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Bereavement

Find bereavement help and support from other Mumsnetters. See also your choices after baby loss.

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Feeling sad

16 replies

whoops · 18/09/2007 18:12

I had a m/c in March and my baby would have been due in a couple of weeks but would probably have had it early, I can't stop thinking about what I would have been doing now and how I should have been being excited but all I feel is sadness things haven't turned out as they should have
Sorry had to put it in writing to help get things out of my system

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Dior · 18/09/2007 18:13

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lulumama · 18/09/2007 18:18

why are you apologising? it's only natural to be thinking of your baby at this time...of course you are sad, you are allowed to grieve, you know

be kind to yourself, sweet, maybe do something to commemorate your baby

kimi · 18/09/2007 18:18

thinking of you.

niceglasses · 18/09/2007 18:20

Hard time for you. virtual hug

Have had 2 m/cs and is awful, feel for you.

Can you cuddle up a bit tonight and be nice to yourself.?

MaryAnnSingleton · 18/09/2007 18:20

me too

niceglasses · 18/09/2007 18:20

That wasn't a link, it was just me being dim!!

hertsnessex · 18/09/2007 18:24

whoops,

same here, my dd/ds would have been around 1yr old now - its hard, ive been thinking about it alot this past week. thinknig of you, it does get easier.

hazygirl · 18/09/2007 18:56

thinking of youx

littlelapin · 18/09/2007 18:57

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whoops · 18/09/2007 19:08

Thanks
Dh is at work so I'm going to sit in front of the telly and order a chinese in.
I never thought I would be feeling like this I though I was getting through it all

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hertsnessex · 18/09/2007 19:25

the due date is particularly hard, thinking of you whoops.

lulumama · 18/09/2007 19:45

enjoy your chinese

hugs to you to C, must be hard xx

hertsnessex · 18/09/2007 19:54

thank lulu xxx

lovelylou · 19/09/2007 14:21

Hi whoops. I am also feeling really sad at the minute. As a friend of mine was due on the same day as me and she had her baby on monday. It is normal to feel like this. I prescribe lots of wine and chocolate. Take care x

ronshar · 19/09/2007 14:27

Me too Whoops. Due 6th October and the day is begining to take over my thoughts. What I should be doing now, would I be late, the same as 2dds.
The list is endless of the things I am now making myself miserable with.
Just as I was getting myself back together as well!

Thinking of you. We will get through this. We are strong beautiful women who have survived the trauma of MC. We can survive anything.

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whoops · 19/09/2007 15:02

Thanks, it's weird how you think you're fine and getting through things and then something pops into your head to set things off again
Lovelylou I'm a bit like you I have a friend booked in for a cs on what would have been my due date so I think it was that really that has set me off.

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