Swiss, It's just tough, you will be feeding and he will have to get up and see to DD. She will eventually go down for him but it's him who will have to deal with it there and then. You've warned him, it's now his problem as far as I can see - why should your baby suffer?
Fatima Here is a point of view from the other side. I have a very selfish mother who who spends zero time with her grandchildren even when brought to her house (she would rather clean the wheelie bin outside as she demonstrated on Monday). The way she shows her affection is through buying the new baby stuff, she doesn't have a lot of money, but she has got it quite a bit and it's really added up, I think this is her way of telling herself she is a good gran (she is a shit one). They don't see the money, and like to buy stuff that is a 'surprise' and something they have picked themselves. I don't know what the circumstances are with your MIL, but maybe there is a reason for herself that she has spent £100 on a moses basket and makes her feel better. I'd take it as the gift it is to be honest and leave it at that. My mum bought me one too without asking, I'd already got one, I now have a day and night one.
Have been itching all night, just got some E45itch from the doctors so will see how that works out, Sudocreme stopped working for me. The doctor thinks I'm allergic to pregnancy too lol.