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March 2013 IX: Cruising to Christmas with burgeoning bumps

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Sheldonella · 30/11/2012 08:22

Thanks sarahs999 for the lovely new thread name :)

Old thread here

No 9, can you believe it Grin

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LaurenCaddy · 03/12/2012 10:51

Blimey this does move quick!

In response to Muslin clothes, would you say there essential? It's probably the only thing i don't have tbh.

I'm super organised, have my hospital bag packed just because i'm a 'you never know' kind of person. I'm 25 weeks today and my oh is under strict instructions oh how things must be. My sister's baby was prem, and i myself was prem. So hoping we don't follow the pattern as i really would like a water birth.

I have antenatal classes book throught the NCT in January. Has anyone ever had these? & I've got my 4d Scan on the 18th December, which i'm getting excited for. Has anyone had one of those?

Lazy day for me again, waiting in for a delivery that was due Friday. Trouble is, we're in new builds and i don't think our postcode is registered properly yet. Had to have all my furniture delivered to Mums and carried round by Dad/Brothers/Oh.

My decorations are up! They was up mid-November :/ I love Christmas. We have a Disney them. So this year my tree is black, with Nightmare Before Christmas baubles :) All presents done and wrapped, all thought i admit last night, i opened my Nans because i wanted chocolate and Asda was shut. So must rebuy and rewrap Nans present :/ Bad Grand-daughter!

Sheldonella · 03/12/2012 10:59

Ooh, welcome Lauren too!

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Sheldonella · 03/12/2012 11:02

Lauren yes to the NCT classes. Mine are in January too and I'm a bit nervous about them, not sure why. I hear they are great though - some of my work colleagues did them and made some great friends. I had a 3D gender scan at 17 weeks - I can highly recommend it.

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LaurenCaddy · 03/12/2012 11:17

Mine are at Weston Hospital and me and my partner are a bit nervous about them tbh. My sister said because she was young, she got a lot of snotty comments and looks. Good luck to them if they do that to me. Trouble is my mouth opens before i think!

I can't wait for my scan. Its me and my OH Christmas present! :D

Just had a beautiful delivery from my OH's sister! Well from Baby Bloom. she's bought us one of those gorgeous baby girl bouquets, where all the bits and pieces are folded into roses and made to look like flowers! Its stunning. Very excited :) I'm so lucky to have such a great family on both our sides!

ThreeForTea · 03/12/2012 12:31

vivee your sil sounds very very annoying! start blanking her comments out now!

lexi hope you get better soon. It is pg related low immune system illnesess, so you'll always be able to explain that away where you need to.
Also with post birth peeing, after birth, I went straight to not being able to wee much so other extreme!

tramp book sounds good, which one is it? Also with ur gallery, when will you be opening again? Could plan to come down :)

oct unless yr Muslins have been sitting unwashed somewhere unused for a couple of years def reuse! I find them handy and quite multi purpose.

theTramp · 03/12/2012 12:54

The book I mentioned is: www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/009192216X/ref=oh_details_o05_s00_i01
Christine Hill's pregnancy guide.

I thought it would be more of a day by day guide, but actually it is a practical what to do. The first few chapters - which are "oh I am pregnant, now what" - won't be much use to you at this point, however the rest really is rather handy. I really wanted a book that gave me practical - what to worry about, what not to worry about - guidance and a science book, so the two books I bought when I found out I was pregnant were this one and the day by day pregnancy book (which is great by the way, if you have a friend who is preggers with their first this is the gift) www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1405332107/ref=oh_details_o05_s00_i03
Although I am amused by the switch between "his" and "hers" presumably dependent on the contributor when talking about the baby.

I am told that bamboo muslins are fantastic, so worth seeking out - if that helps anyone?

It is 1pm, how did that happen? Must dash, loads to do. Sorry anyone I haven't name checked and yes I concur, your SIL sounds very annoying.

Three - next weekend actually. We're opening specially because it is the Christmas fare at the Horniman.

backwardpossom · 03/12/2012 13:17

"In response to Muslin clothes, would you say there essential?"

Yes yes yes yes yes yes.

Yes.

Xmas Wink

I had a very pukey baby and would easily use 6 of them a day to mop up his puking. Can't have enough of them!

Sheldonella · 03/12/2012 13:39

I've had to come home again :( Meltdown at work when I tried to walk into town to get my lunch. Everything hurts so much and I just feel so useless and tired.

Lots of pain under my bump and in my lower back when I stand. I hope it's just because I overdid it at the weekend.

Sorry to moan :(

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pinkpeony4 · 03/12/2012 14:14

All of my unused baby clothes are also in vac bags in the loft labelled by size.

October I second Stealth on the towels. We use Cuddledry toddler towels (v cute and we have a giraffe, cow & bug) and then have moved onto the Kiddorable ones. My 6 year old can just about still use them. We have a ladybird & dinosaur which are so sweet. We also have some nice towels from Tyrrell Katz but these aren't hooded. I reuse muslins, they look as good as new and I like how soft they get after being washed and used.

Lauren welcome & congrats! I would say muslins are one of the most essential baby buys but I suppose it depends on whether you have a sicky baby. My ds2 used to projectile vomit so we got through loads. I also use them at the head end of the moses basket so if they are sick in the night you can just change a muslin instead of the whole sheet. Aden & Anais make brilliant giant muslins which I used to use as a sunshade on the pram to totally cover baby but still let some air in.

Sheldonella you poor thing, rest and maybe see a chiro about your back? they work wonders.

All well here. Managed a full nights sleep well, 2 loo breaks but normally more so felt great we had a lovely meal out with the boys last night which was nice and meant I didn't have to cook. Have had haircut & highlights this morning and ds2 has a friend to play so a nice morning. Chiro this afternoon and my back is very sore so looking forward to that. Hope everyone else is well?

LexiandBeanette · 03/12/2012 15:05

Sheldon sorry to hear it, rest up - I'm not good at doing that but feeling better for it having slept a lot this morning. Call your MW if you are concerned about the pains - does sound like muscular aches, it's hard for our bodies to adapt to the changing weight!
Very impressed with organisation re: baby clothes & storage. Still planning on doing baby shopping over Christmas break, starting with hospital bag! Our room will be baby's and has big wardrobes plus there will also be a reprinted chest of drawers. All our bed linen will also have to go in there somewhere though as we will lose our laundry cupboard once the loft extension starts!
Thanks for reassurance re: leaking. Will keep on with those pelvic floor exercises!

OodKingWenceslas · 03/12/2012 15:08

Read too many posts to scan back & name check properly

sheldon relax & rest

lauren I only bought Muslins for dd3 and didn't use them much but she's not a sicky child.

Had hospital got GTT on Monday as they aren't doing more until Jan Hmm so another thing for me to worry about!!

Sheldonella · 03/12/2012 15:38

Thanks everyone I have slept a bit and feel a bit better. I love how supportive everyone is on here, it really helps. I will call someone later or tomorrow if I don't feel better.

Hope your back feels better after your appointment pink.

Lexi Glad you got some extra sleep.

Boo to the GTT ood they don't sound pleasant.

Muslins - I have 6 but it looks like I will need more based on all your comments. These vac bags sound very useful too.

I'm just having a quick look at changing bags now. I do have one quite big handbag that I could use but it only has short shoulder straps. Is it essential to have long straps?

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theTramp · 03/12/2012 16:16

Lexi - glad you're feeling a bit better. I completely understand why you are frustrated by it all. I admit I am about to duck off for 40 winks. My head is killing me. I am SO fed up of life sans lemsip, decongestants and ibuprofen. Bah!

mandasand · 03/12/2012 16:24

Hello ladies! Smile

In quite a chipper mood today, having worked hard on reorganising my study yesterday. DH is giving up his man cave for the babies so I'm clearing one wall of my study (which, with futon, doubles as spare room for guests) for him. He spent almost all of yesterday afternoon making up a very complicated Ikea desk, and it turned out we didn't pick the one up with vertical shelving at the back ? d'oh! Too late now. We freecycled his bookcases (so the nursery to be is looking really big, light and airy!) and I'm condensing my 36 shelves of books into something like 26 to give him space alongside. What this has meant for me is a massive reorganisation of my research materials which, to be honest, I love doing every year or so as projects get finished, publications get published and new topics start muscling in. It's a perfect time to organise my stuff as I've a lot of stuff to work on during maternity leave and I need to know exactly where things are - I won't have time to rummage, I'm imagining! Somehow the whole process always releases a lot of energy and I've spent the day so far tackling a big unwieldy project that I've been putting off. So, v. pleased with self!

In other news, I'm already outgrowing my size 20 (I used to be a size 12 a few short months ago!!!) over-the-bump pants but rather than buy more at this point (I've only had them two weeks!) I've just cut the elastic either side and the relief is enormous! My bump is really, really big and itchy at the moment so the elastic cutting in didn't help. The rash hasn't returned, but it's just a kind of urticaria. May have to step up antihistamines to a full tablet every day soon, but consultant at hospital did say it was okay to do so.

And the cleaner came today and did all the nursery furniture! She didn't seem to mind at all me asking. So that's all ready to be made up when DH finishes clearing his man cave (This could take some time ? ) and we've decorated it.

Babies don't seem to be moving quite as much lately as previously. But I have 28-week scan next Tuesday so trying to not worry.

Now to catching up!

possom hope you've got the 'bigger' interview first. I always find I collapse a bit after an interview, with all the stress etc. Or perhaps a good long break between the two? Let us all know when, won't you?!

pink your disgruntlement with DH reminded me of a thread I read on Active the other day in which some poor woman's DH came back from a company xmas do totally and utterly drunk to the extent that he got up twice to pee in the corner of the room and over some of the cot. I think there were other episodes through the night involving singing, waking up a teething child and, very possibly, vomit. So count your lucky stars! Thanks for the Stuva recommendation Smile

Sounds like with two babies we may need two chests of drawers for the time being. Not fussed about each having their own clothes, even if they are boy / girl, btu based on what amount of stuff we've already got this seems sensible!

welcome aboard, lauren!

Flowery sounds like you're making good progress with the house even if it does feel like two steps forward and one back! If it's any consolation I don't think we're going to get our kitchen done before the babies arrive. The money our FiL left us in his will has just come through so we need to make a decision on which double-glazing quotation to go with and get that booked in. We can also move forward with getting a new boiler, then a tumble for the same cupboard. But given it's becoming clear we can easily do the kitchen ourselves I reckon we should just save for another six months or so and get John Lewis to do it. I know this probably sounds like a ridiculous solution, but I don't have the energy or brain power to do the measurements, work out what we want / need, do the research into which kitchen, and get all the different trades in to do the work. And DH (in one of his more stubborn moments) refuses point blank to do anything to do with the kitchen because he doesn't really want one. So, the best solution I can see is to throw some money at the problem. He hates spending money so I was hoping that he would relent and help out, but no, so money-throwing it is. Well, saving it up first!

Lexi sorry to hear of your family emergency and not feeling too good to boot. Any better today? Glad you are resting. Brew

Hermione, you too - sorry to hear you had a wobbly weekend. Don't worry about work - it will always be there. Your DH sounds lovely but perhaps sometimes he needs gently to say no to his family, or perhaps just let's do this on another day. Look after yourself.

Zoey omg re your assistant! Does this mean you've been hard at it today? When do you get to slow down - tell us what the revised plan is else we'll all come and forcibly remove you from work and sit you in a spa.

Thanks for the advice and nice feedback re hamper! Teehee! And Zoey and others pining after those xmas puds, I should be back over that way next Sat or Tues so am happy to buy a few and send your way! Seriously, if they are that good I will even try one myself (and I'm not a xmas pud fan!)

Three I love TED talks! I've never been to an event (tho they used to be held in Oxf a lot) but I watch the vids when they are posted on FB.

Sheldon glad you have had some relief too! Yep, I'd recommend Lactulose. I had to take 6 tsp per day (the max) for three days to get some gradual movement, but I think overall this was better plan than taking a proper laxative and ? well ? who knows what would have happened!! Sorry you've had a bad day, but glad to hear you came home to rest. V.g. plan, my dear.

Crikey, Vivee, you've got a busy couple of months ahead! Not sure I'd be okay with someone who I'm not close to patting my belly either!

Em2010 · 03/12/2012 16:36

Hello everyone. Just waving really as i'm sitting at my desk and desperately trying not to fall asleep.... zzzzzzzz

OodKingWenceslas · 03/12/2012 16:56

sheldon experiment with what you will need when out & about. Big straps usually better for over pram but I prefer to carry it.

zoeymlucas · 03/12/2012 17:06

Ummm yeah have been at work all day as boss rang this morning to say his dad had been taken ill and had to fly home 4 days into a 2 week break in Hawaii and could I cover so me being me said yes and plus he cant really help his dad being poorly!

Manda your a star and I can paypal you the money for postage and xmas pud :) then I can sit at home like a crazy woman and scoff it and DH will never know I had it Xmas Grin

Glad you slept better Sheld as no sleep is the worst thing EVER - I can cope with the pain etc with back but its no sleep that is killer! With baby bags I like long straps so can go over pram and by carried over chest when little monkey gets bigger and its a case of juggling everything.

LaurenCaddy · 03/12/2012 17:23

I best be buying plenty of muslins then! Thank you ladies.

sheldon what kind of changing bag do you have? I have a silver cross one that came with my pram and all its bits n pieces, but it seems so small? I've been looking some up online, but somehow managed to get to pre-packed maternity bags, and they generally looked quite good, and had the odd bit i've missed out on mine. Which leaves me considering, am i really that lazy, and just buy one? Hope your feeling better as well! I've got terrible backache, think i may get one of those dreamgenii pillows. They look so comfy!

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 03/12/2012 17:52

Hi all

Just read the new thread in its entirety so am fully caught up!

Sorry for those with tiredness and uncomfortableness. I am still feeling cronky when I do too much, but I know the answer is to do less!!
Dtruggling to nAme check everyone, so soils to those I miss.
hermione I think your supervisor needs to do a proper risk assessment. Most people I know who do physical jobs have been put on 'light futies' for the latter stages of pregnancy. If you knacker yourself in the last few months you will really feel it. I am working til just after 37 weeks and NOT A DAY MORE! If anyone who wants to work until their due date, well good luck to them, but I think they're, as DD would say, a total bloody bonker-head for doing it! Grin

Congrats on house flowery hope you can get the decorating underway properly soon!

Welcome Lauren! I really enjoyed our NCT classes and made friends there who we still see regularly now. Well worth it just for that, to my mind!

zoey your work is a nest of intrigue isn't it!! Blimey, cant believe thAt about that guy working in your office!!!! hope you are able to start to take it a hit easier though as planned.

tramp glad gallery opening went well and think Christmas treat of some artwork sounds a good plan!

manda glad that the old motions are now going through as normal Wink and that you have got the study sorted. Hamper looked amazing BTW. I think if I were you, i'd be prepared post christmas, just in case. Of 4 sets of friends will recent twinnage, 3 went to 38 weeks and delivered then, but one lot came at 32 weeks, with no prior indication that it might happen that way. Fingers crossed for you though!

We put our tree up this weekend and also had a bit of a sort out. Am so sick of the house being full of crap. In all seriousness I suggested to DH that we hire a skip and deal with everything that way after Christmas.

Need to sort nursery zmd get new furniture ordered for DD as she's still using the nursery furniture albeit in her 'big girl' bedroom! So checking out ikea and eBay. As for whT nursery will have furniture wise, We currently have (in DDs room) a wardrobe with two drawers, a changing table with loads of space for nappies, wipes, bibs muslins (yes yes yes whoever asked..) and all that sort of stuff.

Had fairly good result at NCT sale, I reckon I'll have cleared about £70, so fairly pleased with that. And some of my really good stuff hasn't sold, so might give that a whirl on EBay. Bought a playnest for DC2 and also a couple of grobags, so have just added them to the pile of stuff to sort in the new year!

Was great meeting em too! We had a good old natter, whilst I was looking hot (literally) in my NCT volunteer pinny (very fetching...)

Poor DD isn't 100%, she's a bit off her food and sleepy, but going in a mo to make her some spag Bol and hopefully that will cheer her up! She made it to the nursery Christmas fair though on sat and did all her singing. DH said she did so well, she knew all the words and sang to everything including 'away in a manger' when she held the baby Jesus!! Apparently it was all going swimmingly until the last song (jingle bells) where she got into it a bit too much and accidently hit herself on head with said jingle bell! Grin oops!

Anyway, better go and make some tea.

Take care all. X

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 03/12/2012 17:55

FFS as usual apologies for horrendous typos spoils and futies anyone?!Blush

Hope it makes some sort of sense anyway!

LaurenCaddy · 03/12/2012 18:13

Hi ethel hope your littlun feels better after your spag bol!

Just heard the news on Will & Katherine expecting. Mixed feelings on this one, congrats to the lovely couple but she's less than 12 weeks! I got my fingers crossed for her. Hope she doesn't get harassed by press. Poor bubba.

EthelredOnAGoodDay · 03/12/2012 18:15

Totally agree Lauren. Wonder if she'll become a mumsnetter?! Grin

LaurenCaddy · 03/12/2012 18:20

Doubt she'll need to, we'll know about every kick and every moment of sickness with the news these days. There's already bets on names being taken! As if she wasn't under enough pressure. Bet queenies chuffed!

LexiandBeanette · 03/12/2012 18:43

Agree Lauren, guess they only announced ealy due to her hyperemesis! Hope it gets a little easier for her!

StealthToddler · 03/12/2012 19:39

Not a great day. DH made redundant this morning. Just about rounds off a very tough few months. I shall just immerse myself in Xmas stuff.....