my dad died last year after a house fire which was devastating for us,my sister and me didn't get on until this tragedy.but since then itbought us together.any way its my 40th birthday and this morning i received a parcel from my sister, in it was a silver framed photo of my dad in his 30,s with a big smile on his face raising his large beer glass, (he was 73 when he died) it was such alovely photo but bittersweetso im delighted but sad that hes not here to see me reach 40.she also sold his motor bike which had been sitting in his garden for over a decade and sent me £100,i dont want to waste this on rubbish but a keepsake to keep as a reminder of dad any ideas please im gobsmacked and so grateful to my sister for the thought she put into this especially as her job is on the line at present