The Sunflower Thread for bereaved mummies. For Gareth and Matthew - only a whisper away

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Hello my new friends.

Come in, pull up a chair and have a gab

Have sorted our two Jacks out on my list!!

Hope everyone is OK - the sun has vanished in Bolton once again xx

girls the man was called steven holbrook,he does different venues and cruises ,but honestly he knew everything down to a mark on jayden body,he was laughing at the apple tree,he knew we tried to shut his eyes,and he didnt want them shut ,he wanted to see us,recently you may remember my friend died ,he knew i asked at her furneral,please look after our little man,what she died of and that she liked me cos i say what i mean ,im gobby.
he said 25 was coming up ,an important thing,no no said dd 24 is important,he insisted it was 25 omg i said its my 25 wedding anniverary soon,
he also drew letter a.who he watches over,thats amelia, lots of other things im still shocked ,and i slept so well last nitexx

Hazy, will make a note of his name and keep an eye out. I would love to experience something like that. Even if I didn't hear anything from Eris but from someone else I would at least know there is life after death and that she is still living on somewhere.

FMN - I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that Eris and all our wonderful children are Only a whisper away....xxx

Thanks Lottie for the website-i dont always think of the obvious things! I shouwed DH and we will definatly get some trees for Jack and theres a woods near to us where they can be planted. Youve really made my day.
Hazy- I looked on his website and he will be local to me in oct so mite go then- but not sure if DH is into that sort of stuff (when it concrens our own son anyway) so will have to have a 'tactful' chat later with him- hes too busy on his x box ATM.

Mel...i am glad to help..... we have a lovely wood near us where we go and walk! Ive just got in from the wedding reception girls! I had a total ball. Got my bum pinched by a 27 year old so had to return the favour! [wink !! thats as near to a rave as i get FMN!!! Steph the bride looked soooooooooooooo beautiful and her husband Nick cried when he said his vows! A truly wonderful day! Nite Nite all xxxxxx ps No shouting in the morning please!! Be gentle with me!! ! I know I know! there is always one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Morning my lovelys - sounds like a great night Lottie! xx

The wedding sounds great Lottie, but in your hungover state make sure you read the Sunday Mail - you're famous!!!

Morning Moveit - we only get the 'mucky' papers with all the gossip in!!

Whats Lottie done???? Link me to it please, please - aw go on you know you want to!

I had a letter printed praising Daniel Radcliffe for speaking out and saying he has dyspraxia. They have taken a lot out and altered what i said somewhat but most of what i wanted to say was there.

I can't believe they have edited your letter, I'm really quite that they have done that.

I read the letter and the information in it was seeming more and more familiar, then when I saw who it was from and where you are from, it clicked!

Blimey my pelvis and lower back ache today - it feels like I've got someone's head shoved in my pelvis

Well done Lottie!!

Move it - do I need to boil and kettle and get some towels??

How amazing would it be if you went into labour and carried on posting here?????

I was once on a thread for the whole day whilst a MN lady went through all the stages of labour. She had a home delivery and put the pictures on the next day. I was knackered by the time the baby arrived

Dont expect you to do all that

This was the original letter that i sent....

Three cheers for Daniel Radcliffe for speaking out about suffering from dyspraxia. My son and I are both dyspraxic. I did very badly in my school exams and now in hindsight i know that i should never have done O Levels because i couldnt plan, execute and write down what i wanted to say in my essays, if however i had done CSE's which were mainly one word answers i would probably have fared much better. I have failed six driving tests and have now given up trying to learn. I hate giving people directions because i have difficulty remembering my right and my left.In my sons case he is very clumsy too, he also has difficulties with left and right and at 12 years old still has stabilisers on his bicycle. He is also profoundly deaf which also affects his balance. I had to fight tooth and nail to get dyspraxia put on his Statement of Educational Needs as the authorities dont like "labelling" children. With my son it was an unusual case as all the therapies he needed were in place but the actual word "dyspraxia" however was not on the statement which meant that if my son changed school we would have to start the whole process all over again. Dyspraxia was added to my son's statement two years ago.Dyspraxia is called a "hidden handicap" because people cant see it. More people need to know what it is and how to help sufferers. I salute Daniel for bringing this condition to a wider audience.Yours

WOW Lottie - great letter. xx

Thanks shame they didnt publish the whole letter

Well done Lottie!! You're famous!! But how's the head.....?

Ilike, that feeling that you have someone head shoved in your pelvis...well...it's, erm, because......erm....you've got someone head shoved in your pelvis!!

The head is fine! I cant believe that I grabbed that lads bum though! My only thoughts are that he did it first!

Forgot to say it was so lovely at the wedding the bride and groom went back up the aisle to Better Together by Jack Johnson. Such a COOOOOOOL song!

Evening all xxxxx

Hiya Lottie xxx

Hope you are ok Shabs... i spent the afternoon cooking. Then what was left from our tea i take to a friend of mine... i call him my food refugee.. he isnt a refugee though lol...... i just dont like food being wasted.

You sound like me Lottie!! I fed my son, his partner and the three of us from nothing!!! It was a real hotchpotch of grub but every plate was cleaned up and nobody seemed to mind

Morning ladies... I have another Wilf free day! He is off out with his Aunt Bee. Along with his cousin and his friends they are off to Castle Rising for the day, then they are camping at my mums tonight. I tried camping with him there once and i said it would be a cold night in hell before i did it again!
I found this poem girls... i think it is beautiful.
www.jtsma.org.uk/inspirations_babycastle.html

Morning Lottie.

That is a beautiful poem - I think Doris Stokes (the medium) wrote it originally. Im not 100% sure but I know she lost a son when he was a few months old and that poem was in one of her books.

Camping with Wilf?? ROFL.

I found it in one of her books Shabs. The last time Wilf camped at Mums he spent the whole night hollering down the garden for me which meant i had to thunder up and down the lawn in the dark with a torch treading on windfalls and falling everywhere.. The thing that finished me off completely was waking up at 1am with his face close to mine, I screamed the place down,,, his reason "I want the loo Mummy"!!! Never ever again!!