My mum has lived abroad for many years. My sister lives with her as she has been through a divorce and health difficulties. My mum was rushed to hospital after a blood clot and was in intensive care for while. My sister suggested I say goodbye to my mum over the phone as she was deteriorating. I didn’t have long to think about it as she immediately put the phone to my unconscious mums ear. It was so traumatic. I know my sister was doing her best in awful circumstances but I’m having problems getting over it. My mum died the next day.