This has made me feel so sad. Tom reminds me of my darling Matthew, so similar in looks. Matthew was my only child at that time, he collapsed and died in my garden in June 1994, to this day we have no medical explanation as to why he died. Its the worst thing that can ever happen to you as a parent, my life changed forever on that day, and 13 years later I miss him, cry for him and still ask WHY?