Star good to see you, thanks i find babys room a calming place now its done! DBs visit sounds lovely!
I need to have a moan. We went for wedding meeting today which was quite disappointing, felt quite hurried and didn't get as much of a feel for the day as I thought I would, basically given an overview and told to come
Back in March... Quite close timing to
Wedding really.
Then we went to the cinema to see ted which again was quite disappointing, nowhere near as funny as i expected. Then we had a late lunch which whilst cheap was you guessed it disappointing.
We got DS and came home but he wasn't in fab sorts, then i asked "D"P to call his mum to finalise plans for tomorrows outing. Well you'd of thought i'd asked him
To plot a mars mission!!
He ends up agreeing to a time and destination completely outside what id said which would of thrown DS for whole day (Food based melt down would of ensued). Im aware of how small potatoes this sounds and also aware hormones are not helping but.... Does anyone else feel like
Their partner stitches them up To please mummy?!
Dont get me wrong MIL does what she can for is but is too very focused on SIL, and it always seems at least that plans tend to revolve around her plans. I wouldn't mind but this day out has been planned a while and was their idea, and involves money that with DS bday, the wedding an DS2 coming, we cant overly afford to Fritter away, whilst they are very wealthy. I also find myself feeling that whilst they put much emphasis on DS in terms of what people are told etc we seem to have to fight their social plans to
See them.. Which is a bit frustrating.
Im aware i sound a moany cow, but right now i just want DP to go away, i think its part of a wider issue really as i do feel
Im constantly having to order and chide him into doing the smallest things, he certainly doesn't seem to Allow for The fact that i am pregnant and still Working, and still taking care of DS in every sense.
For example I asked him to take him
Into nursery... To do that i had to get the clothes out, the shoes pack The bag get the right coat... He acts like these things are beyond or should that be beneath?! him
To add to this he is always on some sort of game on his phone, to the exclusion of everything else, and whilst i wouldn't mind so much if it were dipping in and out, or when DS was in bed, he has to reminded not to just leave DS in front of the TV, has to be asked to take the rubbish out, put washing away or generally help out around the house, he would literally sit there if not asked.
I just generally feel like he is quite an arsehole atm. 