Was thinking of your friend at the weekend when I bought - I think it was called Junior Pregnancy and Child Magazine - trendy looking mag with a free booklet of Natural Mothery stuff in and a thing about Fashion Faux Pas of pregnant start!! - anyway there was s piece written by a woman who had had a stillborn son - it was incredibly moving and had some good tips for helping out and how to communicate helpfully - just thought I would mention it and then maybe you could buy it and read it and see if you think it could help your friend.