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essanel · 27/10/2007 09:37

Hi everyone - just needed someone to talk to- i had posted this earlier in the year mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=9&threadid=338381#6865491..and my brother called yesterday to say that at scan they could only find one heartbeat. i am so gutted for them and feel so helpless.. apologies but dont know what else to do.

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 27/10/2007 09:39

Oh I'm so sorry

essanel · 27/10/2007 09:46

Thanks VVV - i know this is not a nice story for a saturday morning but i didn't know where else to go.

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Kif · 27/10/2007 09:47

how far along is she?

lomondgore · 27/10/2007 09:47

I am so sorry, that's so sad

LilBloodRedWantsGore · 27/10/2007 09:51

Sorry to hear your news.

essanel · 27/10/2007 09:52

33 weeks. i think thats why its so upsetting as we thought they were passed the crucial stage. We had also agreed to tell my dd who is 4 about them just a few weeks ago. thanks again as i know it is a horrible thing but just being able to talk about it is a relief - thanks everyone.

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goingfor3 · 27/10/2007 09:53

Thatas so sad, your family must be so upset. Does te baby with the heartbeat seem healthy?

VooJu · 27/10/2007 09:55

essanel what sad news

essanel · 27/10/2007 09:57

as far as i know .. as you can imagine details were pretty sketchy yesterday so we are waiting more information on what happens next

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BandofMutantMonsters · 27/10/2007 10:03

What happens to the surviving twin??? Gosh how horrible. I would think they will have to deliver.
Fingers crossed that they will still have one healthy baby.
(don't mean to sound callous about the second baby)
Is it possible that the heartbeat was hidden by other noise????

Kif · 27/10/2007 10:06

33 weeks - how awful. Hopefully it means that the other twin will be OK - they can induce if anything is going wrong. What sad news...

essanel · 27/10/2007 10:08

afaik there was no mistake unfortunatley - we are waiting to hear if delivery will induced just now or if they will wait -just got the news yesterday and so are waiting for further update-will post again when i know, thanks again everyone for listening/posting

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