Oh don't get me wrong nickel, I think it is a massive load of bollocks as well and have been cringing recently on a cloth nappy forum when people say things like 'I love that [whatever] brand nappy but is the colour too girly to put on my boy?' As if it matters fgs, they're utility items for catching shit and piss.
I just meant that worrying what other people might assume about your choice of decor or whatever is totally pointless. YOU know why you're doing or not doing something with respect to your child, who gives a shit what anyone else might choose to infer?
My DS has had pink sleeping bags, a pink buggy, pink nappies, all sorts. He doesn't care (in fact he loved his pink buggy). A female friend once came over, saw it in the hall and said 'you did have a boy, right?', all agog. I gave her this face 
When my DD is here I really hope we can avoid the worst of the unicorn vomit avalanche from well-meaning friends and family, but we'll see what happens. She will certainly have access to whatever type of toy she wants to play with, same as DS. I also look forward to dressing her in most of his cast-offs [cheap]