Bloody hell cuillere! That must have been a bit of a shock.
I find walking helps with the wind (I am a long term IBS sufferer, so I have experiemented with lots of different things!). I recommend walking somewhere away from crowds so that when the urge comes you can just trump away! It pretty much never fails for me. I think the walking motion + gravity pushes everything along the intestines. Running is even better but less practical to take up during pregnancy!
roofio I think your worries are completely normal after what you have been through. It's not in the same league at all, but breast cancer is rife in my family and I have had a few lumps checked out in the past (all fine). With my boobs changing every day and feeling odd, I am finding myself checking for lumps and oddness all the time!
Sorry about the uncertain scan notso.
I am 6 weeks today and willing away the hours anxiously awaiting my early scan tomorrow. I have no symptoms other than the sore boobs and insomnia, and even the insomnia seems to be easing off. If I can see something on the screen, maybe I will start believing this is real.