My sister died yesterday

[Fatted]

It was expected. 37YO, diagnosed with cancer last year when unfortunately it had already spread.

But even still I can't believe that she is gone. I swing from OK to feeling very emotional. I've watched her slowly fade away for the last nine months, I can't believe it's over now. I'm sat looking at old photos of her on my phone crying my eyes out.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Even when expected when someone dies that young you can't prepare for it.

I am so sorry

I'm so sorry. Be gentle with yourself.

Oh my goodness. That is so sad OP and so young. Take comfort that she is not suffering anymore and remember the happy times you spent together.
Be kind to yourself.

I’m so sorry OP, that must have been an incredibly difficult 9 months. I hope you have someone to talk to in real life too. We’re all here for you here.

So sorry for the loss of your sister OP. Do be kind to yourself. Even when expected it can still come as a massive shock

I'm so sorry OP. That is so young - would you like to tell us about her? Sending you my condolences

I'm so sorry. I am 37 and that feels like so young. Please tell us about her, sending lots of hugs and support

I'm very sorry

So very sorry OP, she sounds lucky to have a sister like you x

I'm so sorry.

Can you tell us about your sister @Fatted?

So sorry to hear this OP
What a terrible loss - 37 is no age.

I'm so sorry for your loss, how heartbreaking. Condolences and hugs

I am so sorry - the loss of a sister is so very hard - it feels like a piece of yourself dies with them too.
Ok to cry and rage.
If you need to chat PM me - I have lost a sister too.

@Fatted what a terrible shame at such a young age. I wish you many happy memories of your beloved sister. One day you will smile at all the memories xx

I'm so very sorry. It's hard to know what to say that doesn't sound like a cliche. My sister died at 27 (I was 28). That was 25 years ago and she is still the best person I ever knew.

I hope you have someone to share your grief with.

SO sorry for your loss. Sending virtual hugs 💐

So sorry for the loss of your sister.

So sorry . There is no easy way through grief and to see your loved one struggle with illness is so tough. Be kind to yourself op.

Thank you all for your kind words. The day it happened I was numb and I think suddenly it all came out yesterday.

She was beautiful, the best of all of us, so smart and a wonderful mum to her son. It just doesn't feel fair.

So sorry, @Fatted. A sister is so precious. You sound like you loved her so much. That love won't change. Cherish the memories ❤️

I’m so sorry to hear that. She sounds lovely

So sorry for your loss, and your poor nephew.

I am so sorry for your loss

I am so sorry. You must be heartbroken.