My childrens Dad died yesterday.

[grecianurn82]

We've been separated over 4 years but spoke almost every day. He looked after the children in my house while i worked. I hadn't heard from him in a few days and his phone was off so i asked the police to break in, no one else had keys. They did and found him. Its surreal. I'm so lost.

[gogohm]

So sorry, sad for you all

[blacktiger]

I saw your post yesterday. I'm so sorry for you and your children's loss. Do the children knew yet?

[stairgates]

Oh no this is so sad:( Do the police know what happened.

[Kshhuxnxk]

I read your other post but didn't have an opportunity to post. That's so sad and I'm sorry for everyones loss.

[Debsdonein]

Sorry for you loss. Thinking of you all.

[choochoomama]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can understand why you feel so lost.

[Frgalone]

I'm very sorry for your loss I too saw your post yesterday. I'm relieved for you that the police found him, and not a family member.
Very best wishes to you

[SnowdropSally]

I saw your post yesterday. I’m terribly sorry for your loss, it must be so difficult for you and the children.

[Sonata13]

Oh you poor thing, my heart felt sympathy goes out to you. I know you will be so brave for your children because that's what mother's do. But please look after yourself too. Know that this will get easier, minute by minute, hour by hour, one baby step at a time. Sending you a huge hug .

[QuornSausagesAreTheDevilsPenis]

Oh my goodness what an awful shock. So sorry for your loss

[grecianurn82]

It looks like it was a sudden heart attack. Post mortem has been done so just waiting to hear. The children know but don't understand, they both have autism and ID. Ive told them but they didn't really respond.

[reallyworriedjobhunter]

I also saw your post yesterday. I'm so sorry. I hope you and your kids are managing to get through the day. Have you got some RL support?

[RagzReturnedUnwrapped]

So sorry for your loss, I saw your thread yesterday and the update. Such awful news and terrible timing. I hope you have some real life support xx

[PermanentTemporary]

I'm so sorry. Would you contact your GP? What a terrible shock.

[loislovesstewie]

I'm so sorry, I saw your other post and was hoping he was OK. My sympathies to all of you.

[NataliaSerene]

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending strength and prayers

[MolkosTeenageAngst]

I’m so sorry for your loss.

[hairymclarey152]

So sorry I saw this yesterday and thought about you all x

[FlowersFlowersEverywhere]

Oh gosh I saw your post yesterday, so glad you managed to get the police to go and check on him, at least you know. There are some very good story books on bereavement for young children, which we used with my son when my mum died - good for helping young children vocalise their loss

[Fluffyfluffyclouds]

Oh you poor thing OP.
My BiL died suddenly years ago, some similar circumstances. It was awful but it didn't destroy the lives of his kids or his ex; they are all ok now and living well. People are amazingly resilient.
Sending very heartfelt good wishes your way.

[Mummyoflittledragon]

I am so sorry. Poor you. Your poor kids. Big hugs.

[Mydogmylife]

@FreeBritnee

Oh my gosh I'm so sorry OP. I read your post yesterday and hoped your worries were unfounded. What a time to make the decision to end your life. So heartbreaking.

I don't think it was a decision taken, it was a heart attack.

[Garysmum]

I am deeply and truly sorry.

[ChiefStockingStuffer]

I saw your post yesterday as well, OP. I'm so sorry.