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Christmas and the New Year will bring with them a flurry of sneeze births and we Brook No Argument! (part 14)

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MissLToeishavingsantasbabyboo · 19/12/2012 18:50

Thought I would treat us un a festive thread

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WinterSolstice · 29/12/2012 21:20

Gen awwww congratulations, lovely Thanks

And glad you're safe and sound back home Stacks

Little that sounds like a perfect NYE to me!

Happy New Year to you all x

Stacks · 29/12/2012 21:47

I've got in in my head that babies, especially brand new ones, need lots of close time. So DS has been with me constantly since he was born, with only the occasional nap in a cot/crib. He's a wee star and incredibly well behaved - breastfeeds for 5-20 mins, sleeps for 1-3 hours, check nappy and repeat. He doesn't cry much, except to protest at the time it takes to get from waking up to breast, and even then it's obviously protests rather than genuine distress.

I think lots of people would love to get 3 peaceful hours peace at a time with a newborn, and indeed, I do love it. However my activities while he's sleeping beside me are limited to one hand and a phone mostly. I'm also still very tired from the CS and hospital stay, so reading/posting on my phone becomes quite a challenge. Tonight I have DS on the bed snuggled against my thigh while I'm on the laptop, but at only 9:30 I'm already thinking of turning in for the night.

Quick birth story for you, of sorts in next post...

Stacks · 29/12/2012 21:48

Started induction with the pessary on 22nd, put in at 3pm and sent home for 24h. No progress really expected by the doctors, and none achieved really. Examination next day showed cervix too far back to sweep and closed, trace showed DS was happy in there, and regular-ish contractions. Left for a 24h rest, but as now 42w I wasn't allowed home.
No sleep due to crying babies, and next morning was put on a trace. Trace showed I was having mild contractions, but less than night before. Then I decided to change position (sat up), which brought on some contractions but also a big drop in DS's heart rate. It would have been a bit of an emergency situation, but no one noticed at the time, and it was only seen on review of the trace a few minutes later - at which point DS has obviously recovered well. However, given the drop they decided to accelerate the induction and send me over to labour ward to get things moving asap.
Doc examined me and found I was 1-2cm, and cervix really far back. However she did a sweep and sent me off to walk around for a couple of hours to see if things progressed. I had quite a lot of bloody show, but no change on re-examination so she broke my waters. I was put on a trace and left for a while, and at some point it was decided to start the drip. I managed a couple of hours of the drip easily; contractions were very evident and quite painful, but TENS and walking around was sufficient. Then she turned up the drip by one more notch (about the 5th or so increase) and suddenly I was in agony every contraction. At this point I was about half way through the 'lets see what happens' stage, with 2h till and exam, and 8 hours till anything 'useful' was expected. So I tried GA which didn't help, and logically looked at the time remaining + current pain and decided I was going to end up with an epidural and it might as well be sooner rather than later!
Epidural was good, worked well, and didn't take away nearly as much feeling as I'd feared. I could still easily tell when I was having a contraction, but wasn't in pain from it. However, 25m after getting it in his heart rate dropped and Drs came rushing. Drip stopped, rest given, drip started, epidural topped up - and same again. 6cm at this point.
Consultant was phoned for advice and she decided best to get him out now. It wasn't an emergency, but it was very likely he'd keep having these episodes over the next 4cm + pushing, and so we'd end up with a CS anyway.
CS straight forward, DS born at 3:30am. He was given to Dr to check over and DH stayed with him, then had skin to skin while I was stitched up. I was given him in bed with me when taken out of theatre, and we managed to breastfeed in recovery room.

As he was a Christmas baby we also got given a present from the hospital, and the chance to be in the papers if he was the first born (he wasn't, someone beat me to it at about 1am).

NewYearNewBoo · 29/12/2012 21:59

Wow!! Just wow Stacks you really did so well.

BartletForTeamGB · 29/12/2012 22:01

Well done, Stacks. Sounds like you are doing a great job now and did a great job giving birth. You have had lots of surgery, I think, so I hope that doing a semi-emergency section rather than a real Cat 1 emergency one made things easier for them doing the op and for you recovering. Would love to be able to admire photos when you have both time and energy!

Boo, I looked up the Wikipedia page on "Boo". What about BooRadley? en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boo

whimsicalname · 30/12/2012 03:00

Ooh little we're going out for new year: to a neighbour's 10 yo's bday party. Life on the edge and I predict being home with the boys about 9.

Glad to hear you sounding so positive stacks. Your lucky chap sounds like he's getting lots of lovely cuddles.

Hello everyone else. Mince pie?

GreenOlives · 30/12/2012 08:09

Well done Stacks! Sounds like a bit of a prolonged ordeal but you appear to have taken it all in your stride and DS sounds very happy and chilled! Grin Keep taking it easy with lots of rest and Brew Biscuit
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GreenOlives · 30/12/2012 08:18

Also meant to say I am with the staying in brigade on NYE! I start work at 7 on New Years Day so even if I wanted to go out it wouldn't be very sensible with such an early start. Is it wrong that I take great pleasure in waking up the pathetic hungover people that litter our dept every New Years morning? Nothing gives me more pleasure than being all bright, breezy and loud as we get them up and out!! [evil] And giving them hospital gowns for the journey home when their own clothes are too soiled to put back on! Grin Whims Your plans for NY sound good - at least you can say you're going to a party! Wink

Stacks · 30/12/2012 18:26

I'm going to go out on NYE to my SIL. It's a party for people with no other plans. I think we'll head over with DS early, stay for a little while to show him off and see friends. Then come home. I very, very much doubt we'll be there for midnight. Most likely tucked up in bed at home. It sort of counts though, right?

One thing is certain still , DH and I won't be drinking. Even not pg or on standby for the hospital trip :)

SparklySanta · 30/12/2012 18:38

I'm team stay at home too, well technically I'm going to my mums but that doesn't count!! I can't stand all the hassle, and these days I have zero energy anyway!!

clickingtock · 30/12/2012 19:50

Of course I will be busy having a baby on NYE GrinGrinGrinGrin Talking of which, Nuts update SVP...

SparklySanta · 30/12/2012 20:48

tock that's a great way to spend nye and an excuse to never ever go out on nye again!! Brooking!!!

Twinkle is due on summer solstice so am thinking a trip to Stonehenge before hand might guarantee a sneeze birth!!!

NewYearNewBoo · 30/12/2012 21:02

Booby is due may 3rd, I am hoping for a may day baby (same as my db) all those lovely birthday bank holidays, DH on the other hand wants booby to come a day late so he can call it Luke, may the 4th be with you Hmm

scarletfestivefingernail · 30/12/2012 21:43

at soiled clothes Olives. Do you work in A&E? You must see some hideous self-inflicted sights this time of year.

I'm a fan of staying in on NYE. We have done for years even prior DC. I like going out the rest of the year, just hate pubs on NYE.

Great birth story Stacks. I wonder if the next brooking baby will be 2012 or 2013?

GreenOlives · 31/12/2012 07:35

I do indeed work in A&E Scarlet - unfortunately the self inflicted hideousness is a year round occurrence but it definitely ramps up a gear at New Year!! Wink
tock Im loving your NYE plans! Grin Grin

SparklySanta · 31/12/2012 10:16

Urgent brooking required for my Nan she's been taken in to hospital!! And in my heightened emotional state I'm struggling to hold it together!!!

NewYearNewBoo · 31/12/2012 10:26

Oh Sparks {{{{{hugs}}}}} and hand holding, brooking a plenty for your nan Thanks. Do you mind me asking why she was taken in?

SparklySanta · 31/12/2012 10:36

Pneumonia, she's been unwell for a few days but we thought it was a bug!!

NewYearNewBoo · 31/12/2012 10:42

Well they know exactly what they are dealing with, and will be taking extremely good care of her. I'm brooking she will be just fine.

JenFrankincenseAndMyrrh · 31/12/2012 11:11

Brooking for you Sparks

Boo we were hoping that DD would come a little early and be a Star Wars baby too. She was only 25 days too late for that

Smeggnog · 31/12/2012 11:21

Stacks wow that's quite a story! I hope you're recovering well, you sound very relaxed and happy. Have a very lovely new year Smile

Sparks brooking very hard for your grandma - I'm sure they're taking excellent care of her.

Olives I think you need a vuvuzela to send those hungover poorly people on their way with proper New Year cheer Grin.

We were supposed to be going to a friends' house for a celebration with kids etc tonight, but I feel so wiped out after Christmas week (and the obligatory cold) that we're staying home instead. Jools will help us see in the new year.

itsMYNutella · 31/12/2012 12:19

Brooking for your Gran Sparkle! So sorry to hear she's so poorly. Big squishy hugs being sent your way!

Well scan on sat and sun showed too little amniotic fluid so they are now having a bash at inductionHmm Not much happening and I'm quite bored. DP is as awesome as ever and keeping me company and trying to help me relax and stay calm.
Otherwise not much happening. Much as I wish it would. Ho hum...

BartletForTeamGB · 31/12/2012 12:24

Urgent brooking for SparklyNan. Hope she gets well soon.

We are going out to friends' tonight with a number of families, so that'll be nice. We'll take DS's travel cot with us, but I'm not sure we'll stay until after midnight anyway as I am exhausted. It took me hours to get to sleep last night and then DS woke us (I think he has a wee cold) at 6am. I'm not needing any Gaviscon at the moment so that's good though.

Boo, DH could have almost have been a Star Wars baby. He wasn't but it does work out nicely that we can celebrate his birthday with a BBQ over the May Day weekend, so, yes, aim for that weekend!

BartletForTeamGB · 31/12/2012 12:26

Crossposted with Nut. Brooking for an uneventful induction and a sneeze birth. What birthday do you prefer? Hogmanay or New Year's Day? Just so we know what we are brooking for. Xmas Smile

NewYearNewBoo · 31/12/2012 13:26

Ooh Nut a new year baby :):) good luck with the induction, brooking you get a lovely quick sneeze birth!!

I wrote the bit below and realise I am just ranting and getting it off my chest, you don't have to read it all, it was nice just to get it down!

Just got back from mw, they needed to re do my thyroid blood test, apparently a tsh count of only 0.38 is not ideal :) (I think 1.5-2.5 is what I am aiming for) although this time they did say that my dizzy spells are probably due to low blood pressure (99/68) and didn't blame my thyroid for once! they have also had a look at my care plan, the hospital want me to go in for blood test results at 24 weeks (I can now do that by phone) scan at 28, 32, 36 weeks due to my history of big babies, (Toddly boo was 10lb 3.5 oz, but mw said today that is probably not necessary at I am 5ft 10 and DH is 6ft 3, she would be surprised if I didn't have a large baby, and I gave birth with no problems last time) so she will ask about cutting that down to one or 2 scans and keeping some of my appointments with the community team instead of it all being done at the hospital. Sorry that is a lot of info, but I was getting a bit stressed about how many appointments was having at the hospital, it is miles away, DH can't always come with me and the clinic always runs late and parking costs a fortune