 +5 and due 22nd sept. 1.5mm for nuchal fold, which is good I think. Hurrah!

jennimoo · 08/03/2013 13:50

Binary - that's very much on my mind too, and similar lengths of time away! I'm wondering if my childminder would do a couple of hours if necessary in an emergency, or maybe her 16 year old daughter if it was the night and she was asleep...
Luckily I had a medium length labour with lots of clear signs last time so I'm hoping they'll be time to sort things out. A friend of mine is due dc3 (this week...) and has barely got to the hospital with the first 2, so she's worried she'll end up with an accidental home birth!

BinarySolo · 08/03/2013 14:00

One of the mums that has offered to have ds has a dd the same age and has just had a ds. Her mum's 4 hours away and pil are abroad. Her dh took her to the hospital with dd planning to drop her off but she was so far advanced that some mw looked after her dd while she gave birth. The whole labour only took 3 hours!

And a week later she was back in skinny jeans too! Envy

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JammyTummy · 08/03/2013 14:14

Are anybody's cramps getting... more crampy??
Mine started out quite mild but they've never really stopped, probably about five days now. I know in my head that its absolutely fine (round ligament pain) and completely normal, but every time I feel another stabby pain I panic!

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