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Happierwithouthim · 15/11/2021 22:15

My username doesn't refer to my bf but me ex husband.

Tomorrow it will be a week since my boyfriend passed away suddenly.
We don't yet know what happened but presume a massive heart attack.
We didn't live together, he lived with his elderly mother & I recently bought a home for my dc & I following my separation and subsequent divorce

My boyfriend & I worked at the same place, I cannot imagine facing the place without him there.

I'm lonely at night even though he only spent one night a week here, and not even consistently.

He was my soulmate, he showed me how good a relationship could be when two people love each other. My children loved him too.

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Sarahlou63 · 15/11/2021 22:19

I'm so sorry, you must be devastated. Are you in touch with his mother and your colleagues? Sharing thoughts, memories and stories about him might help all of you.

badlydrawnbear · 15/11/2021 22:22

I am so sorry for your loss. My DH died 8 weeks ago suddenly and unexpectedly. We still don’t know why. It makes it hard to process when it is so sudden and doesn’t make sense. It will be hard going back to work and him not being there as well as missing him at home. Do you have friends and family to support you?

Happierwithouthim · 16/11/2021 00:04

I've got plenty of support.

If he only knew how much he was loved.

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