Hiya, we are very excited to be expecting our second baby. Our first is 11 months old and second baby will be due in Dec. We wanted a small age gap between them as we only want two and hope they might grow close. The thing is, we have 2 friends who are trying to conceive and have for a long time. We hadn't made it knowledge that we were trying again- we fell pregnant in the first month of trying- so very quick. I know my friends will be happy for us but I'm so worried about telling them. I don't want to cause them further heartache. How best to announce?