welcome mrsrigby! this is my first time, but lots and lots of others on here have experienced a MC, so hand-holding is definitely available here! big hellos also to sneeze and kirsty (and anyone I missed!)
sorry you're having such a rough time with the nausea, sheldonella. It may be only small comfort, but I'm sure I read somewhere that those who have full-on morning sickness have less chance of MC. So, that's something to try to hold on to over the next few days and weeks till it passes.
so sorry to hear your news carikube and sorry to lose you from the thread. keep strong, and you never know what a couple of months down the line may bring. take care xx
fingers crossed for your DF today, tiddley and good luck for tomorrow's appt, JoJo.
well, things have brightened up considerably here (and I don't just mean the weather!) DH and I had some good chat late last night and he's agreed to sit down to look at our finances and make a plan on Weds night and also to seek advice on how my diminished income can be taken into account with the legal agreement re the co-ownership of house, esp. now we're married. Also says I was being ridiculous to imagine I'd be solely responsible for childcare, so I guess my hormones have had a part to play in this, as well as his closed-off-ness! We'll see how things go on Weds, but so nice to be back to normal and not in a grump.
my brother is coming down in a bit for a couple of days, and it's really sunny so I'm taking a couple of hours off this afternoon. maybe go down the lottie or for a bike ride. (treat for working and grumping through the weekend!)
on the panic front, I had a small blob of really yellow discharge when I just went to the loo. Normally it's just been pure white, so of course I'm worrying, and adding this to my diminished preg symptoms, and coming up with not good things. Having not to tell my brother will be good distraction, methinks!
have nice afternoons, all 
and thanks to all of you for your brilliant, brilliant support over the weekend 
you're all ace.