I was going to say the 'all doing well' about a baby born at 20 anything weeks sounds like a bit of a euphemism.
The Eastenders premature baby story line is making me fume about how they just make out it's sitting by the incubator side holding baby's hand whilst they grow. Err no it's weekly brain scans, more lumbar punctures (with no anaesthetic as they don't use any anaesthetic for anything on ones so wee as it's likely to kill them!) than you can shake a stick at, struggling to find microscopic veins to take bloods from, alarms going off, infections, fecktard visitors coming into the ward not cleaning their hands, more infections, not sleeping, problems relating to having to feed them whilst the stomach is not finished developing (lots of reflux, food intolerances and allergies), glycerin to help the immature bowel poo, constant terrifying updates on the likely long term problems baby will have, deafness, blindness, brain damage, ADHD, the terror for the parents of bumping into anyone with a cough or cold knowing that this could kill their baby, worrying about not bonding with a child you can't touch, the pointless but unremitting guilt about why the baby was born early.
Anyone who has a baby born before 30 weeks has my total sympathy even if they put a brave face on in public about everything going well. I wouldn't wish it on anyone and am annoyed at the BBC trying to normalise the whole thing as now people will just assume having a baby before 30 weeks is no biggy. My niece is nearly a year and still has so many problems caused by her being prem' and will have for many more years before she catches up with her peers. But family and friends have watched Eastenders and just assume everything is fine now!