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petitech · 11/05/2011 09:06

Will this be the final thread?!? I somehow think not, with more and more people starting on maternity leave, we have time for a good few more methinks!

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PerpetualProvocateur · 17/05/2011 20:01

BPrincess (and anyone else with naughty breech or back-to-back babies), you might be interested in this advice, which I've taken from a hand-out from our NCT class:

OPTIMAL POSITIONING

This information is to encourage your baby to go into the ideal position for birth before labour begins. If your baby is coming head first and a single baby (not multiple pregnancies), then from 34 weeks onwards this advice is given to encourage your baby to lie with his or her back to your left side/front, encouraging your baby to engage, thereby enjoying as normal and straightforward a birth as possible.

Please note this advice is only meant to complement your antenatal care, and may not be suitable for all women or all pregnancies. Always consult your childbirth/health professionals.

DO:

-Regularly use upright and forward leaning postures. This allows more available space in the pelvis for your baby to turn.

-Sit with knees lower than hips, with back straight as possible. Use pillows or cushions under the bottom and in the small of the back.

-Sit to read on a dining chair with elbows resting on dining table, knees apart, leaning slightly forward. (Similar posture used when sitting on the loo!)

-Sit facing chair back and resting arms on back of dining chair.

-Kneel on the floor leaning over a large beanbag or floor cushion to watch T.V.

-Use an office stool or Pregnancy Comfort Rocker. Make sure knee pad is wider than seat to allow knees to be kept wide apart and hips to turn outwards.

-Put a wedge cushion under bottom when driving.

-Swim with abdomen forward.

-When resting/ sleeping, lie on your side, preferably left, with a pillow between the legs, the top knee resting on the bed.

IT IS IDEAL TO USE FORWARD LEANING POSTURES WHEN HAVING BRAXTON HICKS (PRACTICE CONTRACTIONS) AS THIS INCREASES THEIR EFFECTIVENESS WITH REGARD TO HELPING THE BABY MANOEUVER HIMSELF INTO THE OPTIMUM POSITION.

DON?T:

-Relax in semi-reclining positions that have your knees higher than your hips.

-Take long trips in cars with bucket seats. If you must, use wedge cushion as above.

-Sit with legs crossed.

-Use squatting as an exercise in late pregnancy as this may force the baby?s head into the pelvis before it is in the correct position.

USEFUL POSITIONS DURING LABOUR (SOME CAN WORK WELL IN A BIRTHING POOL)

-If possible stay on your feet, leaning forward and rocking hips side to side/ up and down with each contraction.

-Keep your bottom wiggling during contractions!

-Lean forwards over a beanbag.

-Hang onto something with arms well above waist height (eg partner?s neck!) and let your body sag, turning knees outward.

-Sit your partner on a chair, kneel on the floor knees apart, and lean on his thighs. (This is great because he can rub your back. at the same time!)

-Get on all fours either on bed or floor, whichever you prefer.

-If you are on the bed, lie on your side. Preferably left.

TRY TO AVOID LYING ON YOUR BACK IN A RECLINING POSITION IN BED.

N.B. - Effective labour has only begun when your tummy changes shape with each contraction.

Thornykate · 17/05/2011 20:09

hi all hope everyone is ok today?

nurse great minds think alike Grin I think it is moufflon who has outed herself as a reflexilogist & aromatherapist... Hope you are well mouflon & if you aren't too busy preparing to deliver pls share any bringing on labour tips; I heard clary sage helps but I can't add it to a bath as the bathroom still hasn't been fitted so only have en suite shower at the mo.

star good luck with emcs next week, be sure to let us know how you get on you must be b excited!

goodvibrations still thinking of you hope all is well.

leroy hope you are well & can pop back on here under new name whenever is possible. Maybe if you wanted to pm a few of us we could share your new name by pm to keep you anonymous IYKWIM? Please take care anyway but it would be a shame to lose you from the June gang xxx

Congratulations to cameli I hope you are recovering well, look forward to hear how you are getting on, love the name you have chosen too.

crazy sorry to hear your health isn't too good hope it all works out treatment wise after baby.

Clarkiee I think what Joanne said is so true, the best parenting choices are not often the easiest, rest as much as you can you are only human & are under an awful lot of physical & mental strain at the moment so pls be kind to yourself & be proud of what you have achieved so far x

nmh hope the cough is easing, I agree the library might be a good place for your DP, it keeps a good home/ work divide too.

petitech re hairdryer I think it depends how long you are staying & if you have a private room. I am planning to have updo's if I am in hosp for any length of time as it will Only take me 5 minutes Grin

Glad all is well after fall gillzz

Millie I loved your birth story & can completely identify with going into your own world; I am 99% sure I will be going to hosp alone this time but am fine with that as I prefer to be focused on the labour & find hand holding, back rubbing etc a bit irritating when I am in pain. I know I am in the minority with that though!

My nearest to due date buddies I think without checking stats thread are BP & barbie (well done on finishing exams btw!) are you feeling as slow as I am by now? Edd is in 9 days although that seems far too close so I have decided to say baby will be here within 23 days as that counts for up to 2 wks overdue!

sasa I know how you feel about reading everything then forgetting & being too tired to post anyway :) hope you are getting as much rest as possible! And that's good news that LO has turned; are we all out of the breech club now?

knackered hope you choose a huge photo to be framed regardless of DP; it's a beautiful keepsake for you & the kids anyway... Men are so odd sometimes! He'll probably be dead proud of it when it's on display & people comment on how cool it is anyway.

Jasmine sorry to hear about your grandad, hope the funeral goes as well as can be.

And more wedding congratulations to mrsnoggin :) when is the big day?

So sorry for what I have missed out. The kids have broken the final laptop charger so am limited to my phone. Not good seeing as eldest has gcse revision to do & I have work stuff pending too.

Am still v grumpy. DP has pissed me off this week & even though i am struggling with the kids (too messy/ arguing with each other/ not doing homework/ revision / chores unless I am sat over their shoulder) he is due back home on Sat but I don't even feel like seeing his face, feel like my whole family are taking me for granted & do nothing for me.

DS1 is stressing me out too, am worried about him but feel uncomfortable around him again too as he is back to staying up all night & prowling around snapping at everyone. Maybe it's exam stress not helping but I am spending every evening sat in my bedroom rather than in the lounge as soon as the youngest are in bed. Think the whole family is out of synch & I haven't got anything left in me to pull everyone back together right now. Wow sorry for big depressing offload post! Only a couple of weeks & maybe the baby will put us all on the right track again :) hope so!

mouffloncake · 17/05/2011 20:27

Hey :) Decided to be induced today as it's been 72hrs since waters breaking & 95% of women would have started labour by now :/ Had pessary at 4 & going on drip at 10 tonight. Apparently been having mild contractions & was 1.5cm dilated at 4 when they gave me the pessary. Scored an 8 on the Bishops scale go looking good :) xx

jasmine51 · 17/05/2011 20:35

Good luck Moufflon...looking forward to hearing about a new minimoufflon tomorrow morning! x

Thornykate · 17/05/2011 20:36

Lol that will teach me to save everything up & write huge long posts; by the time I got it written & posted everybody has moved on!

Good to see you prisoner & sorry about the examination gv makes my eyes water just thinking about it :(

moufflon all stations are go now! Can't wait for next installment, good luck!

takethatlady · 17/05/2011 20:36

Oh moufflon how exciting. Good luck!!! Will be thinking of you!

Congrats bprincess- sorry for missing you before :)

Hope you're feeling better soon kate.

Sounds like we're going to get lots of babies on here soon!

I have had on-and-off period-style cramps for the last four hours. Do you think they could be BH/baby-engaging pains? Feeling like crap this week - not emotionally, just physically. Only 34+2 so feeling a long way behind everyone else!

takethatlady · 17/05/2011 20:37

PS prisoner we've been thinking of you - hope all is okay :)

Thornykate · 17/05/2011 20:43

ttl I have been having same sort of niggly period pains & bh on & off for past 5 days or so but nothing else. Its all new to me too as never had these with the other 3.

Check too that you are not dehydrated as I'm sure that's 1 of the things that gave me contractions at 35 wks.

Hopefully all will die down & it's just the body preparing itself :)

Milliemuffin · 17/05/2011 20:43

Thorny Sorry to hear you're so stressed, I'd be the same in your situation. Hope you feel better soon xx

Moufflon Thanks for keeping us informed! Hope you have a painful (in a good way!) but successful night! :)

I forgot to say but I saw my MW yesterday (was 33+4). Baby is head down but not engaged and the heart rate is about 156, faster than DDs of 150 so the midwives think it's another girl. We're happy either way, part of me would like another boy as DD is still like a big baby herself (17m) whereas DS is nearly 4 but we would love another girl so we'll see, as long as it's healthy we'll be over the moon either way :)

Milliemuffin · 17/05/2011 20:52

I'm seeing Peter Kay 3 weeks today! :) Not looking forward to the tiny seats and being so high up at the O2 but I'm hoping to have a good night as it'll probably be my last one out for a while! It's my 32nd birthday 2 days before so I'm hoping for a good week that week!

Today's been my first day of BHs throughout the day, usually it's a couple in the morning then again in the evening but I've had lots today. I've drank lots but didn't drink much yesterday so it might just be because of that.

I've had bad rib pain on the top right with all 3 of my pregnancies and the two main things I'm looking forward to getting rid of are rib pain and acid indigestion!! Even Gaviscon has stopped working now, think I've had so much I've become immune!

BarbieLovesKen · 17/05/2011 21:11

Thank a million all Smile.

Oh My God Moufflon, I am so excited - keep us posted, wont you? (as Mumsnet is bound to be foremost in your mind Hmm). Ill be waiting for an update and news of a gorgeous baby with bated breath. Wishing you a lovely, "easy" and straightforward labour.

Neenewps" Aaaargh I love the site you posted! Have* to spend money I dont have now!!! Grin

Kate, Im sorry to hear your so stressed, I hope things start improving and everyone starts pulling their weight. Very frustrating to live in a house of X amount with only one doing most of the work!!! (believe me, I know but cant exactly kick ds's bum just yet - being 16 months). I love your "baby will be hear in 23 days" idea. I think Im going to steal that. Am too really slow and tired and struggling yet (again) I really, really dont want this baby to come just yet (very very strange for me, given that, in fairness, I think I've been the biggest moan in this club since the beginning and have made no secret about my dislike of pregnancy. Am due 28th May (was originally the 1st June by LMP but 2 dating scans sent me to the 28th), so 10ish days by my calculations.

Is anyone desperate to clean and nest etc. but literally cant? I am so tired. This is probably why I want baby to delay arriving, I want everything ready and perfect Hmm Grin

prisoner I have no idea what happened as I completely missed the thread but are you ok now? have been worried from what I've read on here. Oh and for what its worth, am 38+3 and still have not packed bag. Dont feel too bad.

BarbieLovesKen · 17/05/2011 21:20

I really need glasses. Millie I read that quickly and got "I will be sleeping with Peter Kay 3 weeks from today" Grin

(Love Peter Kay by the way). Am completely with you on the rib pain and acid indigestion. I currently get through one large bottle of gaviscon per day (at a fiver a pop Angry) and remember after my dd telling dh "theres something wrong with me.. honest.. there is" until I realised it was that I didnt have indigestion Grin. Rib pain (only on the right) with dd and this one has been a nightmare (not with ds but he was breach until week 37ish) I think this current little one has her leg stuck under my rib, if that makes sense. It hurts if I bend or sleep crooked as I think it inserts it in further.. coupled with the spd (which particulary seizes me up at night) and having to pee so much in the night, sleep has been a nightmare. bet your glad you prompted that moan, arent ya? Grin

BPrincess · 17/05/2011 21:21

Perpetual thanks so much for posting those tips. I've been lying on my left side while watching TV and in a min will get on all fours for ao bit. Tomorrow will go for a swim and see how that helps.

Moufflon GOOD LUCK!!!!! Cheering you on from the side here.

Thorny yes, I'm feeling slow and heavy. Made worse by midwife saying I now have to be more active to get this troublesome madam back the right way round. Hmmph! 10 days to EDD! Eeek!

Wishing everyone a comfortable night's sleep (apart from Moufflon, who I'm wishing a safe and speedy delivery!)

HalleLouja · 17/05/2011 21:41

Good luck moufflon.

NurseSunshine · 17/05/2011 21:49

Good luck Moufflon!!!!

8rubberduckies · 17/05/2011 22:01

Go,go,go Moufflon! Will be thinking of you tonight, looking forward to hearing your news tomorow!

I trained as an aromatherapist 10 years ago, and yes, Clary Sage is a good oil for starting labour. Jasmine is also a great oil for using during childbirth and after baby arrives. It is pricy but smells amazing, and helps with all sorts of aspects of delivery and labour, and also helps bring on your breast milk. Lavender is also a good all-rounder. If you don't have access to a bath you can pop a couple of drops in a saucer of water and put this on a radiator, or add a drop or two to 5ml of a base oil such as almond oil or another light vegetable oil and massage it into your skin. Alternatively, inhale a drop or two of the oil you choose off of a tissue (especially good whilst in labour). If you want to use a mixture of two or three oils in a massage oil blend them together first, do not use a drop or two of each one at once, IYSWIM.

Hope you're ok Prisoner.

sasamaxx · 17/05/2011 22:05

This thread is totally out of control lol

First of all, great to hear you're OK prisoner - I missed the thread too so no idea what has been going on but great you're still around and OK.

Good luck moufflon will be thinking about you during the night!

moog OP means back-to-back
BPrincess my baby is back-to-back too as was DD so I'm thinking that I probably can't change anything anyway - most of them do turn - only a very small proportion stay that way and are born face up (like DD was)

TTL and Thornykate I've been having mild period pains too - really not sure what they are and I haven't the faintest idea what a BH feels like anyway lol

Thornykate I think Jasmine may still be in the breech club

Perpetual Provocateur thanks for all the OP-turning tips

GV sorry about that horrible internal exam - how rubbish for you Sad

Crazychic hope whatever the problem is doesn't mean you need to have a CS

TTL Isobel is beautiful and definitely the best spelling. Mind you, I'm biased because my mum is Isobel Wink

I have just had a nice tub of freshly prepared sainsbury's pineapple - £1 at the moment instead of £1.50 so pick up a couple if you're in ladies.
I have half packed my hospital bag now, so getting there slowly.

sasamaxx · 17/05/2011 22:07

8rubberduckies and anyone else who is an aromatherapist - I LOVED aromatherapy in my last labour and was going to start using some rose fairly soon as I heard it's also good for starting labour - is this true, or did I make it up???

MrsNoggin · 17/05/2011 22:11

Good luck Moufflon, cheering with BP here andd awaiting the next exciting installment!

Thank you for the TENS link, whoever it was! Having a mind blank as to your identity, but will pop on tomorrow and sort mine out. I was going to go with Boots, as they are fairly local, but it is £29.99 plus a £25 deposit, which feels a lot in comparison when trying to save.

Wedding is on 27th, Thorny, so wish me luck, or whatever it is you do for weddings... I'm sure it's not break a leg!

Does anybody else have days when they just can't seem to get up and do anything? I've had a couple of them in a row. Had a nap this morning Shock - achieved by putting Peppa Pig DVD on for DD and sneaking onto the kitchen sofa. Didn't mean to sleep, but managed five minutes unconsciousness, then tuned back in to hear Peppa talking to the dentist/ Father Xmas/ Madam Gazelle and then back to unconsciousness a few times. I just can't seem to stand up and do anything substantial without feeling exhausted and even a bit dizzy. I've developed a phobia of supermarket shopping because once I'm standing at the till and I stop moving I need to lie down! Only 35ish weeks -don't remember this from last time and can't imagine surviving another month of it! I worked all the way through last time, so surely this isn't normal?!

Milliemuffin · 17/05/2011 22:15

Barbie you do make me laugh. Moan all you like. I don't think my rib pain is because of baby's position though, it's been a constant pain for over a month regardless of mine or baby's position, just always hurts.

Night all xx

Milliemuffin · 17/05/2011 22:21

MrsNoggin - any chance you could be anaemic? I felt like that with DS and they put me on iron tablets. If not maybe it's just your body's way of getting you to slow down. Hope you feel better soon xx

NurseSunshine · 17/05/2011 22:22

8rd can you use a couple of different ones together in an oil burner? Such as jasmine and clary sage for example? Would you just put 2-3 drops of each into the burner?

MrsNoggin · 17/05/2011 22:36

I hope not Millie, I really don't fancy bunging myself up even more with iron tabs. MW said my last lot of bloods were a bit borderline and told me to eat MEAT! So I have had red meat far too much and bulked up on green veggies. It was a treat at the beginning, but TBH now it's making my teeth hurt. Also taking pro-natal vits and drinking the odd mug of ovaltine, so surely I can only be getting more metallic.

And thank you for the concern! It's nice to feel cared for. DH is of the opinion that as we've done this all before I shouldn't moan this time! Grin

And hello PrisonerZ, I managed to completely miss you before my last post. I'm a bit ignorant about what went on, but everyone hoping you were ok worried me. Hope you're okay Wink.

8rubberduckies · 17/05/2011 22:38

MrsNoggin I feel your pain - I often have days like that! I thought I may be anaemic a few weeks ago, and was very dissappointed after a blood test to find out I was just lazy exhausted. I also think it is a good sign that we need to slow down when our bodies give up on us like that. I am trying to listen to my energy levels more now and put my feet up when I can instead of battling on through.

Nurse you certainly can use different oils together in an oil burner, just it is not a good idea to use more than 1 or 2 drops per 5 ml of massage oil in total directly on your skin, as some oils can irritate your skin if you use too much. I would only use a maximum of six drops in total in an oil burner, otherwise it may be a bit overpowering. If using in a baby or child's room I would only use 1 or 2 drops in total.

Sasamaxx I forgot about rose (well, it has been ten years since my training and 5 since I practised Blush). It is a great oil for all things ladyish, and therefore a lovely oil to use during labour. I can't remember if it is good for bringing on labour or not, I can check in my books tomorrow, unless someone who knows their stuff better than do I comes along in the interim.

Off to bed now... night all...

sasamaxx · 17/05/2011 22:40

LOL MrsNoggin you have exactly described many of my half-awake states over the last few months.
Many's the time I have drifted in and out of consciousness to a Peppa Pig soundtrack, with that funny french music plinky plonking in the background of strange dreams.

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