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March 2013 Mk II - anyone for a wotsit?

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tiddleypompom · 19/07/2012 14:16

Did it work??

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JoJoBella84 · 26/07/2012 19:33

Trauma over - the OH found my pot noodles under the bed. How he laughed.

tiddleypompom · 26/07/2012 19:49

Hee hee jojo- hidden pot noodles, I love it!

lexi that's terrific news hooray!!!

Welcome haitch :)

Poor sick peeps - really sympathise with you (vomiting or not, I knowxhowxdebilitating it is). Don't beat yourself up about work it simply isn't the priority at the moment. Seriously stop the guilt, sign off from work and rest.

In bed in a hotel room. Oh how life has changed that I am posting on mumsnet from a hotel room!house packed, DS asleep, DH a hero. That's me for now - I will check in when I can (from the pub!!) but leaving you all for the rural backwaters till bt connect us end Aug.

I'll miss you all (sob), please look after those precious cargos :)

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tiddleypompom · 26/07/2012 19:52

How will I manage without you all?!

P.s. anyone know how to work an aga? :o

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Vixjane · 26/07/2012 19:54

Great news Lexi!

Jojo I've just had a cry at DH not really sure what about - he didn't quite know what to do with me!

Take care tiddley! Hopefully you'll find some free wi fi in the meantime to keep in touch!

Lexiindisguise · 26/07/2012 19:59

Tiddley hurrah for moving! Good luck & hope to see you back here soon x x

HaitchJay · 26/07/2012 20:16

Good luck tiddley especially with the aga

KFFOREVER · 26/07/2012 20:32

Hey everyone

Just popped on to say hi.

Sorry to hear those who are ill. I dont know if this is a good or bad thing but my sickness has subsided. I have a theory that it has subsided due to me taking pregnacare instead of my folic acid before. When I was TTC I used folic acid (Wilkinsons brand) and it made me feel sick. I even did a pregnancy test as I thought I was preggers but no it must have been the folic acid. So I recommend Pregnacare to everyone. Saying that I am still exhausted as ever.

A horrible thing happened to me today and realised stress is not good for the baby. As I was driving a bumble bee was about to come through the open car window. I panicked big time and rushed to close the window. I made it but I had cramps after and has just recovered.

Look after yourselves.

tiddley- how exciting you are moving to a new home.

flowery- I know what you are going through. Ive already told work and felt like I had to. If anything happened to me or the baby at work which could have been prevented I would never live with myself. For example, my manager was going to increase my work load but we had a risk management meeting today for newly expectant mothers and it clearly states in the framework that the mothers mental and physical state needs to be stable and this included appropriate work load. So by me telling work they actually reduced my work load. All the moaning I did about my managers this week and last week has paid off although my horrible line manager is off on leave. Im hoping her holidays have made her happy and less stressed. Also my colleagues have been lovely and supportive.

Rainbowbabyhope · 26/07/2012 21:30

Well we saw a tiny rice sized blob with a flickery heart on the scan (thankfully an external one). Confirmed my dates almost exactly to the day (6+2) which was good so at least its one teeny step forward for us. Unfortunately the consultant which we saw (a specialist at another hospital) seemed to have a very different opinion on what happened with DD last time which made me feel a bit wobbly. But looks like we are going to get a lot of very focused care and extra tests which is obviously reassuring. I also have a scan next week and then one the week after so lots of mini milestones to focus on which I real need to stop be going insane with worry!

My heart goes out to all of you suffering from bad sickness. I get it on and off and can only imagine how hard it much be when it is constant.

backwardpossom · 26/07/2012 21:32

Good news about the scan Rainbow. x

Sheldonella · 26/07/2012 21:44

That's great news rainbow!
KF I think pregnacare has helped my nausea a bit. I figured it must be the B6 in it.

Well tonight's meal went down very well - fish fingers and potato waffles :)

backwardpossom · 26/07/2012 22:01

I had a massive pizza. It was ace!

Lexiindisguise · 26/07/2012 22:38

Great news Rainbow!

mandasand · 27/07/2012 00:07

Lexi, sorry to hear about your light bleeding but so relieved to know that the bean is all present and correct! Brilliant! Take it easy if you can and rest up.

welcome haitch! glad you had a positive scan today :-)

you too rainbow! yay! mini-milestones an excellent plan.

tiddley, hope today went well! How lovely that your neighbours let you house-sit today and that you had the movers do all the lifting and carrying! I was the same re symptoms. One of the questions I asked the doc in the pre-scan chat was 'Okay, so if it's bad news what do we do?' and somehow that helped me feel in control, because there was A Plan. Goodness knows how my two beans (TWO, EEEK!) survived all the whiskey tasting in Glasgow at the end of last month :-) If they are good little beans, I think, they hang around pretty resiliently. Don't worry too much. Just make sure you look after yourself and have a bit of downtime each day. You've got so much on, and to think and worry about, at the moment! AND (just read your latest hotel room post) WE'LL MISS YOU! Check back in when you can Smile Cor, a listed rural retreat with an Aga, sigh not jealous at all!

Shieldbug I'm starting to show too, I think (well, more than my usual belly!) DH just said what are all these dresses out for on the bed and I remembered I'd emptied half the wardrobe to find an outfit that I wouldn't feel uncomfy in and which was relatively bump-masking! Oooh what's your PhD topic again? (Soz if you've already told us upthread!) Good luck with it. I've got another 5 weeks to turn mine into a book, yikes, so that's another joy for you to look forward to!

Poor dameflamingo. So sorry about the constant, horrible sickness and the lost weight :-( But hurray for seeking medical advice and for them taking your predicament seriously. Good luck with the treatment and take good care of yourself :-)

JoJo, your supermarket shop made me chuckle! Esp. the meal for one and putting the pot noodles away under the bed (wtf?!) You're as bad as me!

KK sorry about the bumble bee incident but glad work situation is easing a bit - brill!

Hmm Tinker, I can see that your DH's comments are just a bit annoying! Maybe you could gently tell him how that could be interpreted as a certain lack of enthusiasm?! When really it's a whole new person who's going to be as exciting and surprising and delightful and heart-tugging as your DD!

Boo for not being in a good, supportive workplace at the mo, Flowery. Are things like your maternity pay related to passing probation? If so may be an idea to grin and bear it.

Ah sorry to hear about your argument with OH shimmy. It's such a stressful time, isn't it? Lots of anxieties and worries below the surface can make us all go a bit out of kilter. DH and I had an argument about stuff the other night. Now it seems to have largely driven by his worry and my hormones! (Though there is still stuff to sort out at some point, we think?) Hope you've managed to talk it through.

Not much news here. Spent full day in London and returned KNACKERED. Lured DH onto my train at Reading (normally he gets the bus) then we cycled home along the Thames in the lovely low sun and had a drink (cordial for me, alas!) at one of the pubs on the river. Very nice. Day was good too. Big chats with boss and head of dept about another funding bid two years hence. Looks like they want me to be part of that, which is great. I'm quite worried about telling boss (only the two of us on the project) that I'll be a beached whale from mid-December and then need six (or nine?) months off with the twins (all being well!) from Feb, so it was really good to take the long view, beyond maternity leave. Also tonight we talked about perhaps both of us going down to four day weeks so that we'd only have to think about childcare on three weekdays. And as I work from home it might be something like an afternoon with a childminder, not a full day at nursery. Maybe I'm kidding myself, but it all seems possible. And I think I'd feel less guilty as the twins would have each other to burble along with?! Anyway, it's getting late so I'll sign off this MEGA post (sorry!!)

Night all! xx

JoJoBella84 · 27/07/2012 06:57

manda I wouldn't worry about the whiskey tasting too much. In my early weeks (before I knew) I had the man flu - whiskey every night before bed to help me sleep :) the most amazing part was, me vomiting at Alton Towers following three goes on the nemesis, the oblivion, two shots of Air, nemesis sub terra once (was rubbish), and many other rides which clearly state not to use whilst pregnant!! My bean is already an adrenaline junkie with a pot noodle addiction... Back to bed with me, just woke up for my ginger biscuit!!

HermioneBoo · 27/07/2012 07:10

JoJo a bean who is an adrenaline junkie with a pot noodle addiction made me laugh! I really fancied a chicken and mushroom pot noodle yesterday - I don't like them very much so not sure where that came from!
manda twins sounds so exciting! Do they run in your family?
I have been feeling so uncomfortable, I haven't thrown up yet but the waves of nausea make working normally really hard. I've had to tell one person at work so I can be excused if I do start being sick, I don't want to tell work til 12 weeks but the way I'm going it's going to be fairly obvious!
I'm finding ice lollies, Wotsits and oatcakes are helping, and I only get nausea until about 5pm. Trouble is eating makes the nausea better so I'm going to be a whale before too long!

Lexiindisguise · 27/07/2012 08:16

Hermione, Nairns do some fab ginger oatcakes, the combination of oatcake and crystallised ginger has really helped me!
Working from home today so can use MumsNet on the computer not the phone.
JoJo, cracking up at adrenaline junkie with a pot noodle addiction! In that case, given pre-& post-knowing I was preg ctivity, mine's a cava fan with an orange tan from the wotsits and a love of chilli1

Hope everyone is doing well today. Got my MW appointment at 11:00. Went out with my best friend (who knows) for a curry and a chat last night, lovely to 'talk baby' without worry with her - she's got a 3yo so was giving me lots of tips! She's convinced we are having a girl, so strange as obv no way to know yet! :)

mandasand · 27/07/2012 08:22

JoJo that's so funny about the Alton Towers extravaganza!!! Haha - there's no doubt that your little bean is sticking around! Grin

And there's me doing a very gentle version of one of my yoga DVDs just now, hehe! They do say not to attempt it before 14 weeks, so that's my excuse! In other (exercise) news, I'm sick of my small bingo wings. Where did all that natural definition do at the end of my twenties?! So I got some of those girly weights and leave them around the kitchen and I faff around with them every time I go get a drink and snack.

After exhausting day traipsing across London yesterday I'm so looking forward to a day at home today. Hopefully doing some useful writing, but let's see if the muse is with me. (And, on a related topic, we've got tickets for Muse at the O2 at the end of October ? what's people's thoughts about loud gigs when 5 months pregnant?! With twins?!! Hmm, oh dear ? !)

Hermione, we've no knowledge of twins in either of our families! It's a bit baffling. I really wanted them, too! I think what happened is that my hormones went a bit WHOOSH after a couple of months off 2 yrs Depo + 4 months Cerazette and two eggs got released. There's two placentas, so it's more likely that they came from two eggs, rather than one splitting, but there's a 10% chance of that (in which care they would be identical).

Have a good appt with MW, Lexi! Smile

Sheldonella · 27/07/2012 08:49

Morning all. I've just had my docs appointment and she was much nicer than last time. She also said it's a bit early for sickness, it could be twins! Not sure if it was a joke. I thought it was normal to feel sick from 6 weeks. Oh well, we shall see :)
tiddley your new house sounds amazing, I would love an aga!
Hermione I feel your pain with the nausea. I seem to only be able to stomach bread, potatoes and wotsits.
Lexi Have a good MW appointment.
manda I'm also considering going to a gig in October. Not sure about it yet :)

sneezecake · 27/07/2012 08:53

Good morning all, hope everyone is well and not too sticky today, the sun is shining again so I'll be painting the fences oh joy! But not before our weekly get together coffee morning with some close friends 1 who knows she was there when I took the test, knew before DH!
lexi so pleased all is ok with you and little one
jojo why under the bed?
haich and rainbow and glad to hear you had successful scans.
has anyone tried relaxation/natal hypnosis it's really helping me relax, mum bought me a box of 4 CDs last time I was pregnant which I listened to religiously I think they helped me focus when things were going wrong with DS, so have started listening to them again.

Still no symptoms, I want to POAS again just to make sure the other 3 weren't lying to me!

kirsty80 · 27/07/2012 09:35

Morning everyone. I had my midwife appointment yesterday and spoke to her about the sharp pains I've been having and she booked me in for a scan on Monday at 8.15. Last night however I woke up with really sharp pains and I had bright red blood when I wiped (sorry if too much) it wasn't a lot like with my previous mcs but enough to call epu this morning and they have asked me to go to a&e now. I am so scared that this is going to go wrong again Sad cross your fingers for me please ladies x

Sheldonella · 27/07/2012 09:41

kirsty You poor thing. I hope everything is ok.

dameflamingo · 27/07/2012 09:44

Morning all. Have just been catching up on the news...am beaming at idea of Phd gathering, adrenalin junkie, whiskey and cava drinking, wot sit and pot noodle addicted beans teaching us how to use an aga. Mine went wine tasting so may appear with an appreciation of not spitting out the good stuff. It also went scuba diving...oops.

manda I saw muse at Wembley a while back and got caught up in a mosh pit of large teenage boys...however I was on the pitch..hanging onto the front rail!!!! The 02 is pretty good if you get a seat on the balcony bit rather than the most pit floor we went to see foo fighters there and not a jostle.perfectly civilised. I'm sure the organisers will swap your tickets if you write them a nice email as its good for PR.

Sending big hugs to those with me appointments and scans today. Will be thinking of you.

Those who are feeling poorly- hope its lifting a bit. Those who don't, panic not!

Hoping they may let me out of here this evening so I can spend weekend at home, if I wasn't feeling so bad the hospital food would have been enough...must get dh to smuggle in pot noodles!

dameflamingo · 27/07/2012 09:45

Sorry kirsty cross posted. Have fingers toes and everything crossed for you.

backwardpossom · 27/07/2012 09:46

((kirsty)) got everything crossed x

shimmy0 · 27/07/2012 09:47

Thanks Sheldonella

About the Peanut butter, I've never had the stuff but might try it. My cure this morning was Alpen even though I hate Raisins :-)

Who said that meat is making them barf? I tried scrolling back up and couldn't locate the post. I'm just wondering if it may be a good idea to lay off beef if it's still bothering you and eat the other meats instead like chicken and ham but then how do u safely substitute red meat in your diet?
By the way really ridiculous question but it must be asked, I don't mind a bit of rare steak now and again, but is it a bad idea while pregnant? Oh I so want to go to a carvery sooooo bad lol

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