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Catsmart · 02/05/2025 17:48

Got my mum's ashes today at least she is with me

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ibe · 02/05/2025 17:59

sorry for your loss 💐

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 02/05/2025 18:25

Sorry hun 💐
Do you have any plans for them?

Catsmart · 03/05/2025 00:19

ibe · 02/05/2025 17:59

sorry for your loss 💐

Thank you for your reply hope you are ok

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Catsmart · 03/05/2025 00:23

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 02/05/2025 18:25

Sorry hun 💐
Do you have any plans for them?

Thank you I'm in limbo at present trying to think of something special for my mum ashestske care hun

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HereintheloveofChristIstand · 03/05/2025 00:39

I am so very sorry. It is so hard. Two years ago today we had the funeral of my beloved grandmother. I just scattered hers about a month ago so do take your time and don’t let anyone pressure you into deciding what to do.
Take care OP

Catsmart · 03/05/2025 20:27

HereintheloveofChristIstand · 03/05/2025 00:39

I am so very sorry. It is so hard. Two years ago today we had the funeral of my beloved grandmother. I just scattered hers about a month ago so do take your time and don’t let anyone pressure you into deciding what to do.
Take care OP

Thank you will think of something or I'm hoping she will tell me when she's is ready take care

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Mum2jenny · 03/05/2025 22:02

I scattered my mums ashes at the same crematorium as she scattered my dfs ashes. It was what she wanted. I scattered them in the wild wooded area of the crematorium grounds.
And I still miss her every day.
Sorry for your loss, and there is no hurry to decide what you want to do with your dms ashes

Catsmart · 04/05/2025 09:52

Mum2jenny · 03/05/2025 22:02

I scattered my mums ashes at the same crematorium as she scattered my dfs ashes. It was what she wanted. I scattered them in the wild wooded area of the crematorium grounds.
And I still miss her every day.
Sorry for your loss, and there is no hurry to decide what you want to do with your dms ashes

I'm still in limbo hoping something will pop into my mind and say that's the best place take care 💅

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