A friend of mine had recently lost her ex dp (ds father) to suicide. She is hurt as she's lost the father of her child even though they have been separated for years and her son is distraught at the loss of his father (they did have a relationship). Is sending a card enough? I want to help in someway and can't think of how, I know this isn't about me so is it best if I keep a distance? I've never lost a close family member and can't even imagine the grief they are feeling so don't want to over step.