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LukesLaw · 31/08/2021 18:26

I recently lost my husband, Luke, to suicide. He took his own life, which was completely out of the blue and I would never in a million years would have thought that my husband was capable of leaving this world by taking his own life. Luke and I were happily married soul mates, who met at school in 1992, with two beautiful children together.

Luke, had been furloughed at the end of October and developed a gambling disorder, which quickly got out of control. He ended up in debt and was probably very scared about how he was going to pay it back. He took his life 22nd April 2021.

I had no idea that Luke had been betting until 3 weeks after Luke's death when the police gave me his phone back. It quickly became very apparent that he was consumed, and knowing Luke, he wouldn't have not known how to tell me.

I have set up a petition asking the government to ban 'free bets', which are not free and can be extremely harmful to someone like my husband who shouldn't have had them offered to him at a time when he was furloughed and worrying about money.

Could you please sign and share the petition to help raise awareness as well as get this important issue of gambling inducements raised in parliament. It really needs to be debated with the possibility of law changing to help protect others from gambling harm and gambling related suicide.

petition.parliament.uk/petitions/587806

Thank you for reading.

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CoopersHawke · 01/09/2021 16:59

Signed. My condolences to you and your children.

Fradishes · 01/09/2021 17:09

Signed. I am so sorry for your loss.

buckeejit · 06/09/2021 17:57

I'm so sorry for your loss. Signed x

WinterCarlisle · 06/09/2021 17:59

Signed, sending you love and light

MadeForThis · 06/09/2021 18:00

Signed

WeAllHaveWings · 06/09/2021 18:09

Signed.

I have a BIL who attends GA after SIL found he lost over £20k of his redundancy money by online gambling in the space of a few months.

It is terrifying how quickly it can get out of hand and the lack of controls in place to protect users.

I am particularly sensitive to ds picking up the gambling "buzz" from gaming, especially Fifa and their player packs.

So sorry for your loss.

GenMatria · 06/09/2021 18:26

Signed xx

LukesLaw · 06/09/2021 18:28

Thank you. I thought this thread had been deleted.
Thank you for signing

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buckeejit · 06/09/2021 18:51

@LukesLaw I know you've already got a lot of signatures - you've done a great job, but as the bereavement topic is not so poplular, you could add the post to aibu. Good luck to you &!" Go easy on yourself x

Igmum · 06/09/2021 18:55

Signed. So sorry for your loss Thanks

LukesLaw · 06/09/2021 18:55

I got a message saying not to keep posting it. I thought this one had been deleted too tbh.

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LittleBear21 · 06/09/2021 19:23

Signed. Sorry for you loss xxx

buckeejit · 06/09/2021 21:07

Agh, sorry to hear that. Hopeful bump here but glad you've got it to government stage

Sattherelikealemon · 06/09/2021 21:11

Signed. So sorry for your loss Flowers

katy1111 · 08/09/2021 23:55

Signed. So sorry for your loss. The gambling industry prays on the vulnerable unashamedly and this needs stopping ASAP.

Anordinarymum · 08/09/2021 23:57

Sorry for your loss. Look after yourself

elvis4nuts · 09/09/2021 07:16

Signed and shared to some of my friends.
Gambling addiction is something that has effected my family too.
I'm so sorry xxxxxxxxx

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