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Rats Successfully Smacked, the 'No Brookers' uneventful pregnancy and pain free birth thread :)

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MeconiumHappens · 14/10/2011 20:17

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scarletfingernail · 03/11/2011 15:49

Fraid so Ninja. I've worn nothing but leggings since about week 7 Blush

Purplebuns · 03/11/2011 15:50

I have a leather lin and leo and that is heavy! I have had a between, and currently have a packabe which I love. I think I need a big bag since I can fill the packabe with just DDs stuff so really like be prepared :)

pommedechocolat · 03/11/2011 16:00

Ninja - I have been fat since about week 5 (a lot of it early doors was gas though Blush).

The 'perfect' family thing is silly isn't it? Very annoying.

I had a little brother Purple and adored him. He very much used it to his advantage though (think him watching tv and me doing his homework!), your dd will be delighted with him!

Wants3 · 03/11/2011 17:16

ninja see my previous post, I am really showing and have had the "sure it's not twins?" really worried about my scan and it seems ages away! I have also had a sort of dull ache on my right side all day, should I be worried?

Biscuitsandtea · 03/11/2011 17:26

Ninja I was in mat jeans by week 8 (although because I don't work, I wasn't worried about my elasticated waists outing me!)

I might look for a new change bag. I quite like the idea of a big 'handbag' style one. I had a Baba Bing Dat Tripper which was v v practical, but also v changing bag ish. DH was horrified that I spent £50 on a change bag Shock. I pointed out that I spend more on my handbags and eventually he came round and agrees that it was in fact money well spent. I'm it sure what reaction I'd get if I wanted a more expensive one. The good thing about the baba bing one was that it was nice and unisex and across body style so easy to carry for me or DH if we didn't have the pushchair to hang it on. It was certainly an improvement on the free boots one we started off with!

Biscuitsandtea · 03/11/2011 17:27

day tripper, not dat tripper. I'm not talking Jeremy Kyle again....

jenfraggle · 03/11/2011 17:48

I've been quiet for a while so felt I should really get off my ass and post again. My MS is still here, been signed off for weeks now. I have to see the Dr tomorrow, I was told to just phone for sick notes before so hopeful that they may decide to give me some pills finally.

Got my first scan on Monday, I'll be exactly 12 weeks then so spot on for timing there.

As a first timer I haven't got a clue about anything that I'll need really. Your discussions about car seats and pushchairs frightened me a bit but have been brave enough to look at change bags. Have seen one I like but the cost is putting me off a bit. At the end of the day it is just a bag and do I really need a specific change bag or could I get away with a backpack or something? I hope to bf but obviously won't know until bean gets here if it will happen or not so not sure if I'll have to carry bottles around. Bag

dreamfeeder · 03/11/2011 18:00

Well I had no idea I was carrying two. I thought i was more sick because it was a boy and showing because I'm slight, its number 2 and my tummy tone never quite recovered as i did no exercises but because of the vomming, and i started from a lower weight than with dd, I'm still ok in normal trousers with mat tops or bump bands for the belly!

Just getting home from work miles late. Struggled today, and had ?? Braxton hicks with exertion. I had loads of bh last time, but with more exertion, like cycling. It was uncomfortable and my lower tummy was going rock solid so i think it was, which is worrying. My job is pretty physical and its very hard to do less... Anyone else had any yet? I'm only 16 weeks... Wonder if i should ask the mw, as I don't want to carry on and put loads of stress on my body... I was going through gross motor activities with 6 year olds, doing as little as i could but couldn't avoid some moving/ running for balls, jumping, hopscotch, throwing games etc etc and other things I managed symptom free this time last pg. I just don't know how I'll do my job otherwise.... Not to mention disabled children in and out of equipment. What's everyone else managing??? Am I being silly or sensible? Not loving the BH...

Purplebuns · 03/11/2011 18:08

Dream I think you need to start taking it easier. You are doing a lot and I wouldn't risk a thing, I really would see it as a way of your body telling you to cool it. Ring your MW too :)

Pomme lovely hearing about your brother, I really hope they will get on well.

Jen a decent nappy bag is what you need, they are usually laid out much better than an ordinary bag the JJBs I linkd before have specific change mat pocket which is great as they take up a lot of room otherwise. And expensive ime = better quality and better thought out layout.

TooImmature2BDumbledore · 03/11/2011 19:59

Purple, a boy, hurray! Had to read out to DH that you had seen a willy and balls because it made me giggle so much. I had no idea you could see balls on a scan! I was right, I was right! ignores fact that had 50-50 chance of picking correctly and therefore am not psychic

I hate nappy bags too, Jen - surely a nice large satchel would do? I hate the fact that lots of change bags are nylon and look cheap despite costing ££s. You just need somewhere to carry a folding change mat, nappies, wipes, bum cream and a complete change of clothes, surely?

Sorry to hear you feel so awful, Jen - FX for the MS letting up soon! You too, Bartlet.

Dream, I really think you should take it more easily. Is there any way your work can accommodate less physical activity? There is no way you should be lifting 6 year olds, or running/playing hopscotch etc. It's your second pregnancy so your body is under more strain, I think, and it is twins so double the strain of one. I am much less physically able this time around than I was last time - partly it is the SPD and the extra weight, though. Remember, though, women carrying twins used to be put on mandatory bed rest for weeks on end (in 1983, I know - not sure how long it continued after that). I know that was probably going a bit far and modern doctors wouldn't advise it, but the point is that you do need to rest. Mum was in hospital on bed rest when she went into labour with us at 35 weeks - she had been overdoing it (helping Dad bang in fence posts Hmm) and had some bleeding. She was told that she should have been on bed rest earlier as all twin mums were prescribed it, but as the doctors had refused to believe her dates and gone on fundal height instead, they hadn't realised she was carrying twins until only a couple of weeks before we were born.

Purplebuns · 03/11/2011 20:04

I think you don't always see balls but we did, twas pretty obvious and it tickled me to! The sonographer said 'there's his willy' as I asked her to make sure as friend was told she was having a girl, and had a boy.

dreamfeeder · 03/11/2011 20:06

purple, a boy, how wonderful!!!!! And you already have a name you can agree on! Perfect. Love the fact that people will believe you stopped at 2 (if you do) as your 'perfect' family was complete Grin morons...

scarlet, you could practice saying, with a straight face, 'oh, well if its another boy we'll have him adopted, we only want two but do indeed want a boy and a girl' and see how many realise how ridiculous their question was and how many wonder whether to believe you!!! And I wanted a storksak Emily last time! I loved it! Ended up with a cheaper babymel patterned bag which i do love, but not sure I'll fit supplies for 3 in it...

Purplebuns · 03/11/2011 20:26

Well it is a name I love.

Oh and he weighs 1lb 1oz which seems massive!

dreamfeeder · 03/11/2011 20:47

now purple, I'm with you there, we carry these babies. I am already trying my new theory of telling DH that if one of the twins is a boy he will be called the name I love as I'm the one who's suffering for them!! Wonder if I'll have any joy!

DizzyKipper · 03/11/2011 20:52

Hi all,

Sorry I've just gotten in from work and don't have time to catch up, but there was something very important I just had to let you know. Me and OH got some more booties! Grin I now have 2 pairs.

pair 1

Also got some blue bear booties from sainsburys, but can't find a picture online of them . I think this has satisfied my bootie fix for now.

Purplebuns · 03/11/2011 21:22

Dream if you really love the name then push it, he can choose middle name or your other baby's.
It will take a lot to top the name I love, so DH can try. and fail

Purplebuns · 03/11/2011 21:24

Kipper get some sock ons so that when the booties fall off the socks won't as well.

dreamfeeder · 03/11/2011 21:44

Can I ask what your name is purple??? I so curious! Doesn't matter if it's private. I'm pushing for Sebastian for a boy. DH says it's high-faluted (sp?) and posh, but I think it's a traditional name that's not too common that I love! He chose DD's. We had a shortlist for girls, and he had a clear favourite. We hadn't decided the night he went home on the day she was born, and he came in in the morning just calling her that name! I did point out we were still deciding, but he was so chuffed with her and the name that really I think it was his choice more than mine but I had no choice but to agree. Not that I don't like her name, but will use it to my advantage Wink

Purplebuns · 03/11/2011 22:28

It is Hugo, I just love it!
Before I was even PG I loved it. However, I loved a name for DD at this point and changed my mind later on. If your DH chose DDs name then so get your way if you have a boy (or two) Wink

ScreamIfYouWantToGoFaster · 03/11/2011 22:41

Just popping in to congratulate Purple! yay for a healthy scan and for getting the boy you wanted! Hilarious that people assume you'd want one of each?!?! Personally I'd love to have all girls, 3 in fact (depending on how this pg&birth go!) Naturally if I do confirm that my current bean is a boy that means I'll be shipping him off to the orphanage promptly Hmm errr I think not! He will be equally perfect to me!

I do have a boy's name that I'm totally in love with! Zachary! Unfortunately DH isn't at all keen, but I'm just planning to wait until I'm in labour and he's feeling super guilty about all the pain I'm going through. Then I'll heroically sigh and say I think i could just about survive this terrifyingly painful process if only I knew the baby would be called zach at the end... Surely no man can say no to his wife during labour?!?! Wink

Purplebuns · 03/11/2011 22:55

Good plan Scream! I read your plan out to DH it cracked me up so much. :o
I did want a boy, but would have been happy with girls, which is what I expected given my family.
DH has always wanted 4 girls, he thinks it will be easier and was so shocked he was a boy, as he didn't expect it with him and his cousin being the only boys on his side too.
It has been a wonderful day with me floating around going it'sa boy to DH every few minutes. I can't really describe how surprised I was looking at his willy, seemed very odd!

Biscuitsandtea · 04/11/2011 06:26

Morning ladies Smile

Purple congratulations on your great scan and the lovely blue bean news Smile. And how funny seeing the willy and balls! Grin

My 20 week scan is one week today now, but we're not finding out what flavour bean, so I'm afraid the only sweepstakes we can have are whether it's an anterior placenta or not.

Oooh, on that topic, I might have felt a little something last night Confused. I mean it could have been wind Hmm but it felt a little bit pokey / twisty fairly low down on my left side. Anyway, we'll see if all is well next week Confused

I've forgotten what everyone else was talking about now yesterday - oh that's right - change bags etc. I'm still to make my mind up what to do. I guess though cos we still have ours from ds and it's still in ok condition, it's not really time critical for me to sort it as I have something perfectly functional to be going on with.

Right, I'd better get on. Off to visit my friend with her 5 mth old. Last time I saw her I was struggling with the whole ttc thing (it must have been just before i got my bfp) and finding it a teeny bit hard (on the inside) cuddling her snuffle few week old baby so looking forward to this!

Biscuitsandtea · 04/11/2011 06:27

Snuffly not snuffle Blush

DizzyKipper · 04/11/2011 06:38

CONGRATULATIONS purple on your blue bean Grin

Ninja I have read that your trousers can start to become tight this early on, I think it's meant to be normal (and also possibly something to do with your uterus stretching or pushing up other parts of your body already, but don't quote me on that).

Interesting change bag talk. I was thinking of perhaps going for just a big Animal bag if I can find one that's big enough, I like that style.

Hi jenfraggle, sorry to hear about the MS. And hoorah for a scan on Monday, 2 of us are also getting a scan that day so it's looks like we've got a scanathon coming up Smile. What time is yours?

dream I agree with others, it really does sound like you're pushing yourself too much. Is there some one at work you can talk to who will actually understand and be reasonable, they are after all legally obliged to take account of your situation aren't they?

Scream that is a very cunning and genius idea! I don't see how your DH could possibly say no to you when you're going heroically through all that agony Wink

Just had my first proper bout of MS today. Been feeling a bit "off" for a week or so and like food will make me feel sick, but this is the first morning of actually throwing up (after drinking orange squash), so hoorah for that. Now for it to just go away now that I know that it's here...

Biscuitsandtea · 04/11/2011 06:50

Sorry to hear about the MS Dizzy Sad. Hope that doesn't stick around.

I hadn't clocked on to Monday's scanathon. So that's Dizzy, Jen and Musical all scanning then? Are they all 12 week scans? Very exciting!

And I meant to say earlier, Dream I agree, you need to speak to someone to get a review sorted. It's no good being heroic - you have to look after yourself! . Doesn't your employer have to do a H&S review of your job etc once you tell them? I don't care if your colleagues are a bit Hmm about it all - I know pg is 'not an illness' but it is something that needs to be taken account of. And I bet your Hmm colleagues wouldn't think twice about making sure they were looked after if they were in your position. I agree too that the BH are probably your body's way of telling you to ease up a bit - listen to it! Don't forget even when you're not at work you're looking after a 1 year old so you must have precious little down time.

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