our mum died 18 months ago. I haven’t seen my sister since the day our mum died. Tried lots of times to arrange to meet up, but it just hasn’t happened. Her son goes to uni 5 miles down the road from me and I keep asking her to drop in when she picks him up for the weekend or whatever. But she doesn’t. Obviously, she’s avoiding me. If I mention it there’s always an excuse. Working, just a flying visit to collect/drop off son etc etc. I’ve listed this post under bereavement as I feel her reaction stems from our mother’s death. Any thoughts?