Hi All, I wonder if you can help me. Some years ago I found a poem via Mumsnet after I had my miscarriage which helped me a great deal. It was only about four lines long and was an expression of how although not with us for long, the child was very much part of us. I think it had the words 'but for us you lived and died' but I could be wrong. I did print it out and gave copies to several friends who have been through the same thing. Now my cousin has had a miscarriage at 20 weeks I would like to send her a copy - and as usual, I cannot find my copy. I just hope it tugs memories and someone can lay their hands on it for me.
Many thanks for your help.