Hi this is gingerinos sister. She started a tread re my husband that was dying of cancer. First of all i would like to thank all those that answered with their thoughts and well wishes. And to those that saw but did not know what to say, because one thing i have learnt from this experience is that it is a subject matter that people may not know what to say. I also have to say i would want to have my sis on my side if i was ill. she does not leave a stone un turned. When my husband was told it had come back and there was no hope we did look at all options, but at that time i also started to prepare myself for what was going to happen. He had the most peaceful passing. The last 24hrs were the only ones that he was really not with us. All ours prayers were meant for this ending. Again thank you all for your thoughts